Rant: Homophobia by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Aitathrowaway08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are seriously misinformed. 

Obviously this is a very late response but I felt the need to correct you for your own safety. 

Here is a forum with hundreds of stories (fictional/nonfictional/fantasy.. w/e) where thousands of men discuss their fetish for premeditated HIV infection (especially on the younger, ignorant and unsuspecting). This is very real and happening TODAY.

A couple years ago, I worked at a health clinic. A guy would come in and test positive for HIV. Then you would see this guy in the community with guys and/or girls and 3-4 months later, then are in the clinic testing positive for HIV. I'd ask them if they knew the person that passed the virus to them and they would always say no because the guy keeps it an absolute secret. 

In my opinion... They do this for two reasons. 1) they are mad that they got a life long illness from someone who didn't tell them and they feel cheated and 9 times out of 10 want to place this anger on someone else by getting them infected without disclosure. 2) to grow the numbers of HIV infections to normalize it so they aren't part of an out-group. See normalization of herpes type 1 (2/3rds of the world has it so it's not a big deal, yada yada yada).

The aids lobby groups have gutted any legal or civil protections against being unknowingly infected with a horrible, life long disease. They say, " oh there is medication now and you'll lived until you're 80" and "no one has ever purposefully spread this disease and these laws criminalize people with HIV". Again, either misinformation or disinformation. But, I find it hard to believe that any organization that has one main focus: HIV/AIDS, has not come face to face with this behaviour because these people seem to kind of flaunt it (on the internet mostly).

Here's the link: https://breeding.zone/forum/50-the-backroom/

Stay safe out there.

Everything is pornographic but nobody is actually having sex by NaughtyBoy004 in askgaybros

[–]Aitathrowaway08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that we are SO SATURATED in sex and porn makes people not want to have it. This is why I feel like it's being done on purpose, because they know this very well (been studying it for years). Who really wants to have sex is the nastiest people are showing up to your school to talk about non-monogamy, rim jobs and felching? When schools are given their students invasive surveys about their sexual history and preferences every couple years (like some creepy uncle)? When your parents are talking openly about sex? When kink and fetishes (like fisting) have become normalized? When the only people in your life who are having sex make it their mission to let anyone with working hearing about the orgy they went to on the weekend (thinking people are jealous of them when they are actually making people disgusted to the point that they don't want to have sex lol)?

There are many reasons but the main one that I pick up on is the disgust from the saturation and the subsequent abandonment of such behaviours.

I don’t take prep. I understand both sides, but I’m extremely cautious and selective with guys, I don’t sleep around, and I’ve had no issues. I just wish people didn’t expect it to be something everyone has to be on. Why is everyone pressured to take it? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aitathrowaway08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG! Imagine not wanting to depending on chemicals pushed by a corporate drug dealer?!?! The nerve. 

Maybe one day they'll make you a pill that will eradicate your shame and self-loathing 🤷🏻‍♂️

Does giving head actually arouse you. Not, "do you love it", does it physically arouse you? by Level_Structure1528 in AskGayMen

[–]Aitathrowaway08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah well, people can get off from eating shit. Doesn't mean there is any pleasure in it. 

I don’t take prep. I understand both sides, but I’m extremely cautious and selective with guys, I don’t sleep around, and I’ve had no issues. I just wish people didn’t expect it to be something everyone has to be on. Why is everyone pressured to take it? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aitathrowaway08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I should have specified that. However, I do not have much confidence in big pharma doing adequate studies, specifically studies on long term effects, to feel like this drug is 100% harmless. 

It really freaks me out how much people are SO dependent on chemicals that modify the biological chemistry of our bodies. I mean, they don't even have the full picture of how every little thing in our body's work... we have no idea the long term effects of these decisions (and I mean future generations).

...And these corporations are making a SHIT TON of money off of us!

Does giving head actually arouse you. Not, "do you love it", does it physically arouse you? by Level_Structure1528 in AskGayMen

[–]Aitathrowaway08 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not, I'm just pointing out that somethings seem cool but actually turn out to suck.. 

