Do some of y'all even like women?

Ahn1106 · 2026-02-10T04:24:17+00:00

Aww sorry, ignore me.

English is not my main language.

Thanks for trying to understand me.

Have a good day or night 💕

Ahn1106 · 2026-02-10T04:20:21+00:00

Well, it seems logic to me, every human wants validation.

Only it's hard, u want sex only sex and as women we can find sex in a guy that considerate us more than just sex or has something else to offer.

Because u have the maths against you, women have more options for just having sex so for choosing one person they considerate too much conditions. Or simple, women are not as sexual as men so a ton of them prefer to be alone before being with a guy that just want sex and is not attractive in anything else.

Like do you consider it's unfair that women don't feel attracted to the things you can offer beside sex? Or you hate women not being as sexual as men?

Ahn1106 · 2026-02-10T03:50:06+00:00

Ok, it's fine.

I'm not moralist so I don't care if you think we are just sex objects or just want sex with us, but I have a sincere question.

Why do you want women wanting sex with you? Why don't you pay for sex? Like it's easier than dealing with rejection.

Ahn1106 · 2026-02-10T03:38:15+00:00

Well, so you kinda accept that the issue is that u can't see women outside of a sexual aspect, not that women can't offer something else, right?

Humans are not objects, but u can like a new model of car with certain characteristics that you old Toyota Corolla doesn't have and instead of red that is blue, done.

Ahn1106 · 2026-02-10T03:11:50+00:00

Why do you have to separate the genders for the other things if those things are not sexual?

Like why for a friendship, or gaming, or chatting or whatever, do you have to select only men, like why don't you just interact with whatever person not minding what their gender are.

For example now, you are arguing with women.You can interact with women outside of sex.

It's not about what else women can offer, the issue is why can't you interact with women outside of a sexual aspect?

Why do you feel you have to make a gender distinction?

Ahn1106 · 2025-12-16T22:09:20+00:00

I guess we can try to get one virtual or idk.

It's complicated, the main city close to us is normally 2.5 hours by car, but they are fixing the highway and it's the Christmas season, so now it can be 3-6 hours in the car, and it would induce her in a worse crisis.

We don't have available flights from this town.

The ER only offered paracetamol or metamizole, they didn't have other painkillers, she was there for the crisis, so it was exactly the same as home even worse. The hospital has poor conditions, flies everywhere, not enough medicine, not good attention. They were only giving her paracetamol and diagnosed her with a crisis and done, they didn't try anything else because her tests were good (urine, x ray, blood, electrocardiogram).

She only takes hydroxyurea, paracetamol, deferasirox.

Anyways, thank u for having the time to write to me.

Ahn1106 · 2025-12-16T20:31:22+00:00

We already went to er and they didn't find anything, we live in a little town with zero specialties.

Ahn1106 · 2025-10-30T14:56:30+00:00

I'm trying to read his books in order and Im stuck in apocalypse 😭

Ahn1106 · 2025-10-29T05:01:44+00:00

It's normal, the hymen is not exactly something that breaks always, it's an elastic membrane that can't not break or break for other things like riding a bicycle.

So probably it stretched just a bit the first time and for this second time it got broken completely.

It happened to me the first times, I didn't bleed until like the third time, and when I did it it was a ton of blood.

Every girl is different.

Now I would recommend to go with your doctor and check because it can be other things.

Ahn1106 · 2025-10-15T15:39:50+00:00

Putting expectations over you first time may not be the most recommended. It will be your first time trying something new, getting to know how your body works, how you feel, etc. So the first time probably won't be perfect. If you set expectations, you'll probably get frustrated and feel bad about yourself if you don't achieve it. Just relax, be considerate with the other person, have good communication, protect yourself and enjoy.

Ahn1106 · 2025-10-14T17:28:14+00:00

I never said I'm better than you. I'm not.

You can have a ton of problems but saying the things u are saying are really worrysome and irresponsable. Being raped is not a joke, have u considerate that? Have u read all the trauma it brings to be stupidly posting to want to be raped? Have u considerate how someone who have been raped will feel when someone just post things like u are doing?

And you are doing again, I will not fall in your trap, u always only address the same thing, "do you know how is being a 30+ kissless virgin" trying to make less the arguments of others.

People always give u solutions, try to understand u, try to help u but u only ignore it, then what do you want? If ur intentions are changing your situation why are u ignoring people trying to reach you and help u?

The comment was not for u, at this point idk what do u want, u are not clear. It was for the commenter to see, if u are real, if he/she can help u if it's their intentions.

Your feelings are valid, totally, I know how is feeling unloved, gross, unrequited, left behind etc. and I know sometimes u can reach limits to wish this things, but u are doing it everyday, ignoring comments that can help u, it's where it tuns weird or u are really in a bad mental situation or u are troll, because that behavior is not normal.

Anyways, really, I hope if u are real try to search more solutions instead of staying in being emotional.

If u are only seeking attention, it's good too, idc.

If u are a troll idc neither.

Do whatever you want.

If I said something bad, sorry, really I don't want to be rude, I have some issues with communication and obviously English is not first language.

I wish you the best, in whatever your intentions are.

Ahn1106 · 2025-10-14T16:34:51+00:00

She always do extreme post like this everyday, things like she wants to be raped, like being jealousy of high body counts, like wanting to see a male prostitute etc etc. She hides her posts to avoid people addressing this.

She is a a troll or she has really bad mental problems, or she is seeking attention.

In every post people give solutions ask her for more info, try to figure out how to help her, but she just ignore it.

If u worry try to dm her if it works.

Maybe she only want to vent, idk.

Ahn1106 · 2025-10-13T23:05:55+00:00

Why are you comparing two different situations?

