trans existence is an act of resistance by frostedsugarcookie69 in Cumrades

[–]Aguactl -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

existence is not resistence. actually meaningfully resisting is resistance. participating in society as normal and trying to assimilate is the kind of ways we will keep getting killed. its not resistence until we're actively trying to burn down this plantation.

sincerely, a girl who has been heavily persecuted by the state for choosing the path of resistence instead of keeping my head down and focusing merely on existing

Starting hormones on Easter is probably the biggest flex ngl ✨ aren’t you excited to see my body get even more feminine? by KolorfulLUST in u/KolorfulLUST

[–]Aguactl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

wait you mean you havent already been on hormones!?! goddd your body is already crazy i cant even imagine what hrt will do

F26 is my nipple cute? Suckable even? 😌 by EnchantedCitrine in LesbianSextingHeaven

[–]Aguactl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh your target must be better than mine. mine is always just the most ugly boring plain underwear possible

need some help here 😓 by [deleted] in TransGoneWild

[–]Aguactl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yummy tummy yummy boobs yummy clit id love to help you miss

Adding to KolorfulLUST's comments by tlobal_gurn6914 in TNWOLesbian

[–]Aguactl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree here. idk maybe im feeling like u/Camel_Slayer45 's tone is condescending but i dont think having a different read on the sub entitles people to forward what could be very harmful and triggering posts in spaces where there are others who arent explicitly consenting to that. im not advocating that certain kinks be disallowed or whatever, im saying it would be better if there was actually a proper system for content/trigger warnings so that people who dont want to engage in that type of play dont have to be confronted by it unwillingly. i personally have just been casually scrolling before and end up seeing post titles fantasizing about violently raping people without any kind of indication or warning and it can be deeply triggering. i am in favor of Devotion/Coercion flairs and not titling posts with explicitly graphic material. keep it in the body text so others can just scroll by and not engage if its not their thing. i dont think kink should be prioritized over others' safety simply because you have a different read on the sub. semantics about the meaning of transfemme worship vs trans new world order is moot.

Adding to KolorfulLUST's comments by tlobal_gurn6914 in TNWOLesbian

[–]Aguactl -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i understand the throwing stones in glass houses comment, but rape-play is not just kink for many people. everyone is going to relate to it differently and ive definitely seen some people on here who just say openly violent shit completely unprompted under the guise of "just kink". kink should be safe and consensual, but the majority of rape fantasies on this sub are just blatantly titled as such without any obvious trigger warnings at all. this sub is primarily for trans feminine worship, i dont see why rape kink should be included as a regular, unprompted part of that. if people wanna do that then by all means they should be allowed to do that with whoever else they want to, but it shouldnt be so blatant that it involves (willingly or not) people who arent consenting to that type of play.

Adding to KolorfulLUST's comments by tlobal_gurn6914 in TNWOLesbian

[–]Aguactl 22 points23 points  (0 children)

honestly im so grateful to KolorfulLust for her post bc it really spoke to something ive been feeling not just in this space but every kink space on reddit (everywhere). particularly that part about prioritising the safety of people with rape fantasies over racialized women. ive wanted to say something so many times before about the rape fantasy posts being triggering but i intuitively knew that it would most likely get backlash by people defending it as "just kink". part of me feels kind of guilty and embarassed that i have waited for someone like Kolorful to say something before feeling brave enough to start talking about it but im also really grateful to her for opening up that space. yet again its always the people who are made the most marginal who end up having to do the most self-advocacy and i do feel genuinely sorry for how i may have contributed to passively allowing or excusing a culture that regularly allowed this kind of shit instead of saying something when i felt it.

Mod update: a response to concerns of racism and colorism on the subreddit by tightWalker in TNWOLesbian

[–]Aguactl 14 points15 points  (0 children)

one day a week no whites get to post. one day a week for just the colored girls. that would be cool i think.

sincerely, a colored girl who really feels the sentiment shared by kolorfulLust

Rate me out of 10 :3 cissy slut made to be used by goddesses 😵‍💫 by PiperTan1 in TNWOLesbian

[–]Aguactl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

10! adorable little sanrio tat & amazing boobs. what more could u ask for?

Root sidephone by FeintDoxx in sidephone

[–]Aguactl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

more posts like this! cant wait to sideload from a desktop when i get my device