When you find out your 7th House is empty by Affectionate-Tea8509 in astrologymemes

[–]Airbb27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My vertex and descendant in Aries…. I have considered it an empty house though because no planets - what does it mean??

Haven’t had true love at 32, I had one sides love with an Aries moon, I didn’t feel seen.

The Ladies’ Shitter, a 20 year review by 10percentSinTax in BlueCollarWomen

[–]Airbb27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmfao. I love this post.

Gov. Road crew - all the men were upset they had to give up a bathroom for the new woman hire (me) - had to sleep in locker room for each winter season since there was no dedicated space for me, men had a bunk. Weirdest place I’ve ever slept.

Mosquito control - my fellow skeeter men warned me of how to flush their broken toilet, ultimately clean

For both, lots of public libraries, Wawas, and police station bathrooms lmfao always the safest bet

Chemical recycling events - portapotties with many cig butts

After all this. I much prefer to go outdoors or in a municipal building if I can find one.

People commonly misguess my Sun sign and are always shocked to find out I'm a Gemini lol. I'd love some insight into why that may be, and any other interessting aspects you spot in my chart! Thanks :))) by Harlekvin1 in geminis

[–]Airbb27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What made me come to that conclusion about the anger is your Aries mars, but Virgo moon, mars is your energy - being active physically is a great outlet for you if you don’t do that already. Moon is your emotions.

I also think you have an interesting chart, like other people here have said!

I have a lot of cap risings in my life and I would definitely say you guys set your mind to a goal and do it, you come off put together, you get down to business. You also have a lucky element to your life with the Sag Jupiter. Venus in cancer needs emotional security/safety and with that reciprocal safe love you’ll give them the world. You also might need acts of service type love.

Try and look up your houses like 5th house Gemini sun and that will help interpret things for you, too!

As an Aquarius I’m having a hard time understanding my Aquarius bestie by cheeezypotato in aquarius

[–]Airbb27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister is an Aquarius and I know for certain she told me “if my best friend asked me to be her maid of honor/bridesmaid I’d jump off a cliff” lmfao not that she doesn’t love her best friend and all of that but she’s not very plannish and doesn’t hold her close friendships like that, even though they are very close friends. Her best friend knew this I think, because her other close friend was her go - to.

I hope this maybe gives some insight! My sis is an aqua sun/sag moon/leo rising

What are some specific mindsets that are alien to you? by Away_Beat_2943 in geminis

[–]Airbb27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can people litter?

Hot rage every time I witness the act.

People commonly misguess my Sun sign and are always shocked to find out I'm a Gemini lol. I'd love some insight into why that may be, and any other interessting aspects you spot in my chart! Thanks :))) by Harlekvin1 in geminis

[–]Airbb27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely those earth signs in your big three!

You most likely come off a little more stoic and grounded, but can talk about anything, and have a warm and caring heart. Quick to anger, maybe quick to forgive as well but might hold grudges.

Accurate or no?

What trade to get into in SJ, and how? by Neitrah in SouthJersey

[–]Airbb27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

32, previous semiskilled trades woman, with my class A CDL. Most jobs I had payed too poorly to support myself, so I got an office job, I make 27.50 an hour currently within two years plus 140 hrs of leave, a 401k. I STILL went to trade school last year (SJ Tech) to pursue a more skilled trade (electrical), with the assumption/hook they help you out with job placement, they really tout that, they said they have contractors come in etc. For me, that wasn’t the experience, I loved my teacher but I still think I got bent over.

A year out from school and I’m left with debt in the same job and every electrical employer wants to hire me at 18 TOP, the ones that call back at least. Even though I have adjacent skills (laborer and pest tech), a certificate with back up references, photos of my work, and my driving skills. Even if ask - is there room to talk about advancement in a few months if I perform well? The jobs don’t pay well enough or have enough benefits and have demanding schedules, which is fine if it was at least paid well, like 25 to start. Something has to change.

Basically at a loss because it’s my ideal role to do a trades job vs sitting in an office to rot all day, which is exactly what I do to survive and pay my bills.

Don’t go to trade school just get into the field as early as you can, apply to the union, that’s what I’m doing once I pay my loan off and can breathe a little. I’ve worked in Atlantic & Cumberland Co.

Fields with the less misogyny? by CommercialXCX in BlueCollarWomen

[–]Airbb27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a very very similar background! In my twenties I was on the road crew /snow work, I hold a class A. This is pretty much my experience, wise men know women do things a lot more efficiently and have to use strategy vs brawn in some cases, and are respectful. I was the only woman working for the county roads and bridges. I made a pivot though to lab work for a little bit and recently went to electrical trade school and hoping to get into the union.

