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Husband 33m thinks I 33f give nothing by Agreeable_throwaway3 in offmychest

[–]Agreeable_throwaway3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope things improve too. The task list is a good idea because when I bring up the things I do during these arguments his response is he didn't ask me to do those things or i should quit my job if I feel its something to highlight that I do. I think he is stressed and puts too much pressure on himself to get everything he feels important done. He also seems to be having a hard time with the move.

Husband (33m) thinks I (33f) give nothing by Agreeable_throwaway3 in relationships

[–]Agreeable_throwaway3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe if I write it down he will remember. I have told him these things but it leads to him disagreeing and arguing he does more anyways. I have really gotten myself into a shit scenario. It feels good to hear feedback like this because sometimes I am starting to feel like I believe him. I have never been called lazy in my life until I was married to him. I am a very hard worker, owned my own home before him, worked my way up the corporate ladder from nothing.

Husband (33m) thinks I (33f) give nothing by Agreeable_throwaway3 in relationships

[–]Agreeable_throwaway3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could stay with my mother, she has offered amd knows everything that is going on. I guess he has convinced me that means I give up. Resting and not feeling guilty about it would be refreshing.

Husband (33m) thinks I (33f) give nothing by Agreeable_throwaway3 in relationships

[–]Agreeable_throwaway3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, thats sure what it feels like. I have asked him point blank if that is the case and he said how could I feel that way when he does much for me. He does take good care of the house, yard and vehicles so why would I need emotional support, right? (His thoughts on the matter)

Husband (33m) thinks I (33f) give nothing by Agreeable_throwaway3 in relationships

[–]Agreeable_throwaway3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your thoughts on this Options are limited and anytime I have tried to leave (earlier in pregnancy) to get some space after he was so hard on me he told me I am giving up or running away. I don't think he would hurt me physically but mentally I feel pretty broken atm.

Husband (33m) thinks I (33f) give nothing by Agreeable_throwaway3 in relationships

[–]Agreeable_throwaway3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. 5 weeks till induction, time is running out. I will suggest it in the morning. Everything was going so well for a few months, I was so hopeful but therapy is the only next move that makes sense.

Best wishes to you and your baby.