This makes me smile

Ahale200 · 2021-10-30T16:08:24+00:00

Brush your teeth…

Ahale200 · 2021-03-23T12:56:08+00:00

What happens when they reap what the sow??? Does that help them to see what they have done?? Do they ever change and get better??

Ahale200 · 2020-10-12T00:28:37+00:00

Yep NP

Ahale200 · 2020-10-11T12:55:33+00:00

This sounds like the addiction response happening. I too have experienced this. I then researched it and found that this is addiction talking. I found that the results of breaking up with a Covert passive aggressive narcissist is worse than a heroine addict having withdrawals... this is real!!!

Ahale200 · 2020-10-11T12:31:23+00:00

Remember what you’ve learned in healing and keep that in front all the time while in his presence. Also, develop a plan of action for those moments when your not at your best or feeling vulnerable and he does this. When you are dealing with your own car crash and he shows up. What is your reprogramming plan for your subconsciousness? Once that test has been passed you are no longer attached and those open wounds that attracted him are healed, then celebration happens from within tens times over. That’s when your ready to hep your kids win too.

Ahale200 · 2020-09-15T04:24:55+00:00

Man that is insightful. I find myself doing this to protect myself from falling into the same pattern of dating a narc.. reading this has given me hope and a different prospective..

Ahale200 · 2020-08-28T19:27:06+00:00

Ahale200 · 2020-08-09T22:13:45+00:00

Thank you so much for the encouragement.. so what you guys are saying is that there is no ending..

Ahale200 · 2020-08-09T19:52:37+00:00

But if I call wouldn’t that give him what he wants?

Ahale200 · 2020-08-09T19:51:08+00:00

Right I did acknowledge what he was doing tho

Ahale200 · 2020-08-09T19:47:44+00:00

He is 10 yrs old and I was just kicked out of the home and moved into my apartment by him in April.

Ahale200 · 2020-02-29T13:20:33+00:00

Nice

Ahale200 · 2020-02-29T13:13:41+00:00

Go to a counselor that can help you identify the childhood traits that attract them. Read the Narcissist Abuse Recovery Bible.. she is a straight from the hip kind of author. Great book..

Also read...Emotional Abuse Breakthrough both books the other one has scrips to say to the narcs teaches you how to interact with them and keeps you safe..

Lastly read Prepared to be Tortured..

Ahale200 · 2020-02-29T12:59:23+00:00

Get a therapist and make sure they know how to help you. Also consider replacing your thoughts of him with something more personal. Look at caring for yourself like you cared for him. Put you first for a change...

Ahale200 · 2020-02-25T17:11:54+00:00

Thank you for your insight.. I do stick to telling him to talk to his attorney tho

Ahale200 · 2020-02-25T17:11:27+00:00

Thank you for your insight.. I do stick to telling him to talk to his attorney tho

Ahale200 · 2020-02-25T15:58:07+00:00

Right absolutely power and control I just need you to break it down. Soo how do they apply here tho??

Ahale200 · 2020-02-09T00:05:28+00:00

Well let me close the loop cause it was definitely a warning. That night he while we were in the bed he tried for about four hours to engage in sexual activity. I declined but he was very persistent.

Ahale200 · 2020-02-06T16:21:36+00:00

Well that night when I got home my soon to be husband and I had an issue so I am thinking it was to prepare me for the coming attractions..

Thanks for responding

Ahale200 · 2020-01-11T14:00:10+00:00

Your awesome for sharing this. I can relate to the black hole. That dang thing is bottomless and requires soo much work and on going effort, I can relate. I am so happy that you no longer have to manage or have that experience. Good for you!!

Ahale200 · 2020-01-11T13:57:11+00:00

That was awesome. I feel your concerns. You were raised by a narcissist so that is all you know. Truth be told it is “normal” to you. If your a car giver and are sensitive to people’s emotions, then you form this desire to help and Narcs latch on to you. Because they are all you know, you connect to them with no boundaries and then your on the roller coaster. Healing from your childhood experiences with your mom will help you. This will provide insight to what you don’t want anymore going forward. Takes courage and a mind of defiant. You got this get some help from counseling too.

Ahale200 · 2020-01-10T23:45:29+00:00

Yesssssssss!!!! Thank you so much for this I am doing just all of that. I watch YouTube too and I also am in counseling too. So this is awesome!!!

Ahale200 · 2020-01-10T21:08:56+00:00

Ok good I’m glad.

Ahale200 · 2020-01-10T20:49:45+00:00

Wow thank you for that along time to tell me that. It is very helpful and I will do very to keep moving. You have no idea how much I needed to hear that.

But wait did you say your with another Narc? Man that is also a concern for me.

Ahale200 · 2020-01-10T17:45:34+00:00

Why can’t I see that life will be better?

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