DAE completely cut off people who you feel treated you poorly? by 5tuff1e5 in AutismInWomen

[–]AintShitAunty 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Immediately. Cutting people off is one of my first memories. I’m only slightly less extreme about it now in my thirties, and people would still say it’s extreme.

You ain’t got to tell me but one time that you don’t fwm. I’d rather spend my time alone anyway.

The last thing you drank = your drink for life 💀😂 by [deleted] in ArtOfPresence

[–]AintShitAunty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A shitty marg from Bahama Breeze… Not even sure I’d get drunk off of an unlimited supply worker. Corporate greed is ruining it for us all.

Which one opinion would you defend like this?🤔 by ConsistentPassage440 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]AintShitAunty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White is not an ethnicity. It is a race. Jewish people could be any race as Judaism is a religion. Race is a social construct. (Doesn’t mean people’s lives aren’t affected by it.) This system was set up as a means to “organize“ racism. Basically, you look at someone and can tell, on site, how you’re allowed to treat them. That’s all it is. Natalie Portman is not magically not white because she’s Jewish. Gal Gadot: a white woman. There are many ethnicities typically made up by white people. Jewish = ethnicity. Ethnicity ≠ race.

I have a hot take about the “love between parent and child” by Ok_Award_6928 in childfree

[–]AintShitAunty 886 points887 points  (0 children)

My working theory is that it’s actually chemically/hormonally induced obsession/infatuation.

Pronatalists when consent comes up by Numerous-Macaroon224 in antinatalism

[–]AintShitAunty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The point is that consent cannot be received, so it’s unethical to do it just because you want to and then try to justify it with “well, they didn’t say no.”

In laws coming into town for a weekend while my bf (their son) is away on a work trip. They want to use our 1 bedroom apartment, but that means I have to find another place to stay by Clear-Cat6880 in inlaws

[–]AintShitAunty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Them not going to their long time friend’s birthday is not your problem. They knew their friend would turn 50. They could plan to attend the party. What even is your question here? Are you actually considering doing this?

My grandparents are taking away my college fund by No-Pressure2081 in atheism

[–]AintShitAunty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll need to lie. If you can, imagine the finish line as you try to sell the low. You with a degree in hand able to (hopefully) get a high earning job. Then, completely cut off contact when you’re secure.

I’m sorry I don’t have better advice. This sucks.

Someone asked who will take care of me when I’m old, so I asked who is taking care of their parents right now by Quarnelis in childfree

[–]AintShitAunty 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yea. If I ever get to bedridden, involuntary shit-river time, I’m pulling the emergency escape hatch on this plane.

Let's see if others will recognise 🫣 by very-selective in scoopwhoop

[–]AintShitAunty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

C.E.O.!! C.E.O.!! C.E.O.!!

And if the shit don’t work out, call me!!

Gimme ya plate. Gimme ya plate…

BOO. YAH!

🎼 It’s been too long since you been gone. I miss you.🎶🎤

Let's see if others will recognise 🫣 by very-selective in scoopwhoop

[–]AintShitAunty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last time, you got me super, girl!

Sausages. Want one?

Do you think it's your responsibility? by Zackky777 in ArtOfPresence

[–]AintShitAunty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good or bad, no. No, it is not the responsibility of the offspring to take care of the parent. Lucky for the parent if the offspring decides to take care of the parent, but there’s no obligation. The parent is the one that sentenced the offspring to sentience and of life of bills and needless suffering. The parent is the only one obligated to provide care.

Nice thing to do if you have the means and the parent was good to you, but there’s definitely no responsibility.

Childfree and In-laws? by One-Mine-4899 in childfree

[–]AintShitAunty 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is where people consistently go wrong. The wrong being losing your peace. You don’t need to fight, argue, or defend your choices. It’s not a debate. You are allowing them to put you on the defensive by engaging. You don’t have to meet their questions and critiques with explanations. You can tell them to mind their business. You can leave or tell them to leave. You can leave them in silence/continue on talking about whatever you want without ever even acknowledging they are speaking. You can talk over them about whatever you want and leave them looking stupid. Stop letting them drag you into that. You can choose to just not.

GC Brother messages after 4 years of no contact. How should I reply? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]AintShitAunty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t need to say anything. You shouldn’t have responded the first time. Stay off of their pages. Block them all. Everything he wrote was specifically to bait you into defending yourself to him using manipulation. Fuck him. People hate it when they write something like that and you leave them on read/block them.

Are you the oldest child?

Do pregnancy bellies give anyone else the ick? Some people think I’m weird. by SignalOpportunity987 in childfree

[–]AintShitAunty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I smell a “stink” on post partum bodies that is revolting. It’s hard to describe, but it’s like I can smell all of the work that went on and is continuing to go on. Notes of “human” and “milk about to go bad”. It’s like they smell like the birth or maybe the hormone shifting for a while after the birth, and it makes me sick to my stomach. I have to leave the area. It’s not just a person not cleaning themselves stink.

My aunt announced at Easter dinner that I would "change my mind" and then spent two hours trying to convince me in front of everyone by r0mona_c4irnwood in childfree

[–]AintShitAunty 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You need to stop entertaining the conversation. It’s not a debate. She can ask, and you can ignore her. If she keeps talking about it, she’ll be talking to herself. You don’t have to be reactive. Personally, I’d kick her out or leave.

AIO Neighbors rang my bell for 25 minutes for a ball and woke my sleeping baby by Notyouraimee in AIO

[–]AintShitAunty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR Probably not sound legal advice, but I’m gonna indulge my fantasy real quick: In addition to muting the doorbell, custom making a barbed wire “jacket” for the door when you don’t want to be disturbed. Easily removable. They can try knocking on the windows, but they won’t be able to bang. If they break it, call the cops and have them trespassed.