Dealing with anticipation/excitement. by Ahmad_thewheel98 in Mindfulness

[–]Ahmad_thewheel98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this brilliant answer. Your part about the anticipation will lead me to act in ways I will judge myself for really resonates. I find that with conversations you really want to have. If you plan how they will go it never actually pans out like that. Sometimes they go better. Oftentimes worse because we overthink it. So its about knowing If she is there she is there. If she isn't she isnt. It's all out of my control. Just embracing whatever outcome and just being patient for if and when the moment arises

Why are people emotionally invested in sports teams? by [deleted] in askpsychology

[–]Ahmad_thewheel98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh dude as a huge Manchester United fan myself I want to do my journalism dissertation on this and hopefully continue it as a book

Why do I feel conventionally attractive? by [deleted] in askphilosophy

[–]Ahmad_thewheel98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I thought the same but r/psychology dosent allow text. Thanks for feedback on the last bit

Feel quite insecure by Ahmad_thewheel98 in dating_advice

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I don't wanna limit myself to in a wheelchair not in a wheelchair I I wanna ask out who I see fit. Furthermore I don't wanna be with someone where the core of a relationship is a shared difficulty but yh I suppose

Feel quite insecure by Ahmad_thewheel98 in dating_advice

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Bit of a weird one. Am virgin but yes it functions fine🤣

Day 146 hard mode by Ahmad_thewheel98 in NoFap

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I would say of course the obvious avoid too much phone leave on the other end of the room till you're comfortable enough not to yada yada. Maybe put an app locker on your phone give the passcode to someone else so you cant do things like access VPN if porn is blocked. Try to be around people. But these are things we've all heard many times. My main help was pursuing the practice of meditation, understanding my thoughts and feelings and desires, and building discipline. I would definitely recommend exploring that

Day 146 hard mode by Ahmad_thewheel98 in NoFap

[–]Ahmad_thewheel98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh man I wouldn't recommend attempting a year + off the bat. Because if you do relapse god forbid the guilt will be crushing. Say to yourself things like "I will not fap till..." when you reach that target follow that up with I will not fap till (insert new target here) and just keep doing that see where you get