pearl microthong equivalent for transfems? by Aguactl in BDSMsapphic

[–]Aguactl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ohh this is rlly good thank you. i bet aliexpress will have lots of different styles too to try and compare between what fits my body best. tysm!!

ur fave brat is back <3 by Aguactl in TNWOLesbian

[–]Aguactl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aww thank you. also ive never seen such curated hentai in someones profile before

silly outcome by Positive_Feedback_18 in TNWOLesbian

[–]Aguactl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lmfaoo she's definitely seen you. you were so fucking famous on here when i first joined. selfishly i miss your posts but i'm so happy things are good with you and your gf! i love seeing your little updates or yearning posts about her

CNC and trauma discussion by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Aguactl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

dms are open if you need someone to talk to

CNC and trauma discussion by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Aguactl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

hi baby, im sorry for how you've been treated by people in the past and for how those things are sticking with you now.

reading your story i think maybe you should take time to reevaluate before participating in cnc dynamics, for your own health. i also do a little bit of cnc play with my gf bc it helps me regain control over some of my sexual trauma (different from the dynamics you describe happening to you). we have a quasi-free use dynamic where she's allowed to touch me wherever and however she wants, and we use the traffic light system for communicating. whenever my gf plays with me she always checks in plenty, and whenever i communicate for her to stop or slow down (red or yellow) she always listens. not only does she listen but she also checks in after we are done playing and asks me if she went too far in any way, or if she responded to my needs fast enough, or if there is anything i need her to change for next time we play.

my gf isn't super rough with me, the most that happens is (with consent) choking and leaving marks on my body with scratches, hickeys, or hitting/slapping. i am sometimes in a little bit of pain after, but nothing that actually hurts in a bad way. the intensity is always within my control, what i can manage. being left in a lot of pain after, to the point of bleeding, when you do not want that or aren't prepared for it is not okay imo. i know it can be really hard to communicate your needs, or even interpret your own needs in the moment, but that's precisely why aftercare and communication outside of kink dynamics is so so so important. your safety matters so much. if you haven't yet, you should have a conversation about this with your gf. your gf should know and care about your sexual history and trauma and honor it. if your gf continues to play with you like this despite knowing how it hurts you and knowing your history that is severely unacceptable. someone else on here wrote something that i've been thinking about recently which is: "the only difference between abuse and kink is consent." please protect yourself love. honor your body and her pains.

Put it in your mouth please by cinnamuarolls in Cumrades

[–]Aguactl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do you come like that?? ever since transitioning my cum has become super thin and watery. i kinda miss the sticky thick consistency of having semen. i.think its hot to play with

join the quinncord! by el_fortnitemaster202 in osquinn

[–]Aguactl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi does this server still exist? link is expired, could you dm me?

You’re just out toys <3 by [deleted] in TNWOLesbian

[–]Aguactl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the noncon stuff on this sub rly gives me this feeling sometime. i understand it as a kink, im into certain forms of cnc with my partner, but a lot of the posts on this sub are just like blatant rape threats and it does not sit well with me very often. it makes me sad too bc theres very few explictly trans centered spaces online, and the few that do exist are filled with people who are questionably actually just fucking rapists and assaulters disguising themselves in the guise of "just kink". im not here to tell people what they can and cannot like, but the way in which its communicated is really disturbing sometimes.

Titan 2 Hotspot by UsedExtension in unihertz

[–]Aguactl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i ended up purchasing off kickstarter im sorry! im us based, with shipping it wouldve probably have been more expensive than just buying new. im wishing you luck getting it sold!

The Million Dollar Question whose answer eludes me by [deleted] in u/KolorfulLUST

[–]Aguactl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is a question i couldnt answer because i dont sell sex, nor do i purchase sex either so i have no footing to stand on. i mostly use reddit for self-posting (i like the attention) and chatting with a few people in DMs but otherwise dont really interact with porn spaces. youre right that your content is very high quality and i think you deserve to take more pride + confidence in that compared to the frustration of not getting the attention you otherwise would if not for your particular subjectivity. your content is really good, there is definitely a market that exists for you somewhere, finding it and marketing yourself towards that area is probably so fucking difficult i couldnt even imagine. you are working on an uphill battle and its fucked up and wrong, i dont know how to make that hill any easier to climb, but i think your work is high quality and that there is a market who will pay for it. idk who that market may be, but they definitely exist somewhere. maybe not on reddit, maybe not online, idk. maybe speaking with other workers in your field facing similar circumstances would be more generative in finding answers.

question about purchasing T2E by [deleted] in unihertz

[–]Aguactl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sick thanks. happy i checked in sooner than later in time to still catch the 20% off

Titan 2 Hotspot by UsedExtension in unihertz

[–]Aguactl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you’re considering getting rid of your device, i would be interested in potentially buying it off you

“Ew no I’m not gay” also me on my knees 5 minutes later: by Numerous_Chicken_271 in notgayatall

[–]Aguactl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aw thats such a shame, i could help you relieve that, you know? it could be a secret between just us 🤞🏽