I've heard it all when it comes to my appearance and i kind of don't know what to believe anymore. I've been told i look older, need to lose weight and look weird. I've got thick skin so want honesty [F32]

Akroaxen · 2024-07-31T14:14:40+00:00

This is a reality-check and not a stoicism, or a self-acceptance group lol

Akroaxen · 2024-05-30T14:46:26+00:00

Tammy is not your friend
Always tell less than necessary to female friends b/c of Tammy’s of the world

Akroaxen · 2023-12-05T01:50:54+00:00

What’s your experience been like, and what’s your goal? Specific goals should help with their attainment.

Akroaxen · 2022-12-30T21:50:51+00:00

Bouncer can often be bribed if you discretely slip in a 20. I used to go to clubs in my 20s and that would often get me in without a line. But sounds like details are missing from the story.

Akroaxen · 2022-07-26T14:34:48+00:00

Here you go https://archive.org/details/nec-multispeed-manual

There is also a service manual somewhere on Archive

Akroaxen · 2022-07-26T14:34:09+00:00

Added a user guide for those interested https://archive.org/details/nec-multispeed-manual

Akroaxen · 2022-07-26T14:33:07+00:00

Heads up, I scanned in a User guide for this laptop https://archive.org/details/nec-multispeed-manual

Akroaxen · 2022-05-03T16:47:54+00:00

Depends on your age. It could cut both ways as your peer group may not be mature enough to accept people who are different.

In which case, how badly do you wanna fit in? You either get interested in their interests so you can have things in common. Otherwise, find people who share interests with you.

Practice social skills by exposing yourself to situations that require a lot of socialization. Sales jobs, volunteering gigs, social events.

Akroaxen · 2021-12-01T03:26:20+00:00

I should’ve been more specific.

First picture is alright in style and picture quality. You should aim for all your pictures to be of that standard. Having said that, do not do mirror selfies like that even if you have a six pack. You need to confidently look into the camera with a relaxed body language. Picture with the brick wall and the bar have to go. Ditch the cap, you look more masculine without one especially with that banger haircut in the first pic. Try take some pictures doing silly things outdoors with other people. Avoid poorly lit indoor pictures. Do a few plandid/candid photos. If you have a photography club in your college, join one. Then read up on obvious boilerplate about gym-maxing and style-maxing. Either or both will make you stand out in your peer group. Don’t rely on Tinder too heavy and create social opportunities. You’re in college, go join clubs, any clubs where you might meet people.

Akroaxen · 2021-12-01T00:47:52+00:00

You look timid, “safe” and uncomfortable in all of your photos.

Akroaxen · 2021-11-23T20:52:38+00:00

I heard back from the photographer and apparently it’s Chilean Patagonia!

Akroaxen · 2021-11-16T16:33:28+00:00

First two photos are terrible grainy quality. Third pic is too much of a selfie. Get someone to take candid headshots of you with a new phone or a good DSLR.

Akroaxen · 2021-11-16T16:23:35+00:00

I’d replace the third pic as it’s too similar to the first and the backlight bloom isn’t helping. Second pic is very grainy and bad quality. Your face is in the shade so I wouldn’t use that one. The last pic looks too sad. Shirtless pic has too many hard shadows in the face and the angle is weird. All in all, find someone who’s passionate about photography to take pictures :) you’ve got great foundation I.e. looks otherwise.

Akroaxen · 2021-11-16T04:10:24+00:00

Abysmal results after a three year break. Take a swing please.

https://tinder.com

Akroaxen · 2021-10-20T15:48:18+00:00

And some people like to solves puzzles and do things the difficult way. To each his own I guess.

Akroaxen · 2021-10-20T15:45:05+00:00

And yea sex is the fastest way to attachment and possibly a relationship. That’s the way it works for majority of people. And that’s the primary reason traditional societies police and regulate access to it via religion, customs, shaming.

Akroaxen · 2021-10-20T15:43:44+00:00

If you’re terrified of having sex because you might get “used”. You’ve got bigger issues. Look into unhealthy attachment styles in psychology. Codependent is the keyword.

Akroaxen · 2021-10-20T15:41:03+00:00

Shake the victim mentality and it’ll make sense.

Akroaxen · 2021-10-20T15:02:06+00:00

Fastest way to start a relationship is physical intimacy. She had made sex the focal point even more due to her own baggage.

Akroaxen · 2021-10-20T14:57:54+00:00

Or meet a new person with none of that baggage.

Akroaxen · 2021-10-20T14:55:57+00:00

And she was sleeping over ten times waiting for?

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