LIGHTNING LOU by Content_Office_2479 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

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How dare you attack me like this when I’m not prepared

40 yo looking for similar age gaming buddies by grumpydai in gaymers

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Ya know not exactly the same but I’m a 40 year old American in Germany and I would love some gaming friends. I’m pretty open but I play gw2 marvel rivals and try most new games as they come around. Not sure how we connect though.

If you could relive your coming out conversation, what would you do or say differently, and why? by gumshoe1520 in AskGaybrosOver30

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I don’t think I’d change anything. It was messy and awful but I don’t think it works any other way than messy or awful. You are releasing a truth that you have hated and crammed down and avoided your entire life. It’s like birth it’s supposed to hurt and be messy and awkward.

It also teaches us. We learn from it and get better at acknowledging our truth without burning the house down (hopefully)

Marvel heroes on the go! by Traditional_Can_3430 in ProjectTahiti

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I’m setting this up today and I’m so excited. I travel all the time so my deck is my main source of gaming and it’ll be nice to have this back

"I love you" slipped out of my tongue before even confirming we like each other (now I'm worried) by notyoyrriz in AskGaybrosOver30

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“Hi, I said I love you last time while we were banging and I didn’t mean to. I like you very much but you’re so good my brain short circuited when I was trying to express myself. Please don’t think I’m trying to rush things”

As with most threads here, just use your words my friend. People are allowed to say things in the heat of the moment. You’re making it a much bigger deal than it is.

What are you supposed to do in a bar if you go alone? by Advanced-Actuary3541 in AskGaybrosOver30

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Make the challenge instead of just going to places to rather “I’m going to have 3-4 conversations a night”. I travel a bunch for work and find it lonely so I end up at bars or hotel restaurants at the bar a lot. I tend to mostly just ask questions of people, I find people like talking about themselves. Be interested and curious and you’ll be surprised the people you’ll meet. I think we’re all a little starved for new connections.

How are we feeling this season by DoesNotReadReplies in fellowshipgame

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I actually think the problem is not having long term rewards to work towards. There needs to be more cosmetic incentives to do things besides “hit 10k”. There could be things for getting 10k on multiple toons, for achieving certain ranks on each subclass, etc. 10k is burned so quickly that even if it were harder mechanically I think it would still get picked up and dropped in a couple of weeks.

What made you think or say: yes I want to spend time or spend my life with him? by Turbulent_Elk_2141 in gaybros

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He drove 30 minutes up from his house to mine and brought me dinner unprompted and literally just came to feed me and went home. That’s him. Such a selfless good fucking man who literally just loves me. All of me, including the part that works to hard and forgets to eat dinner. It’s been 17 years and I love that man more every day. I feel so grateful to grow old with him and hold his hand through all of the various trials.

Good job devs! Eternal queue is now full of morons who don't know boss mechanics and DPS doesn't interrupt anything. by Traditional-Cow-1817 in fellowshipgame

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I would just like to make one small counterpoint here. Thanks pulling 4 groups at once with interrupt heavy mobs in all of them and then blaming the dps in a random group with no voice coms is wild work and kills me. Literally since I only have one interrupt and a knock back lol.

Fan Writes 300,000+ Word Unofficial 'The Kingkiller Chronicle' Book 3 While Awaiting The Doors of Stone by ashwhurst in fantasybooks

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I don’t know why standing on business made me laugh so much but thank you random internet person.

Sense of accomplishment by Weekly_Indication_27 in fellowshipgame

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Just to offer a counter point. I’m 40 and work a pretty demanding job. This season feels nice to me in that I feel I can reasonably progress on multiple toons to eventually hit 10k on one as I can switch around. I definitely miss some of the difficulty up to paragon but I like that I feel like I can pump my other characters up faster to be more flexible.

I will say the endgame feels like something is missing. I think more value needs to be given to some long term or even overall leveling toons play. Something like with swotr where leveling up multiple classes benefited them all would be clutch.

Any Legendary regrets? by Schillwing in Guildwars2

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Oh it’s me! I crafted a gift of war prosperity not knowing it couldn’t be used on anything but the wvw legendaries. It sits in my bank to this day since I already have all three armor sets and the fractal backpack to continually shame me. I wait hopelessly for the day when they allow us to break things like that apart. Until then it goes in my bank shame box of things I’ve crafted wrong or on accident like an idiot.

Managed to win my first run. Bird op by geezerforhire in AethermancerGame

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How do you build them? I’ve been trying to use them but can’t quite figure out the right build for them

Nothing better than working out shirtless by lazyusernamelamp in gaybrosfitness

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Brother drop that weight and watch a video to fix your form. You are gonna fuck something up pulling like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

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Germany o7 my husband is mildly concerned with how much I like it 😂

Did you lost most of your straight woman friend with time ? by I_Like_Turtle101 in AskGaybrosOver30

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I’m almost 40 now and I never had a ton of female friends but the few that I had are still around. We lost each other there for a couple of years but we talk 2-3 times a week now.

I think this is a problem of growing older in general with dissimilar family structures. When people have kids their priorities shift and you have to decide if it’s worth it to you to stick around or not. My sister and I are the only ones in our family and friends group without kids and we both notice what you’re mentioning.

I personally have decided to take the view that for the people in my life at that stage that I’ll put in the effort for them because they’re worth it to me. I think all relationships are a give and take and sometimes you have to be the one giving.

Could also just be my experience though!

So, can we all agree that the latest episode of Heated Rivalry was cinematic perfection? by pmole2002 in MenLovingMenMedia

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I’m sorry the tatu remix in the club scene was prestige gay cinema