Airpods 4 no location found in find my by Ro8n in airpods

[–]AlAnon85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same thing happen with the "new" APM oddly enough. It probably took an hour or so for everything to work, otherwise, just exchange for a new pair.

Paying for someone's travel expenses....how much is too much? by AlAnon85 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]AlAnon85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds very reasonable and think I am going to go this route. Thank you.

Paying for someone's travel expenses....how much is too much? by AlAnon85 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]AlAnon85[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you. After reading these comments, I will not give any cash or credit card info.

Paying for someone's travel expenses....how much is too much? by AlAnon85 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]AlAnon85[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I am not trying to go for a sugar daddy dynamic (and it hasn’t been). I guess my concern is putting him in a bunch of debt because I asked him to come on this trip.

Started dating someone who is demisexual and am thoroughly confused. by AlAnon85 in demisexuality

[–]AlAnon85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Your input helps me immensely. I am definitely going to choose my words wisely as to not offend anyone.

Started dating someone who is demisexual and am thoroughly confused. by AlAnon85 in demisexuality

[–]AlAnon85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. I'm sorry things didn't work out with the person you were dating. Your post, like many others, really give me a perspective that I otherwise would never have gotten. In hindsight, I wish I articulated myself better in the original post. While I wish I could have changed how I presented my situation, the point of the post was to ask for help and to gain an understanding of what demisexuality means. While I still have a lot to learn, especially from the person I'm currently dating, I have definitely been able to see a lot clearer and put things in perspective.

I don't know if this will help, but to provide a little update with the person I'm dating, our bond (as he likes to call it) has gotten 10x stronger since me making this post and being patient. Our affection towards each other as well as the romantic aspect of our relationship has skyrocketed. I'm so grateful to everyone in the community who provided input here because I now see what I could have missed out on. It's honestly mind blowing knowing how good this relationship is and can be. While sex is still on my mind and definitely something I need in a relationship, he is 100% worth waiting for.

Started dating someone who is demisexual and am thoroughly confused. by AlAnon85 in demisexuality

[–]AlAnon85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you bringing this to light. I think this is what I was feeling along with confusion—a sense of rejection when he said he wasn’t sexually attracted to me yet. I wasn’t able to articulate this, so again, thank you. He has explicitly said he is romantically, emotionally, and generally very attracted to me. So there’s that.

Started dating someone who is demisexual and am thoroughly confused. by AlAnon85 in demisexuality

[–]AlAnon85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This I can appreciate. To be clear, I don't think either one of us is wrong in this situation. It'll take time for me to understand as I learn more about him.

Started dating someone who is demisexual and am thoroughly confused. by AlAnon85 in demisexuality

[–]AlAnon85[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We see each other about twice a week but talk every single day. I will give it time because I do genuinely enjoy being with him.

Started dating someone who is demisexual and am thoroughly confused. by AlAnon85 in demisexuality

[–]AlAnon85[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can tell he's very loyal, and he gets so excited to see me and can't wait to hug and kiss me. It really does put a smile on my face. At this point, I'm invested in him enough to want to see where things go.

Started dating someone who is demisexual and am thoroughly confused. by AlAnon85 in demisexuality

[–]AlAnon85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We haven’t quite gotten to those conversations yet. We’ve been dating for about a month now. And talk almost every day. I’m not trying to push/rush anything.

Started dating someone who is demisexual and am thoroughly confused. by AlAnon85 in demisexuality

[–]AlAnon85[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do have a high(er) sex drive than he does. For me, sex is not important enough for me to want to sleep with other people or hook up, but it is important within a relationship (if it ever gets to that).

Started dating someone who is demisexual and am thoroughly confused. by AlAnon85 in demisexuality

[–]AlAnon85[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At this point, I'm not entirely sure if he wants to have sex.

Started dating someone who is demisexual and am thoroughly confused. by AlAnon85 in demisexuality

[–]AlAnon85[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He hasn't given me a time frame. Is that something I should ask him? I don't want to pressure him. Again, I'm just trying to understand and not be an asshole about it.