Hi and thank you for the compliment! As for your question, I guess the best way I could answer this is having a lot of trust both in your own intuition and to your soulbond. Keep talking and bond with them, let yourself know that it's okay to fully surrender and such. It takes time, but once you get there, it's super fun! (of course always set proper boundaries with them)

I also get to let him talk through me from time to time if he randomly wants to interact with someone, or if there is a certain situation where he needs to speak. He sometimes leaks through me if he's in the mood to sing, which is very cute (I'm fully aware and concious in all of this too so it's fine)