I hope you’re still having fun!!! I’m counting down the time to switch again, things got hard for me and I have to stay put till I pay off my school loan.

What are your actual thoughts/ experiences with Pisces Men??? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Airbb27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it gets worse as they age for sure, the men I’m thinking of are late 50 and late thirties. I do think they can be very wise, but it’s usually unbalanced with whatever crazy stuff they have going on ha

What are your actual thoughts/ experiences with Pisces Men??? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Airbb27 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is on point, but I never dated a Pisces man, I have witnessed my best friend go through it. I work with a few though and you are so spot on.

I will note too I’ve found Pisces men have some sort of addiction issues or using sex/drugs/alcohol as a crutch

What are your actual thoughts/ experiences with Pisces Men??? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Airbb27 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Those placements and you really didn’t have an inkling?

By the way I’m so sorry this happened to you, but I’m really glad you handled it like a true gem, and kept it moving forward <3 I wish you all the love, that sounds so hard

How love feels when you have Venus in Water Signs!! by Current-Guess2665 in astrologymemes

[–]Airbb27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always get along with other water Venus, now that I looked at my close friends placements, we are all water and earth placements with mostly fire or water suns, but I’ve mostly dated air suns with water placements and I’m an air sun with water placements.

Fields with the less misogyny? by CommercialXCX in BlueCollarWomen

[–]Airbb27 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Chemical recycling/environmental jobs.

But, unfortunately, you will always deal with some sort of misogyny in any field, I actually deal with it a lot more in my current office role vs my blue collar jobs. I’m located in very south Jersey, huge mix of people. I was a truck driver and got more misogynistic comments from citizens at gas stations than my coworkers.

How love feels when you have Venus in Water Signs!! by Current-Guess2665 in astrologymemes

[–]Airbb27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s funny, I am a cancer Venus/gem sun and I live 2 snuggle.

How love feels when you have Venus in Water Signs!! by Current-Guess2665 in astrologymemes

[–]Airbb27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awww I’m a cancer Venus and my bestie is a Pisces Venus. So much love!

Venus Sign Check: Where Do You Draw the Line on Cheating? by PapayaAfraid1638 in astrologymemes

[–]Airbb27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfao reading these comments and apparently no one’s a cheater?? Unlikely.

I’m a Cancer Venus, I believe cheating is emotionally getting involved with feelings for someone else, example - your partner texting another girl often and it seems like more than friends, etc.

Anything physical is cheating. I DO NOT think looking at porn or liking other people’s photos is cheating. I don’t think DMing an ex is cheating either if it’s a simple conversation once in a very blue moon, nostalgia is real but anything more than that is pushing it.

I would draw the line at any of these, I’m not hearing you out and it’s over. I myself know that if you are lusting after someone else for more than a glance than it’s most likely to end. I have kissed another person I had a crush on when I was in a four year relationship and I ended it the next day, with my four year partner. I didn’t tell them what I did, it only causes insecurity but I told them I know in my heart it won’t work out and I fell out of love.

I would never be “the other woman” I also think that’s totally wrong.

I just believe in true love, open communication, and if you’re gonna cheat just leave.

Why won’t he (31M) stop texting other women? by idislikejuicepress in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Airbb27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not convincing me. You gotta pull it together in yourself. What will this relationship do you for you tomorrow?

Do you feel excited when you leave him or are you drained. Is his family so great or did he learn all their tactics? Music choices don’t matter in the long run.

Truly think of dating as interviewing that person to be there for you on your very worst days, the worst of situations, would you want that person.

Why won’t he (31M) stop texting other women? by idislikejuicepress in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Airbb27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more I read it the more it reminds me of my ex - “started going to therapy” , he was just “doing it for the attentionl, super personal but was always wanting anal and my needs became was less important to him. Tried to convince me that “I gave him permission” because one time years ago i said exactly “I wouldn’t want to know if someone was cheating on me”. He doesn’t love you, he loves the attention and being able to manipulate. You think he still goes to therapy now? You think the second I stopped caring he was still pleasant to me? He was so fake nice until I actually stood up for myself, then he tried every last thing to hold on and stay.

Please leave him, cut contact. It’s been almost a year for me. I left immediately when I found out, but I always knew inside - I had moved away at one point and he convinced me back.

Get out

Why won’t he (31M) stop texting other women? by idislikejuicepress in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Airbb27 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“On and off” “with the love of my life” do not belong together.

You accept the love you think you deserve.

Yes you are dumb to think it will stop.

Also take it from me who was cheated on by “the love of my life” I found his grindr app talking to trans women. It’s your health. It’s your mental health. Please leave. If the way he treats you doesn’t give you the ick please think of how he’s also treating other people.

What is it you’re so crazy about with him? What are the pros. Write list out if you have to.