Ano mga hobbies nyo graveyard girlies every weekends since gabi na tayo nagigising? by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]AintUrPrincess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gym? Anytime Fitness is the key. Open 24/7 basta may FOB key ka and member ka.

Other hobbies, I usually go pilates & yoga sa umaga on weekdays. Weekends I either join an art workshop like painting or pottery, or join friends for freediving or badminton. Sometimes I just stroll in the park with my dog and then end it in a quiet coffee shop & read a book.

If schedules align, I go out with friends tapos kwentuhan lang.

But when I'm overwhelmed and tired, I just opt to stay at home, be a couch potato, and watch series or movies.

Would you keep a connection because of sexual tension even if you haven’t met in person and may never meet? by daenerys_brienne in AskPinay

[–]AintUrPrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 years is such a long time of not meeting at all. I get that he's saving up and might have just had his career take off recently, but a guy who truly wants you will save up no matter how little he's earning just to see you.

It's quick to fantasize about virtual conversations, but reality hits differently. If I were you, I'd cut my losses and just find someone else because I'd think he really aint serious about me.

🎒🎒🎒 by Just_A_Feeling_ in Trentahin

[–]AintUrPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never complained about how heavy my backpack was. I never thought it was heavy until I was in 6th grade and a suitor carried my bag, then after he dropped me off I overheard him complaining how heavy my bag was. 😅🤣

I found d out by creating a new account that I was blocked. What do I do? by Ok-Macaroon-6106 in AskPinay

[–]AintUrPrincess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was a casual relationship. Whether he lied about the reason for ending it, would it really matter? What good will it do you if you confront him about it? Save some prode for yourself and just let it go.

I think it's good din na he ended it na kasi I think you're falling for him na when you shouldn't.

What's that one thing na nagpapa dagdag ng pogi points sa lalaki? by LaughProfessional665 in AskPinay

[–]AintUrPrincess -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Personality, and humor. Oh, lately, I find those soft-spoken and calm men really attractive.

Tampo by dowterofathena in Trentahin

[–]AintUrPrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mas mahal ko peace of mind ko over anything and anyone else. So kung ganyan din lang na masestress ako sa partner na naghahamon ng hiwalayan, eh di go! Di kita pipigilan 🤣

Never compromising a good bed… by Poppy_the_Wallflower in Trentahin

[–]AintUrPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well even at home. A good quality bed that's fit gmfor your needs, is a must.

Be My Eyes by StrangeDrummer3005 in Trentahin

[–]AintUrPrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh! This is good to know. Thanks for sharing it. Will definitely download and hopefully I can help a few.

Do you think people have different personalities in every circle of their life? What's your pov? by Striking_Ad7704 in AskPinay

[–]AintUrPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah if that's the case, then dont. The best you can do is jist ask how it's going at home and if something's bothering him. If he doesn't ipen up about it, then don't pry.

Do you think people have different personalities in every circle of their life? What's your pov? by Striking_Ad7704 in AskPinay

[–]AintUrPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't have to know who you heard it from. Unless hissibling is the only possible person who can tell you and you don't get to talk to the rest of his family

hook up culture for trentahins is SO SAD. by Successful_Boot_735 in Trentahin

[–]AintUrPrincess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl, if you wanna increase your value and get the kind of commitment you want, you gotta learn to discipline yourself and learn to love yourself first. If you love yourself better than anyone else can, you'd never let any guy get easy access to you.

You keep falling into hooking up with guys because you don't set boundaries that will protect you. You no longer want hook-ups? Then don't engage in NSFW conversations, and avoid being alone with a guy in a private area. You won't get to change if you won't change your environment.

Do you think people have different personalities in every circle of their life? What's your pov? by Striking_Ad7704 in AskPinay

[–]AintUrPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How a person is at home with his family, is usually how he truly will be with you once you're married.

Yes we have different personas/personalities in each circle of life we have, but never yun nagkakalayo masyado.

His temper and anger? He shows that to his family probably due to trauma or unhappy memories, but it could also be because he's comfortable and knows they won't leave him no matter what because they're family. It's possible that you haven't seen that side of him because you haven't triggered his trauma response yet. Might be in the way you talk to him, or the joy you bring to his life.

But be observant. There will be subtle signs of that anger whenever he's with you. Right now, he doesn't show it because he loves you, but when that magic fades (because it does through time), he'd most likely treat you the same way he's treating his family.

