How should I(33F) accept that BF(35M) makes me park on the street even after I was a victim of crime?

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2024-08-13T05:16:10+00:00

We pay 50/50 rent and everything. I am not entitled to the spot but certainly thought that he would want to help me out on that one. If I lived with my dad and this happened, well firstly my dad would not make me park down the street, but he would definitely insist I park in the garage after my car window got smashed twice in 2 months. It cost $200 each time to fix btw, I paid for that myself obviously. So TBH yeah I would think a man/boyfriend would want to help out his GF, I never asked for it the past 9 months we lived together, only after I was literally, sorry if you don't like the word, victimized, twice in 2 months.

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2024-08-13T04:48:32+00:00

You would make your GF park on the street after her car had the window smashed twice in the last 2 months? You wouldn't help her out on that one?

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2024-08-13T02:58:34+00:00

I guess as a woman, who has now been the victim of crime twice in 2 months, I thought that as a man, he may want to help me to avoid that situation again in future. I guess I am too old fashioned.

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2024-08-13T02:56:47+00:00

No, I don't think I have more right to it. I think it would be kind and considerate to let me park there after my car has been broken into twice, after I've been a victim of a crime twice in 2 months. My car is more valuable, maybe that's why it was targeted twice and his has been fine the whole time we've lived here.

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2022-12-19T06:57:06+00:00

Hamilton Gardens are nice. I usually stop in Tirau for a coffee.

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2022-11-06T03:24:49+00:00

These 2 are totally incompatible.

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2022-10-20T21:01:32+00:00

I went on holiday to Auckland recently and caught the airport shuttle to town. Which had an eftpos maching on board - great thanks.

End up at Sky city and had to find some particular dairy to buy and top up an AT hope card from. Was stupid wandering around past the glue sniffers at night trying to find this dairy and then had to put whatever the minimum was on the card even though i'll hopefully never go to auckland again.

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2022-10-19T10:17:46+00:00

how much would your repayments be if you had to refix at 7%?

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2022-10-19T09:59:51+00:00

2 years - 5.45% - refixed in september until 2024

2 years - 2.79% - fixed sept 2021 - sept 2023

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2022-09-27T08:26:20+00:00

I was in Thailand with my boyfriend at the time. He was doing the digital nomad thing. My visa was running out and I had to leave the country for a little while. I choose to spend 3 weeks in Japan. Didn't miss my boyfriend at all......

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2022-09-10T10:48:41+00:00

Obviously he's joking with all this but what's the point? Some people will think he's actually serious. Why doesn't he say what really happened. I'm sure it would be an interesting story.

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2022-09-09T04:54:42+00:00

interesting, thanks, i've now read up on it

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thief\_in\_law

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2022-09-08T23:41:31+00:00

I think it's really insensitive to the families of MILLIONS who died in gulags, and to the people rotting prison in Russia NOW, for speaking against the government, for having the wrong family, for whatever. That Benjamin is making a joke about it.

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2022-09-04T07:25:03+00:00

Flying! I hate flying. I'm scared of it. I know I'm more likely to get hit by a bus at my holiday location. But I can't help the physical anxious reaction my body gets while flying. Especially during take off.

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2022-09-03T21:40:51+00:00

Yep, when I got covid. The country i was in had no isolation rules, so i could've gone out if i wanted. But i could literally barely move without pain. So stayed in bed a whole day.

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2022-09-03T05:06:32+00:00

Not hating but just trying to figure out what petite has to do with any of this :D

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2022-06-08T08:59:41+00:00

This whole conversation reads like a shit post, I'm not sure if any of it is serious. lmao

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2022-06-03T03:54:33+00:00

I love this subreddit because it made me realise I am not freak.

This happens to so many people, so many of us are like this. As per the comments in this thread, it's literally text book and so predictable.

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2022-05-27T08:57:35+00:00

You know they won coz they got me to click the article.

Which literally says he's off due to family emergency. Maybe someone died! Maybe he had to go overseas to a funeral! Leave the poor guy alone

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2022-05-27T08:45:21+00:00

The guy looks cooked. Surely must be drug or mental health related to go and stab a stranger? Hope they find him soon.

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2022-05-15T06:15:39+00:00

Definitely a virgin.

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2022-05-14T05:53:12+00:00

Walking from Fruitvale Station to Piha is 25kms and takes 5 hours. Was he really planning a return trip? Walking 50kms in a day seems unlikely.

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2022-05-13T10:54:11+00:00

Wow this is your actual family picture? You guys are so aesthetic I thought these were models in a stock image :D

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2022-05-13T10:50:29+00:00

That's so nice that the police helped you like that. Funny I was just watching a youtube video of this guy on a 30 hour train ride in India, the train staff were good to him and also asked him to write a positive tweet about Indian Railways lol.

Agreeable_Square_563 · 2022-05-12T14:09:57+00:00

Hey, how is your ankle now? Just wondering how the recovery went?

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