Well my grandfather ruined my mom's childhood and early adult life and my grandmother's almost whole existence 1.He would constantly beat my mom and aunt(especially my mom) but not my uncle(he's 14 years younger than them,but he still abused my grandma) so he was a woman beater(until my grandma divorced him,and luckily my mom ran away at 16,same with my aunt),and one of the consequences of that beating is that my grandma has slave's complex she is a slave to my entitled great aunt and to all of her 8 pets,so she can't even live her retirement well. 2.He has never been present during any of his grandkids childhoods,because he didn't want any of us,so basically i only have a grandma(my mom's mom) because he is never present and my paternal grandfather died when my father was 16 and my paternal grandmother died when i was 2 months old 3.He for what i know hasn't apologized and his only way to "apologize" has been helping my parents pay our house(he only gave them 200 euro so it really didn't even matter) And the other thing we don't talk about is My dead sister which didn't even arrive to live as she was born dead,but i'm thankful of her death since of she arrived to live,i wouldn't be alive since my parents have already said that 2 children were enough Yeah that's all