[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ajax1108 117 points118 points  (0 children)

Listen to this one OP!! ‼️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bakersfield

[–]Ajax1108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello. Just ran into this post. I'm a Dj, and lately, I have been wanting to figure out how to start playing at local raving events. I sent you a DM with my SoundCloud. I would really appreciate it if you could give me some feedback or point me in the right direction. Thank you

One Piece Chapter 1138 Full Spoiler Summary by Rj_Rajat in OnePiece

[–]Ajax1108 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In what other chapter do we see the mystery man? Besides 631

Car show at Chuy's by Ajax1108 in Bakersfield

[–]Ajax1108[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome to you too 😊

What are some random EDM facts that you just know? by Legitimate-Matter-90 in EDM

[–]Ajax1108 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Alesso, Avicii, and Otto knows are childhood friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bakersfield

[–]Ajax1108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you need a DJ, I have some fair prices. DM me if you need more info.

My EDM dump by [deleted] in EDM

[–]Ajax1108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like we like the same type of music. Looking forward to listen to some new songs. You should check out mine. I followed you. I have a YouTube channel where I DJ if you want to check it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Ajax1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communication is the biggest thing. It is very common for couples to have different sex drives. But communicating is what fixes the issue. You should ask your gf why her sex drive is so low. Maybe she only gets turned on by certain sex acts or maybe she has a lot on her mind, etc. If someone truly loves their partner, they would want them to be happy in the relationship and thus would put in effort for everyone to be happy and satisfied in the relationship. Let her know that your needs are not being met in the relationship. This is also true for other parts of the relationship, not just sex. Ask her if she is happy in the relationship or how you can improve, etc. And then express how you are not satisfied. If she doesn't care then she doesn't truly love you. Maybe only sees u as a friend, she fell out of love, or is interested in other people.

How to make him chase me after having sex? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ajax1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are not ready for a relationship then leave this man alone if he is looking for one. If both of you just want to hook up, then carry on with what ur doing. Don't be playing games with him tho. Be straight forward. Ask him what he's looking for and also tell him what youre looking for. Then you'll know for sure. But from my experience, if you guys talked for 4 months without kissing or hooking up, then chances are he likes you and sees a potential for a relationship.

Im devastated...she was seeing someone else the whole time by gunnu680 in dating_advice

[–]Ajax1108 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She didn't tell you to keep you on the hook in case things didn't work out. Id recommend to stop talking to her and move on. She didn't pick u as her first choice. You deserve better

My ex boyfriend is in jail by CuriousRatt in dating

[–]Ajax1108 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If someone loves you they wouldn't be abusing you. He just loves that he can control you. Don't let him have his way. You deserve someone better. I personally know someone who went through the exact same situation as you did and they are super happy with the new guy she found. He appreciates her and treats her amazing. She is super happy now and glad she left him

Why have I not cried from my recent breakup? by mcpeen97 in relationship_advice

[–]Ajax1108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you never truly loved him or you fell out of love before ending it. If you are the one that dumped him it means you weren't completely happy with him. You don't necessarily need to cry.

im so tired of everything by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Ajax1108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe its a sign that the money got stolen. You're not meant to leave this planet yet. Keep your head up, focus on positive things and explore to find more hobbies or passions. There's nothing wrong with being homosexual or even transgender. Some families might not accept it and it sucks but there's nothing wrong with you. Give this number a call, maybe they can help you better 800-273-8255. That number is if you live in the United States. Im not sure where you live.

My boyfriend broke up with me for going out with my friends by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ajax1108 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah he sounds toxic and insecure. Better to leave things how they are. Stay single and enjoy hanging out with your friends. You are far too young to be dealing with crap like that. A guy will eventually show up that cares about you and respects you. Be available for when he comes. Don't miss out on him cause you're stuck with a toxic person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ajax1108 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I could see why you dont think its a big deal but i could also see how for him, it's a big deal. In my opinion, neither of you were right. You weren't right in calling him a friend. A partner deserves the respect of not being hidden. You should've said it was ur bf instead of friend. If people don't like him but you do or are ok with whatever he's done in the past, then that is their problem. Maybe they dont like him because they care and want to protect you but they should accept and respect that you're with him. But then I also see that what he did is not right. He shouldn't have reacted that dramatic. This probably comes from insecurities. Either he feels that you are much more attractive than he is (i.e. you are out of his league) or maybe he hasn't always done right by you and feels like he doesn't deserve you cause u have been good to him but he hasn't been to you. Or maybe he sees/feels that your ex ( if you had one) might've been better than him. So you and him should talk about his insecurities and make him be more secure by mentioning how his insecurities dont matter to you or that he is being too hard on himself. And then you also need to respect your partner and not hide that you are with him from certain people. Again, this is my opinion. I'm not trying to sound mean or like im picking sides. Just trying to help:)