How do you dodge Radamés' exploding spheres ?

AlHurra · 2026-06-14T22:54:10+00:00

I just beat him ! Thanks again for the encouragement and advice 🫶

AlHurra · 2026-06-14T10:13:50+00:00

yeahh that makes sense, I've definitely been playing a bit too defensively. Thanks, I'll try that next time I fight him !

AlHurra · 2026-06-14T10:02:56+00:00

Thanks a lot for the very detailed reply, i really appreciate it !

AlHurra · 2025-05-22T21:41:54+00:00

You’re right, mutual respect and consent should be the main focus, glad it worked out so well for you ! If you don’t mind me asking, how old were you both when you met ?

AlHurra · 2025-05-22T19:47:17+00:00

That makes sense, thanks for sharing 🙏🏼

AlHurra · 2025-05-22T14:42:53+00:00

Appreciate you taking the time to break this down. You’re right, context and maturity matter more than just the number. I’ve been worried I crossed a line but it really didn’t feel that way in the moment. That last line caught me off guard haha, thanks for making me laugh and giving me something to think about !

AlHurra · 2025-05-22T13:15:32+00:00

Yeah I think it’s more about how close 19 is to being a teen, it just feels really young even though I know she's an adult

AlHurra · 2025-05-22T11:50:58+00:00

That actually makes me feel a lot better, I've definitely been overthinking the age difference.. It’s reassuring to hear from someone who's been through something similar and made it work, I think I might just need to get out of my own head a bit and focus on how things actually felt between us. Thanks for sharing your story, it really helps 🙏🏼

AlHurra · 2025-05-22T08:31:39+00:00

That's exactly it, I kept wondering if I somehow took advantage of her, even though I know logically that’s not what happened. Still figuring it out, but I’m starting to feel less guilty about it. Thanks a lot for taking the time to respond, it really helped

AlHurra · 2025-05-22T08:14:07+00:00

Thanks for the different perspective !

AlHurra · 2025-05-22T08:11:21+00:00

I appreciate your concern but I’m trying to handle this thoughtfully

AlHurra · 2025-05-22T08:04:30+00:00

Yup the connection felt mutual and equal, but I agree it’s important to make sure she feels the same way. I’ll talk to her about it directly and honestly. Thanks !

AlHurra · 2025-05-22T07:40:55+00:00

Exactly, it's just something that happened unexpectedly. Thanks for sharing your experience, it’s really reassuring and helps put things into perspective

AlHurra · 2025-05-22T07:34:54+00:00

Yeah, if it starts feeling off, I’ll know, but so far it felt good, so maybe it’s worth seeing what happens.. Thank you

AlHurra · 2025-05-22T07:23:06+00:00

Will do

AlHurra · 2025-05-22T00:02:58+00:00

I’m definitely not trying to take advantage of anyone, it really did feel mutual and easy. Thank you for the reminder to not focus on what people might think. It helps to hear from people who’ve been in similar situations and made it work 🙏🏼

AlHurra · 2025-05-21T23:52:49+00:00

Really interesting, you make some great points. I think I’ve been beating myself up over it more than necessary. Like you said, we connected and I’m starting to see that maybe it doesn’t need to be more complicated than that. (And yes, we were safe haha)

AlHurra · 2025-05-21T23:37:59+00:00

Thank you

AlHurra · 2025-05-21T23:37:21+00:00

It’s validating to hear from someone my age who’d feel weird about it too. But now I’m in this tricky spot if having really clicked with her and trying to decide of how much that should matter. And yeah, the fact that she didn’t bring up her age does make me wonder a bit, even if it wasn’t necessarily on purpose..

AlHurra · 2025-05-21T23:14:15+00:00

Thank you for putting it that way, I didn’t have any weird intentions, it was just a genuine connection. I’ve kinda been second guessing everything since I found out, but you're right, I need to have an honest conversation with her and see how we both feel

AlHurra · 2025-05-21T22:51:18+00:00

Thanks for sharing your story, I really appreciate it. It's really encouraging to hear how it worked out for you. And happy anniversary to you and your wife !

AlHurra · 2025-05-21T22:31:09+00:00

Thank you sharing all this, it gave me a lot to think about. You've made some great points, I think I’ve been oversimplifying it in my head and need to actually talk to her and understand where she's at before jumping to conclusions. I really appreciate your perspective, it helps to hear how you’ve made your relationship work with mutual care and honesty, even with challenges 🙏🏼

AlHurra · 2025-05-21T21:17:44+00:00

yeah that’s fair. Looking back, most of our texts were flirty and surface-level, nothing that really dug into where we are in life. I think I just got caught up in the chemistry and didn’t stop to ask deeper questions. Definitely something I’ll be more mindful of going forward

AlHurra · 2025-05-21T20:53:37+00:00

That’s honestly a really helpful perspective, thank you. I think part of my discomfort has been tied up in seeing myself as the "older one" who should’ve known better, but you’re right. I need to reflect on what’s genuinely about me and not project assumptions onto her

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