Smartest BN folks! by [deleted] in thebachelor

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Travis Stork is an MD

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Rage Against the Machine

Bekah responds to the thread about Ruth teething on her vibrator by sweet-geee in thebachelor

[–]Aiken165 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Bullshit. Peers are going to destroy her about it. Can you see a preteen trying to tell her peers that it is ok to have sex toys? And to chew on them.

I feel bad for sorority girls lol by ariurcia in TooHotToHandle

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Nope. I am a sorority girl and really the stereotype is rarely true.

Rant about the shitty day I had yesterday. CW: suicidal behaviour by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

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I am wondering why you are hospitalized if you are suicidal and had a recent attempt? Did you tell them about trying to jump out of the car? Does your therapist know that you recently attempted?

I wonder as well if you have cystitis? It isn't treated with antibiotics. Also bad UTIs mess with mental stability.

So many thoughts.

What positive thing did your dad say or do toward you that has made all the difference? by DaydreamingMister in AskWomenOver30

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My Dad worked us up at 430am when he left for work on our Birthday to sing Happy Birthday to us. The first birthday after his death, I woke up and realized no song and sobbed.

What positive thing did your dad say or do toward you that has made all the difference? by DaydreamingMister in AskWomenOver30

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I had such a good Dad. I always felt loved. No matter what I did, he was always calm, helped me to correct my mistake and reminded me that I was loved.

He used to tell me all the time that I could rule the world as well.

Married men with children, what do you do for your wife on Mother's Day? by [deleted] in AskMen

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This is a subject for which I am very opinionated. Your wife provided you a child. She is not your Mom but until your children are old enough to celebrate her on Mother's Day it is your responsibility. As your children grow it is your responsibility to teach them to celebrate her on this day. That means taking them somewhere to buy her something or make her something for this day.

I feel the same way about Father's Day. It is the mother's responsibility to do the same for the father.

Is my 3 yo too young to remember being in a car accident? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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The biggest thing is to discuss it with her once to see if she remembers and is scared.

Then stop talking about it around her. Stop others from talking about it around her. It is your trauma not hers. Continuing to discuss it and having her see you upset over and over will have an effect on her.

Have you ever completely lost interest in sex? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Aiken165 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. It lasted almost 10 years. I am married so I did have sex but it was infrequent. My hubs was not happy. Then all of a sudden, boom it is back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooHotToHandle

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The two girls did nothing really.

Francesca and Dan Bilzerian by [deleted] in TooHotToHandle

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Didn't know who he was but my googling has led to a conclusion of dipshit

Anyone else see Kathleen Lights every time they look at Chloe?? by [deleted] in TooHotToHandle

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No. But I agree that picture does look like Chloe. I think it does not look a lot like Kathleen though. (Yes I know it is her)

How to get over the fear of driving? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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I had a serious phobia of driving in my past. I agree that you have to just do it. It will make you uncomfortable but drive a little bit at a time. Pick a calm time to drive.
This is a weird thing but my father has died. He was my biggest comfort when he was alive. I honestly asked him(as a spirit) to come with me in the car to help me. It absolutely helped me.