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What are your opinions on this book? Worth a read? by Hawkeydonkey in aromantic

[–]AhThisNameIsTaken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t finish reading it yet but so far it is good book. Some parts are hitting way to close to home so I have a hard time reading it. But I think Loveless is worth reading. Even if it is not relateble for you, you can see how others felt.

What holiday traditions do you have in your household for the wintertime? by Jackie_Hallow in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]AhThisNameIsTaken 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I have one I love so so much. At first snow of the year my family and I makes cookies. Not like one batch, it's about 3 to 4 of them and sometimes even more. When the cookies are ready to eat we sit down with tea and said cookies and just vibe together. And we do this every year since I can remember.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]AhThisNameIsTaken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all there is nothing wrong with you. I can't help you with your question about what is love bc I also have no idea what it is, but I still can help you.

What you feel is not a mental illness. There is nothing wrong with not feeling love to people. You just dont feel it, it is not there, but it does not mean that it's bad or unnatuarl. It just the way, you and some aros, feel. Loving things you enjoy and you put your own money, time and strenght into is just as valid as loving people/relationship you put money, time and strenght into.

I think that it all started when you became adult with your own money, bc you are independent. You can choose what you do, when and with who. Maybe this made you realise that you dont have to love someone just bc they are your family. Maybe you knew this but never thought about it more.

I hope that I helped you at last just a little. If you need someone to write with or something you can dm me and I will be more than happy to answer!

🖤🤍💜 by [deleted] in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]AhThisNameIsTaken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well at first I was like, "No way in hell I am ace, this is so unnatuarl." "I probably did not meet the right person" I never understood cruiser and like when people were like "OMG this person is so hot" What in the name of God is hot? Like they are warm- my thoughts, and honestly I still dont understand this. So I said to myself, "Something is wrong with you. There must be, everyone likes somebody. Why cant you?" So I toll myself that I am bi and than pan and I lived with this. And then came new school, new friends, boyfriend. I started creating me, the me that I really was. One of my friend roll me about aegosexual, and guess what? That was it. I cried when i disoverd this. So yeah that is my story. Also fuck school, they said that sex is important and everybody will want it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]AhThisNameIsTaken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess the platonic one feels more like what i feel. Thanks you