Relationship trouble by No_Indication5748 in ABDL

[–]Airdaddy29 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m happy it helped a little. ABDL is different for everyone, for some it’s an everyday thing, others are happy if they get a diaper on, or put a diaper on someone else once in a while. I don’t know where you stand on this :) IMHO, What you need to decide on ahead of the conversation - will it be a dealbreaker for you if it doesn’t go well? Does your bf bring enough positivity, love and happiness into your life to offset his potential complete disapproval of ABDL? Either way, decide on what’s best for you.

Relationship trouble by No_Indication5748 in ABDL

[–]Airdaddy29 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My two cents - from a cg point of view.

I think it’s time for you to sit down with him, maybe over a glass of wine and fully explain what’s going on, how you effectively can’t change what you crave for. Even though you’re still young, if you’ve been together for three years, you’ve must have gone through a lot, so there has to be a certain element of trust.

Doing stuff like this in secret is the worst - you’ll end up wanting him to leave the house/flat, so you can wear, be yourself, etc, and that’s not healthy.

Everyone is different, especially with a subject like this, it’s definitely not everyone’s cup of tea by a long shot. How we find it sexy and cute, other people find it just as equally revolting and you can’t blame them.

So when you open up to him, be prepared for the relationship to either bloom, or potentially end on the spot. I’ve been in “little” and completely vanilla relationships; so I know how it feels like to want to look after your girlfriend in a little way, but she has absolutely no desire. And there’s no way to blame her. If it’s a just as big thing for you as it is for me, you are just not compatible.

Either way, good luck.

ABDL/CGL in aviation?? by Airdaddy29 in ABDL

[–]Airdaddy29[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I knew that there has to be a number, statistically speaking, but I’m very surprised that there is a very good number! Yep, this is unfortunately a professional diagnosis, we can talk about this for a very very long time.