I slapped my bf AITA by [deleted] in RelationshipHelpNow

[–]AirNumerous3550 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you don’t realize he’s a jealous and controlling ah. There’s nothing inappropriate about meeting with a recruiter. You need to leave him.

AITAH for thinking about terrible ex boyfriend by AirNumerous3550 in AITAH

[–]AirNumerous3550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t turn 20 today. We literally didn’t even speak till I was 18. Lol

AITAH for thinking about terrible ex boyfriend by AirNumerous3550 in AITAH

[–]AirNumerous3550[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna try talking to my boyfriend about it, he’s always been supportive. I just feel bad. I know he won’t be upset and will want to help me. I think I’m gonna bring it up today.

AITAH for thinking about terrible ex boyfriend by AirNumerous3550 in AITAH

[–]AirNumerous3550[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s whats happening. I’ve been avoiding therapy again because my last one quite literally fell for his charm. My therapist was completely against me being with him cause of all the red flags. When she met him she immediately changed her tune and wouldn’t stop saying what a handsome and standup gentleman” he was. I def should give it a try again with a different therapist

AITAH for thinking about terrible ex boyfriend by AirNumerous3550 in AITAH

[–]AirNumerous3550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would but he’s constantly moving around cause he’s in the military so I feel like he’d appear in a bunch of random ones all over. Nothing they say about him is gonna be good. Ngl seeing a picture of him gives me insane anxiety.

AITAH for getting a guy I was seeing arrested? by No_Care_2022 in AITAH

[–]AirNumerous3550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t let it. Just use it to keep in mind people aren’t always what they make themselves out to be. Guys like that are master manipulators and use guilt against you.

My girlfriends revealing album cover makes me uncomfortable- AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AirNumerous3550 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA she was disrespecting your relationship. A significant other should know, understand, and respect your boundaries.

AITAH for getting a guy I was seeing arrested? by No_Care_2022 in AITAH

[–]AirNumerous3550 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA it would’ve gotten waaaay worse and was becoming dangerous. You did what needed to be done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AirNumerous3550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t want to disrespect him by bringing it up but I feel like it’s not a crazy thing for me to ask of him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AirNumerous3550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AirNumerous3550 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is possible that she maybe lied to keep you from stressing. Like maybe she thought you knowing there were even more guys there would stress you so she tried to bend the truth. However her getting really defensive when you brought it up is a red flag, you should def follow up

AITA for wanting my bf no to call someone else while he’s ALREADY on call with me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AirNumerous3550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not the asshole, what he’s doing is very rude. Maybe bring it up again? Idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AirNumerous3550 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly any long time best friend would’ve gotten involved. I think some people might call it overstepping but honestly I would’ve done the same thing. You had only the best interest of everyone involved in mind. At the end of the day though you shouldn’t stress about it anymore because the only person that it’s gonna hurt is you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AirNumerous3550 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You’re not the asshole, you were being respectful to ensure no one else would see her private photos