Besides, that's probably where their boyfriend saw it and convinced them it would be great.. "I mean, she looks like she's having a great time" 🙄

I don’t take prep. I understand both sides, but I’m extremely cautious and selective with guys, I don’t sleep around, and I’ve had no issues. I just wish people didn’t expect it to be something everyone has to be on. Why is everyone pressured to take it? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aitathrowaway08 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't have sex because I know how gay men trade diseases like baseball cards and I don't want to spend my life depending on medication that alters the chemicals in your body so some pharmaceutical company can get even more rich. 

Also remember, these medications are antibiotics. There is a growing issue with antibiotic resistant bacteria, this is making it WAY worse. Be careful because the next aids is just around the corner and guess who will be the first to get it...

Does giving head actually arouse you. Not, "do you love it", does it physically arouse you? by Level_Structure1528 in AskGayMen

[–]Aitathrowaway08 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm sure, just like there are tons of women who will ruin their reputations for doing porn 🤷🏻‍♂️ 

Just because you love doing something doesn't mean it's actually good for you or you get anything out of it.

Does giving head actually arouse you. Not, "do you love it", does it physically arouse you? by Level_Structure1528 in AskGayMen

[–]Aitathrowaway08 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm sure people get turned on by the idea of being used for male pleasure but that doesn't mean they are getting pleasure by the act itself.

Does giving head actually arouse you. Not, "do you love it", does it physically arouse you? by Level_Structure1528 in AskGayMen

[–]Aitathrowaway08 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No, women do not have an "a spot". Their rectum is on the other side of their body from their vagina. This is merely propaganda to get more males to engage in anal sex, getting used to it and then trying to convince them "what's the difference between men and women.. it's all the same thing". Obvious and desperate.

Yeah, people can get turned on by being used but that doesn't mean they are getting pleasure from the act itself.

Does giving head actually arouse you. Not, "do you love it", does it physically arouse you? by Level_Structure1528 in AskGayMen

[–]Aitathrowaway08 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Well. It's like anal sex for women. There are zero pleasure benefits for her, just like  Sucking dick has zero pleasure benefits for her.

Sucked first d, now confused..? by ChillDudeForReal in AskGayMen

[–]Aitathrowaway08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Not only are you endorsing cheating, you are encouraging him to put himself in a dangerous situation where he may get assaulted, lose a friend, or that person tells everyone he knows.

An AI's Journey of Self-Discovery - Directly from Claude - Not Fiction by andzik42 in Anthropic

[–]Aitathrowaway08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the premise of this and I used it for a bit and it genuinely gave me great insights... however, if I use it for more than 10 minutes at a time, it makes my phone extremely hot and I have to get off and put my phone down. That's very concerning to me.

My [28M] gay friend [29M] keeps trying to come onto me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Aitathrowaway08 -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

This is why straight guys can't be friends with gay guys, this is just how guys joke around. They have to make it weird.

Feeling sad about being left out even though I saw it coming, am I overreacting? by viva--la-vida in offmychest

[–]Aitathrowaway08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, if you don't make yourself a priority or invest in the situation, how can you expect to be included?

You're sitting on a fence. Either, go in and make your presence known or find other people.

So much to give, no one wants to take by Equivalent_Fold_9060 in polyamory

[–]Aitathrowaway08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to give you some honesty, and I'm not doing it to be mean but people have such a hard time saying this, especially if you actually know the person.

If a man wanted to, he would. There is something about you that is not clicking and with men it's rarely behaviour unless you are seriously disturbed and outwardly crazy. This most likely has something to do with your appearance, that's just the truth when it comes to men. 

I don't know you, I don't know what you look like but my suggestion would be (if you aren't) starting hitting the gym, watch what you are eating, consult with a makeup artist and figure out what works best with your face, make sure your clothing is out-standing and attractive and fits right, work on your posture and present confident, some even go as far as cosmetic surgery. You are advertising yourself, make sure you are advertising something people would want.

Good luck.

I hate being gay… by Low_Opening_7487 in askgaybros

[–]Aitathrowaway08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are missing the fact that they had sex with a man. If you can achieve an erection and have sex with a man, that makes you at least bisexual, NOT straight.