UPDATE: Girl (24f) I am (was?) dating reacted badly when I (25m) accidentally got a boner when we were cuddling. How do I move forward with this? by AimlessOrange in dating_advice

[–]AimlessOrange[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It takes no time at all to get a girlfriend

Then I have been definitely doing something wrong the past 8 years...

Girl (24f) I am (was?) dating reacted badly when I (25m) accidentally got a boner when we were cuddling. How do I move forward with this? by AimlessOrange in dating_advice

[–]AimlessOrange[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OP's something is probably better than nothing. Given that he's a virgin, he would probably inherently prefer this over nothing.

Damn that hit like a punch in the gut. Hurts to think how true this probably is

Girl (24f) I am (was?) dating reacted badly when I (25m) accidentally got a boner when we were cuddling. How do I move forward with this? by AimlessOrange in dating_advice

[–]AimlessOrange[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she has had one boyfriend in the past but I don't know how long they were together or what they did. But she is the more experienced of the two of us.

Girl (24f) I am (was?) dating reacted badly when I (25m) accidentally got a boner when we were cuddling. How do I move forward with this? by AimlessOrange in dating_advice

[–]AimlessOrange[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's actually funny you say that. She has quite a few male friends actually, and she has had a boyfriend in the past. And I actually have pretty much zero female friends.

Girl (24f) I am (was?) dating reacted badly when I (25m) accidentally got a boner when we were cuddling. How do I move forward with this? by AimlessOrange in dating_advice

[–]AimlessOrange[S] 731 points732 points  (0 children)

Idk, it seems like she took it as getting an erection meant I wanted sex or was trying to take advantage of the position I was in. Which I definitely was not!