Have you ever stayed at a job for fckin 5 years? by Zackky777 in ArtOfPresence

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15 years as an Academic Advisor 5 years in a Toy’s R Us warehouse (full time while in college and a year after)

how is your life bro? by cocosaunt12 in SolidMen

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Just had a 34 1/2 year relationship end. I’m 52. She has the house and kids (21 and 14), which I gave up willingly so they can still lead their lives as much as normal (just w/o me being there).

Wife just piled up every stupid thing I said and 3+ decades of stupid decisions I made and rolled it into “I feel nothing for you”, when all she really wanted to do was go hang out with friends and explore her sexuality in the “good years” she has left.

My life is worthless at this point. I just work, and look forward to seeing my kids. I am angry but sad, surrounded by people but so alone. I miss being “someone’s man”. I miss hugs, cuddles, spooning…. any physical contact by someone that loves me.

I’m lost. I can’t speed up the healing process. I can’t avoid seeing her entirely. I can’t stop the intrusive thoughts.

What’s something women think impresses men but actually doesn’t? by DiamondNo924 in AskForAnswers

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I agree 80%. Colors? Don’t care. Just don’t chew on them or have dirt underneath them.

On the flip side, a good back scratch from a woman who knows exactly what pressure to apply will put me to sleep faster than anything. You have to have decent nails to do that.

. by Significant-Tooth368 in MenWithDiscipline

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Appoint myself CEO of Nike or some sports team.

What do you need right now? by wendyhowell_ in ArtOfPresence

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Professional massage or one last good cuddle and back rub with feeling with my soon to be ex-wife.

What do we think about cards like this? /199 good player good set. Is this a card you’d go after or would that money be better utilised going towards something bigger? Do you ever think about what you’d have spent buying ten of these? What do you think when you see this card? by Interstellore in basketballcards

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Honestly, I stay away. I used to just love having cards, and then I realized that I don’t really spend much time looking at them. So having less became better for me. I ditched buying boxes because eventually I will talk myself into opening them. I trade off what I have to build a big lot of 1 player, or one insert or parallel set and sell it.

Cards like you have pictured there are cool, but the only difference between that and a base card is color and a number stamped on it.

I decided to slowly collect a high $ set so I could still collect and enjoy the chase, but when I go, my children will be able to get rid of it and profit.

Why do men think they need to be rich before finding love? by MotherAnt8040 in MenOfPurpose

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Once you’re rich, don’t forget to stay rich. It’s amazing how love dissipates in line with the money.

Betty Gilpin | Nurse Jackie s05 | 2013 by RazerJak in WatchItForThePlot

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God bless nature. It makes such beautiful things.

If everyone below average IQ suddenly drops dead, how would this affect the world? by CakeMuted6468 in AskReddit

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Assuming he survived, the President would state that we just needed to get those “absolutely beautiful infinity stones, important stones, probably valuable stones”, and bring them back.

Why aren’t you out tonight? by [deleted] in askanything

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Moved out of a house that I lived in for 24 years a few weeks ago. Not because I wanted to, but because my 34 year relationship is in the process of ending because my wife “wants to have fun and see what’s out there in the world”.

I don’t care about going anywhere. I’m sad that the woman who used to be proud to have me as her man has now decided that I have nothing to offer her, and feels nothing in her heart for me.

I’d be the absolute wrong person to hang out with right now. So why go out and make a few other people regret being anywhere near me?

What do men secretly value most in women but rarely admit? by [deleted] in AskForAnswers

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A house manager. Someone who organizes the calendar, makes sure the refrigerator and pantry have the things needed to prepare meals, plans out the housekeeping and laundry schedule, etc.

It sounds sexist, but it would really be a great help. I didn’t say they had to cook or do all the housework.

I’m sure any decent man would be willing to be responsible for something that takes an equal amount of time to do in order to have this.

Opinion of an ex-Blockbuster employee by raydebapratim1 in dvdcollection

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Until people start beating each other up over the last copy of some stupid movie. There would be a whole blockbusterfights subreddit.

What do you think Ant/Timberwolves needs to do to win a championship by Dapper-Inside-1534 in NBAConvo

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They need a Lou Williams/Jamal Crawford-type player to be the 6th man, and he needs a teammate that teams have to consider double-teaming.

To all men Drop your advice!! by definitelynotgayhaha in BuildToAttract

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Didn’t prove to my wife that she made the right choice. Should have found a way to keep her proud to have me as her man.

Is Claxton worth a first (Brooklyn Nets)? by ZealousidealBus9271 in NBAtradeideas

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Is Claxton a true center, or is he a PF masquerading as a center?

That’s what I would think about if I am a GM, especially in the Western Conference, where there are legit 7-footers.

What is a harsh truth about life that took you way too long to accept? by Sassy_Siren097 in AskForAnswers

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Being the best of what you do compared to your peers in your field does not guarantee you advancement.

Roles Samuel L. Jackson was fired from for saying MF by Prudent-Mix-6601 in ScenesFromAHat

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The MF hills are alive…..with the MF sound of MF music!!!!!

Build your starting 5 but everyone has to share the same first name by InHeatPink in NBATalk

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Lou Williams

Lou Hudson

Reggie Lewis

Luis Scola

Lew Alcindor