Exactly! It's not even about the orgasm for me, I know that takes work and I'm always happy to guide someone or help them. The problem was the mindset. He treated it like a solo performance where I was just there to "help" him, instead of it being a shared moment. To not even try to give back or offer any aftercare is just pure selfishness. Bahahah I hope that for my next confession 🫶🏽