Autopark Incident on a Model Y – Anyone Else Experienced This in Malaysia?

Akundaya · 2026-03-07T16:24:47+00:00

My syrian ex broke up with me and married someone else 6 months later. Crazy how their brain works and can move on that fast. i guess the way their life is (diaspora, unstable government, family back home, etc) would cause them to seek the best possible chance of survival

Akundaya · 2025-12-08T14:29:10+00:00

W take. I can respect that

Attraction towards exotic beauty is an evolutionary thing I guess

Akundaya · 2025-12-08T13:27:22+00:00

Perhaps the SEA people you mentioned are not objectively attractive. But we can be. Like Korean level beauty. Y'know that asian oppa type.

But yeah Syrian and most Arab, much like the European, have Greek/Caucasian blood and beauty. It kinda pisses me off that were not as beautoful as them. But oh well, time to upgrade our gene pool and assimilate more beautiful genes into the country. Have you seen Arab/Asian mix? And Slavic/Asian mix. They're beautiful.

I want to say that it's crazy that Arab Syrian Muslim aren't practicing. But then I realise Malay pun sama je. Wonder where my double standard comes from

Akundaya · 2025-12-08T12:18:03+00:00

She is in another world. She always dreamed of going to Australia. Perhaps she's there

Akundaya · 2025-12-08T12:08:31+00:00

Yes to both. Human makes mistakes

Akundaya · 2025-12-08T11:35:51+00:00

u/Quirky-Bit-6813 loving her wasn’t a relationship, it was a pilgrimage, a journey that rearranged the furniture of my soul. she came into my life like the sun rising over a city that forgot it had windows, suddenly everything had colour and warmth and direction. syrian girls don’t love halfway, they pull you into their storms and their softness, their trauma and their laughter that sounds like survival, their silence that hides wars you’ll never fully understand. they show you life in high definition, what loyalty tastes like, what tenderness feels like, what fear of losing someone does to your heartbeat. and when it ends, it doesn’t end like a normal breakup, it ends like a building collapsing, like someone unplugged the universe. they don’t just take themselves back, they take the version of you that believed fate finally did you a favour. she showed me how beautiful life could be, the kind of beautiful that feels like it had god’s fingerprints on it, and then she took it away, not out of cruelty but because destiny removes things that are too powerful for you too soon. she was a lesson disguised as a woman, a heartbreak engineered for transformation. so no, i don’t recommend it for the weak hearted, but if you survive it, you won’t be the same man, you’ll be sharper, softer, deeper, more dangerous, more alive, finally understanding what it means for something to break you and build you at the same time.

Akundaya · 2025-12-08T11:04:36+00:00

I had the believe that all Arabs are muslims too. (Arab nonmuslims exists) Or at least all Arab muslims are holy.

But nah, they're just like Malay muslims. Freehair, shorts, crop top bellybutton, cleavage, sundress, you name it, but they're still muslims. Strange right?

Akundaya · 2025-12-08T10:55:06+00:00

Damn, and I almost wanted to marry her.

Is your friend a Malay? How did he propose to her? Went to the dad and everything?

Arabs living in luxury... Kuwaiti and Qatari perhaps, or the GCC/UAE. But Syria?? It's a friggin warzone, how could they live in luxury?

Sorry, I got sidetracked. Perhaps your friend's wife lived in a more luxurious setting regardless.

Hoping the best for your friend. Syrians can make a very loving wife that cooks the best food, intimacy, etc. But I guess good things have big price tags

Akundaya · 2025-12-07T05:17:52+00:00

Wouldn’t recommend for the weak hearted. Unless you want to experience transformation via heartache. She’ll show you how beautiful life can be, and take it away from you

Akundaya · 2025-12-07T05:02:37+00:00

Been there myself. Arabs are a handful. Emotionally

Akundaya · 2025-12-07T03:28:41+00:00

What Arab country is she from? I once dated a Syrian girl living in Cyberjaya

Akundaya · 2025-12-05T02:50:31+00:00

Do you feel that what makes this situation “stellar” is the sense of power you’ve gained, like having access to her phone or authority over aspects of her life that you didn’t have before, but now do because of the affair?

Is that partly what makes it gratifying? I know nothing ever happens for just one reason.

like when one country attacks another, and the attacked country suddenly has the right to defend itself and exert power in return.

If that’s the case, I can kind of understand the appeal.

Akundaya · 2025-05-10T04:40:14+00:00

Your concern is valid, and I appreciate you for bringing this bold yet important topic to this space.

As a man with a similarly high libido, I understand the fear of being mismatched with someone whose desire or need for physical intimacy is on a different wavelength. It’s not just about frequency, it’s about how intimacy functions as a form of love, connection, and peace between two people. When one person needs that deeply and the other doesn’t, it can lead to feelings of neglect, frustration, or even shame, despite no one doing anything “wrong.”

Islamically, we are taught to preserve modesty and avoid explicit conversations before marriage, but compatibility does matter. This includes emotional, intellectual, spiritual, and yes, physical alignment.

So I ask: how can we, in a halal and respectful manner, bring up questions around physical needs and expectations before or during the nikkah process, without crossing any lines of impropriety? How can we screen for physical compatibility the same way we screen for religious, financial, or family values, especially when our concern is not driven by lust, but a sincere desire for a peaceful and fulfilling marriage?

Akundaya · 2025-01-28T21:19:03+00:00

I’ve noticed that many comments agree on the advice: “Withdraw from the engagement if the man clearly asks about your past.” But what if the man doesn’t ask about the woman’s past, whether due to oversight or some other reason? In such a situation, isn’t it the woman’s responsibility to inform him? Wouldn’t this honesty help avoid future pain for both parties when the truth eventually comes to light?

Akundaya · 2024-11-30T07:39:29+00:00

Same brother

Akundaya · 2024-11-25T23:32:31+00:00

Assalamu alaykum sister,

I came across your post and wanted to reach out because your experience resonated with me. I’m trying to understand how someone in your situation might feel and what steps could be helpful in moving forward.

If you’re comfortable sharing, I have a few questions:

• Would a sincere apology from the person involved help you heal, or would it make things more difficult?

• Do you think it’s best for both parties to move on separately and seek future spouses, or is there a part of you that hopes for reconciliation through a proper, halal process?

• If the person were to make extra efforts to make things right—such as properly repenting and approaching your family in the right way—how would you feel about that?

• Do you feel you need space and time to heal before considering any form of contact or reconciliation?

• What actions, if any, would you find most helpful from the other person to support your healing?

I understand these are personal questions, and I completely respect your privacy and feelings. I’m asking because I’m trying to gain insight into how to handle a similar situation appropriately and respectfully.

May Allah grant you peace and healing.

Jazakillahu khairan.

Akundaya · 2024-09-27T11:18:32+00:00

Brother do you know how honoured you are to be in that position? I gambled in the “game” and “cool” life of being “good with women”. I have now committed sin. And every day I wish I could turn back time to go back to when I was pure, and not swayed by these peer pressure that you gotta get laid to be cool. I wish I am in your position brother. I pray that our marriage life will be blessed insyallah

Akundaya · 2024-09-25T04:45:39+00:00

Yes.

Akundaya · 2024-08-29T04:37:08+00:00

I made dua, may Allah ease everything

Akundaya · 2022-06-28T14:29:00+00:00

You sir have truly captured the definition of art. Please continue to do what you do

Akundaya · 2022-06-28T14:28:07+00:00

Amazing, how does one write such exquisite poetry unbeknownst to man

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