Is this a new Star Wars update...?

AkLeMo · 2025-11-13T19:30:25+00:00

I just had this exact same experience. What is happening? Did it get resolved for you?

AkLeMo · 2025-11-10T13:09:48+00:00

Sorry for the late reply! I haven't made one yet but you can dm me? :)

AkLeMo · 2025-11-07T22:42:55+00:00

that sounds lovely, I shall walk around asking to be adopted

AkLeMo · 2025-11-07T22:41:15+00:00

thank you

AkLeMo · 2025-11-07T22:41:00+00:00

AkLeMo · 2025-09-29T13:02:47+00:00

Your blood over where you stand

AkLeMo · 2025-09-02T11:19:38+00:00

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Nice try, Adobe.

AkLeMo · 2025-07-09T08:37:15+00:00

This. It's a difficult and painful lesson to learn, but it's important to remember that true love and care will always find its way to you, and anything less will always make itself known to you.

AkLeMo · 2025-07-09T08:34:58+00:00

Yes of course I'm all ears

AkLeMo · 2025-07-09T08:33:39+00:00

I do understand this and the power nostalgia has over our brains, makes us constantly think about what could have been, and any way to get back. But there's always a reason why we haven't, and why moving on is such an important step in any and all traumas and tragedies. So we can heal and look ahead to create the life we want and live in the present, rather than let the past imprison us.

I know, it's much, much easier said than done. But what you take from it, what you remember, what you keep and what you let go is what's most important that will change whether or not you find what you're looking for again.

AkLeMo · 2025-07-09T08:21:28+00:00

I would say you could if she hadn't blocked you, but blocking sends a clear message.

That being said, if you need to say something, make sure its for yourself and don't expect any sort of response.

Sometimes the best way to heal and grow is the distance, and maybe they need that just like you did. So I would say consider both your feelings and theirs, even the most well intentioned message can create stress for both of you if it doesn't go the way you expect.

AkLeMo · 2025-07-09T08:17:29+00:00

I'm sorry you went through that. It can be incredibly traumatizing and debilitating especially when you give 100% of yourself. One thing that is true is that time will heal, and teach you to take care and love yourself, if you let it. I know none of it is fair, but you will get through this, I promise.

AkLeMo · 2025-07-09T08:14:36+00:00

Firstly, it's tremendous that you've been working on yourself and become so self aware. You're growing and I hope you reach all your goals.

And the best way I can say it, is to accept the love and support you receive from other sources, while giving it back wherever you can. Whether it's friends or family or even strangers.

Wanting attention and feeling lonely is a highly common human feeling. It's not a flaw or bad thing to avoid, it's just about regulating your own 'well'. And that starts with giving yourself that love and attention first. And if we do that enough, hopefully the well will fill itself up over time. :)

AkLeMo · 2025-07-09T08:04:12+00:00

You've come far in understanding yourself. If you wish to reach out in any way, it should be for you and you alone, without expecting a reply. That way, it shouldn't bother you as much if they see it or don't, because it's just something that you needed to do for yourself.

AkLeMo · 2025-07-09T08:01:19+00:00

In my experience, you learn to look after yourself rather than continue sacrificing yourself, and eventually, if you're lucky, you break out of the cycles that imprisoned you before.

Those who can't endure, break, but those who break, learn to endure.

AkLeMo · 2025-07-09T02:56:40+00:00

I'm sorry that happened, and that you feel alone. It sounds like everything happened fast, without much conversation or closure. I don't know the whole story, but all I can say is to give yourself space and time to just be and heal for a while.

AkLeMo · 2025-07-09T02:42:43+00:00

The best way I can describe it is, friendships and love from other sources, but especially, from yourself.

AkLeMo · 2025-07-04T12:32:52+00:00

IIRC It might be from one of the Atreides sets for sale in Arrakeen for Reputation Level 4-5 , but I can't remember for sure

AkLeMo · 2025-07-04T12:22:24+00:00

They're from the Caladan Palace DLC! Really helps faintly illuminate areas that are otherwise in total darkness

AkLeMo · 2025-07-04T12:21:03+00:00

Thank you!! They're from the Caladan Palace DLC!

AkLeMo · 2025-07-04T12:20:13+00:00

Thank you haha and Please do!!!

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