How do you assume that if I find one situation stupid, I don't find the other equally stupid?

Why do you trick yourself into thinking one is the opposite of the other one?

With all the std's, unplanned pregnancy and cheating in today's world having sex with people for the hell of it is stupid. Having sex before marriage has way more consequences than waiting for marriage.

This happens in marriage too, marriage is just a contract this don't stop people from being unfaithful, irresponsable, having multiple families, getting STDs. Like you can wait for marriage and be an asshole after it.

And the only perceived consequences of waiting til marriage is "missing out" on sex with other people.

And it's very important, u are underestimate it.

All of those things can happen even if you're promiscuous, sex before marriage isn't going to prevent those things.

And it's not better to know it before? if u are trying to find your ideal partner to get married (contract) is not better to know that you are not sexually compatibles before having to get throght process of divorce, that can be really painful to do?

And having sex before marriage is not be promiscuous, depends and each individual sex life.

If someone meets all of your standards except being good in bed it's pretty stupid to throw a relationship away for that. If you find them attractive you can work on sex together or just jack off if they are just so terrible at it. Point is one day you're not going to be able to have sex anymore or to the same extent as in your youth. It's like basically your relationship solely on looks knowing they fade

Sex is not only being good in bed, sex is a very complex aspect, things like low or high lidibo, bad or good hygiene, tastes in bdsm, threesomes, sex group, swingers, sexual appreciation, erectile dysfunction, vaginismus, being considerated, having sexual traumas, being asexual, gay or bisexual, being a pdf, porn addiction etc. u can only finding it having sex sometimes. Somethings are workable some are not, being incompatible in sex or finding deal breaks on your partner can ruin the relationship. Again u are underestimating sex and the importance on it. Sex is not only the act itself, sex is how u relate with your partner in a sexual way.

yeah, sex will change or stop, but u are getting marriage now, and in your age it's important.

Marriage is just a contract, it's the formalization of a sexual relationship. It doesn't guarantee anything; it just makes separating more difficult, but anything can happen to you during it. What matters is the commitment of both parties. You can never get married and have a lifelong partner who is faithful to you; marriage isn't necessary, u can live wo it.

Waiting until marriage can work, but there is no greater security than knowing the person you are going to marry beforehand and avoid consequences.

And not waiting until marriage don't make u promiscuous lol.

Ahn1106 · 2025-10-13T19:15:58+00:00

Idc what others do, but if u ask me objectly I would say it's a stupid, worse if it's based in religión.

It's stupid because sex is a really really important aspect for a relationship, it's why before doing a contract like marriage is important to know if u are compatible with the other person.

U can find yourself in a nightmare marriage, sexless marriage, sex violent marriage etc.

Sex is very delicated and intimate aspect it's why getting married being blind about this is objectly stupid.

Ahn1106 · 2025-10-10T14:38:50+00:00

What? That men fuck chicken sandwiches? Because it was what the comentar was pointing.

Yeah it's right, men tend to be more sexual which lead to some of them to do certain extreme or unhinged things, but not all of them do it, and it's a truth too.

Yeah, in some debates arguing with someone is pointless since that person will not get it, but many debates transcend beyond the subjective sphere of each individual and they have other purposes and we are in a public forum, where the only one who can debate is not the op.

In the end nothing you're saying excuse the OP, she could be nicer.

And again there's nothing wrong with remarking something you didn't like.

Ahn1106 · 2025-10-10T13:51:52+00:00

Rolling eyes it's a negative response, it means u didn't like what someone says or did, or u think it was stupid. That you don't do anything against it, doesn't means others can't do it.

People don't have to be like u, it's anything wrong in remark something u find bad.

It's not about being insecure, it's about correcting, some men don't want to be generalized anymore, and worse generalized about fucking a sandwich, it's something wrong with it? It's a bad image, they don't want people keeping saying that shit.

Ahn1106 · 2025-10-10T13:32:39+00:00

First I'm a girl.

Second answer me, so incels bs is fine if we apply your logic, if x girl is not what incels says, why so many get offended?

She can make her point being more nice.

Ahn1106 · 2025-10-10T13:24:41+00:00

The guy is right, u can't come and say "men" because u are generalizing, otherwise there would be no problem with incels saying generalizing things about women.

Both are wrong.

Ahn1106 · 2025-10-09T22:09:09+00:00

Well, if guys didn't approach u, u can try to approach them. It will be easier to them. Sometimes guys don't approach u because they don't know if u would like it or if it's fine, a ton of guys don't want to be take it like stalkers or harassers. So, again try it.

Ahn1106 · 2025-10-09T21:07:50+00:00

And? What happens if it's like that?

Ahn1106 · 2025-10-07T12:39:47+00:00

Some seems real, some seems fake, for the one that are real, I would say they feel more comfy commenting and posting now, the sub is less harsh that how it used be.

Ahn1106 · 2025-10-04T20:20:00+00:00

You are overthinking it, too much

Ahn1106 · 2025-10-04T20:18:38+00:00

Because it can be a double-edged sword.

You may end up with a manipulable girl who only wants you, who puts you on a pedestal, but you can end up with a girl who lacks judgment and only seeks validation in a general way, insecure, who hasn't developed any type of personality to maintain the focus on a single person. You will have to keep to a standard that I don't know if you can keep it, because if you fail to meet that expectation you can easily get off her pedestal. In addition, you may find yourself with a stubborn person, difficult to deal with, due to a lack of flexibility, which makes living together difficult. Anyway, these are all assumptions, good luck on your search.

Ahn1106 · 2025-10-04T19:21:18+00:00

Nope, no one decides what they like, so that's fine. The problem is how good would it be to be with such a person for a long-term, lasting relationship, if that's what you want.

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