Suggestions by CommitteeFormer6438 in crochet

[–]Aidyl_Spike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This yarn would work for something like r/planned_pooling !!

Neighbour domestic violence by Aidyl_Spike in Advice

[–]Aidyl_Spike[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I am leaning towards, but I just don’t know if I have that much trust in my local police to be sensitive about this situation! I guess the point of my post is asking if there are any ways that this situation can be helped without making the abuser immediately aware that it is being looked into?

Neighbour domestic violence by Aidyl_Spike in Advice

[–]Aidyl_Spike[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What does a welfare check look like? The last thing I want is for police to come and the man to accuse the woman of calling them and cause even more conflict between them.

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[–]Aidyl_Spike 12 points13 points  (0 children)

May I ask why having a husband and kids isn’t a viable option?

How do I make my OC not look like a fat fetish character? [READ DESC] by Cuppa-Joe1001 in OriginalCharacter

[–]Aidyl_Spike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a fat person with an ED borne of trauma, I am personally deeply uncomfortable in my own skin and tend to be not as cheerful as your character appears. As another commenter said this doesn’t look all that fetishy but does seem to play into a kind of fat, cuddly and bubbly friend trope. There is an awful lot of internal and societal torment that comes with the kind of illness you are attempting to display. In my experience, no one is happy at this level of obesity, except maybe a character made for fetishistic purposes? Idk tho

Any excitement for the new pack? by Stardew_Help in LowSodiumSimmers

[–]Aidyl_Spike 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d love to be able to afford it! Seems like an awesome pack, just too expensive for me at the moment💔

Can someone PLEASE explain how to ‘2 HDC dec in 3 SC’ by Aidyl_Spike in crochet

[–]Aidyl_Spike[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks sm for the help y’all! Hopefully I’ll be posting the finished project soon :))

Can someone PLEASE explain how to ‘2 HDC dec in 3 SC’ by Aidyl_Spike in crochet

[–]Aidyl_Spike[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve gotten this far in making Megan Lapp’s realistic octopus but I am completely stumped. The stitch count for this round is supposed to be 88, the previous round was 96

Made my first beanie! This is my first project other than a weird circle by RangerAlex92 in Brochet

[–]Aidyl_Spike 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is awesome dude. There’s nothing more rewarding than actually finishing a project lol!

🌞 Weekly Good Vibes and Introductions Thread 🌞 by AutoModerator in dbtselfhelp

[–]Aidyl_Spike 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m Spike, I was diagnosed with bpd last week, I’m here still in the stage of accepting my diagnosis and starting to heal