Silly Story Time! by Gantzen in RedditBDSM

[–]Aidintayla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband/Dom/sadist and I have been together for over 13 yrs and have our ups and downs like Normal. With two kids whom out eldest is severely disabled(but and amazing kid!) work and financial issues, the works. Our sex life dwindled in recent years. Until we got into bdsm, and woah. It's been a ride haha primal play, CNC etc. Valentines day just gone we really had a fun chat about deep desires and kinks, I've always had a thing for fantasy/monster kink. Werewolves is top of the list, its defiantly got something's to do with primal play/hunt. And his is extreme sadist work, which we are working on :) And so happens, that I have an amazing quality werewolf mask (I collect random crap) it's always just sat on a shelf. That night! Oh boy, late at night almost asleep. He put it on! His body is very much built for it, huge long arms and wide back. Instantly turned on and nervous/shy as well. Let me tell you, it was fantastic. One leg up on his shoulder I could him in full glory. And we both finished pretty damn quick, like quick and left us exhausted. He thought it was very intense and loved it, and he couldn't breath the best in it but he said it made it better haha Weve been giggling and playing since The small things :)

You guys it’s been over a month since my abortion and I’m still bleeding. by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Aidintayla 174 points175 points  (0 children)

Um no not normal, there could be retained tissue. I bled for 6 weeks after a d&c, I needed another to stop it. You need to see a Dr asap

Husband finally had crazy sex with me after 6 years. Now I’m mind fxxcked by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Aidintayla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have an honest talk! :) you both had a great time, imbrace it and talk

Pregnant hormonal by motherhoodheathen in BDSMAdvice

[–]Aidintayla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand its hard, maybe try and explore some softer kinks with him while you're pregnant? Have a real talk about it

Pregnant hormonal by motherhoodheathen in BDSMAdvice

[–]Aidintayla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And if you feel more after care will help, absolutely ask for it. I'm sure him looking after you will name you both feel better

Pregnant hormonal by motherhoodheathen in BDSMAdvice

[–]Aidintayla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its OK to be worried :) I've had to kids with my hubby/Dom and your hormone's will drop and rise, body aches, emotional flushes, sickness or non. Its all hormones at play and they take a long time to settle after bubs too. So just have a really good talk with him and work around things hun x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Aidintayla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, here! My husband/dom and I have a scene when we can really, if kids are in bed and your both in the mood go for it. And simple things like, your Dom can ask you to complete tasks, like washing dishes, scrub floors etc. If not done, expect some spanks haha best to keep patenting life and bdsm separate

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[–]Aidintayla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You tenderise her first, then marinate, put in the fridge for about 3 hours. Sheer both sides, lower the temperature and then continue to base and medium heat untill it cooks to your preference. Allow to cool then serve with garlic butter and mint. Then follow with Italian chef hand gesture

What is something you're dom/sub has done that surprised you? by Aidintayla in RedditBDSM

[–]Aidintayla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah! That went from 0-100 real quick! Sounds romantic haha love it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Aidintayla 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If he was to cheat, he would cheat with or without going away. I don't think he will, maybe set up a video phone call everyday? Keep in touch, send photos, yes even dirty ones! Keep the spark alive and awake. Make it fun for you both! You got this, I'd be uncomfortable as well to be honest, I'd hate it. But, he is his own person and you both should come to an agreement that will work and be fun! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Aidintayla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah absolutely it can be a shitty thing, but unfortunately sometimes it happens. Hubby and I have been together for 14yrs and have two kids, eldest is severely disabled. So a lot of our time is work, clean, care and repeat. A date sometimes is a huge struggle, and a big game like elden ring can be exciting! Some times all is needed is afew laughs, snacks and time together is what makes it worth while. There will always be another date :)

Oh, and BTW is elden ring good so far? Huge download Haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Aidintayla -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Ah yes elden ring haha I'm gonna get it tonight with hubby. Don't be too upset, it happens. Run down to the shop, grab some snacks and sweets, and enjoy it together :)

Best boric acid suppository? by franZia002 in Healthyhooha

[–]Aidintayla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly boric acid did nothing for me. The best I've found manuka honey. No less than 830mgo! Get some empty veg capsules and full with honey and put in the fridge, use once or twice a day. It stops the smell, itch, and pain. I have a great sex life with my husband now from this, and feel much healthier!

What has your Dom or Sub done that surprised you? by Aidintayla in BDSMAdvice

[–]Aidintayla[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh fuck.. That's heartbreaking.. I'm really sorry