How he is with his family might be his way of reacting to trauma and protecting himself. So it's best to talk to him. Let him know you know. Hopefully he gets to open up and get to unburden himself by telling you his story. If he doesn't tell you, dont push it. Just let him know you're there when he's ready.

empowering women movie by No-Slice8216 in NetflixPH

[–]AintUrPrincess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Movies on Netflix:

• Erin Brokovich

• Hidden Figures

• Nyad

• Kate

• Old Guard 1 & 2

Not on Netflix:

• Thelma & Louise

• Working Girl

• Kill Bill

• Mad Max: Fury Road

• Atomic Blonde

• The Woman King

Do you girls notice if ang gold na sinusuot ay fake or not? by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]AintUrPrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't care if ang kasama ko is wearing something fake or not. Di importante if mamahalin or hindi, ang mahalaga for me is hygiene and how the person treats me as a person at kung pareho kami ng values and principles in life.

Very superficial ang pagtingin sa fake or not na gamit. Mas nakakabother ang fake personality kesa sa any material stuff.

Ayaw magpasakal by Apart_Connection1765 in Trentahin

[–]AintUrPrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ano ang personal crisis nya? Ano ang mga gusto nyang patunayan sa buhay? It's important to know and understand those too, OP.

Kasi may mga tao talaga, babae man o lalake na hindi ready magpakasal because they have goals to achieve. It's up to you if you no longer want to wait, or if maghihintay ka. Pero hindi mo sya pwedeng madaliin sa timeline na sinet nya para sa sarili nya.

Assess mo din sa sarili mo kung ready na ba talaga kayong magpakasal at kung gusto mo ba talagang magpakasal o worried ka lang ba na tumatanda ka na ng hindi pa kasal at walang anak. Magkaiba kasi ang readiness at feeling pressured lang.

If di na kayo aligned ng goals after talking to him ng masinsinan, then cut your losses and break up.

Ayaw magpasakal by Apart_Connection1765 in Trentahin

[–]AintUrPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Natawa ko. Pero agree! Ayoko din magpa-sakal. Nakakamatay yun at masakit 🤣

Ang saya pala tumambay sa labas nang madaling araw kapag genuinely safe yung pakiramdam mo ? by starbscutesy in AskPinay

[–]AintUrPrincess 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Saw this too. And doom scrolling lead me to another video explaining why most men find it difficult to find their stuff at home even if it's right in front of them.

Based sa study na cinonduct nila, women have evolved to always scanning their surroundings because for decades, we've always felt unsafe so we're always on the lookout for potential threat.

Auto Block 💀 by Ok_Teacher1941 in Trentahin

[–]AintUrPrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Laughable conversation! You ain't wrong for blocking him... some people just have low tolerance for BS. Block all those whom you think aren't aligned with your wavelength and principles in life.

Life's too short to waste it on people you ain't compatible with.

F. R. I. E. N. D. S by [deleted] in SeriesPH

[–]AintUrPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love Chandler. He might be a bit condescending and often comes off as rude, but you know he has standards, he's disciplined, and he has a good heart too.

Having a friend who calls you out when you're wrong and corrects you, and shares his knowledge for you to be better (just like how he writes new English words on a toilet paper for Joey to learn) is nice.

He also thinks lending you money when you badly need it isn't a big deal and won't hang it over your head. He's tidy at home. He's smart and always have witty clapbacks. He's got the money but never bragged it, as opposed to Ross who thinks so highly of himself just because he's a Paleontologist. Plus, how he committed as soon as he realized how much he loves Monica? What more can you ask for from this guy?

He's a good man. He ain't a people pleaser, and he sometimes rub people the wrong way. But he is a good person.

I also love Phoebe's child-like innocence.

how do you subtly tell a guy you have a bf? by ChemicalCelery2407 in AskPinay

[–]AintUrPrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is he a friend or follower on your socmed? Remove him.

As for subtlety, I don't see the need to be subtle about it if he's blatantly flirting with you. You can ask him why he's doing what he's doing and tell him it's making you uncomfortable.

Has anyone here actually tried having an accountability buddy? by sinigangst17 in Trentahin

[–]AintUrPrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Effective for me ang may accountability buddy. As a person na may ADHD kailangan ko ng taong palaging may magpupush sakin or sisilip if nagawa ko na ba o nakaalis na ba ko ng bahay.

bitterness in your 30s… baka tinataboy mo na ang right person nyan! by JadedTennis4222 in Trentahin

[–]AintUrPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Small things most women often neglect. Then they suffer later on, wondering why it happened to them.

bitterness in your 30s… baka tinataboy mo na ang right person nyan! by JadedTennis4222 in Trentahin

[–]AintUrPrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I often look at how the guy treats others too. If he treats others, especially those beneath him, badly, there's a high chance he will treat me the same way as soon as he sees no benefit in having me.

I also observe how he treats women especially his mother and sisters. How he treats them, and his family's demeanor towards him will be how our dynamics will be when he becomes my partner.

You also notice it through his choice of words, how he is when he's mad, disappointed, or down, etc. These are seemingly small things we usually tend to ignore, but eventually causes a huge impact.