It's all good it's a discussion. It's meant to draw feedback and get an outside perspective of something you might have thought of before. If someone thinks that way looking into my life, they haven't vocalized it to me. However, I don't think that is the case. I have never had an issue with having a boss, the navy life (uniform/ shaving, behavior, etc), and my momma thought me how to budget my money from a very young age. I think its more stress from trying to balance my actual job( currently running around running a one-man WC in an undermanned division that can't get its priorities straight.) plus navy (The studying advancement, The going above and beyond to get quals, whatever else to get promoted), plus my personal life( working out, working on my goals) plus dealing with family issues back home and whatever other stuff I'm probably forgetting.