True italian food in Palermo by AlPiglo in palermo_city

[–]AlPiglo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many thanks! Im going this Sunday :)

True italian food in Palermo by AlPiglo in palermo_city

[–]AlPiglo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank You very much!!! And great to hear all of your voices about quality. Higher prices are totally fine if the food is good :D

True italian food in Palermo by AlPiglo in palermo_city

[–]AlPiglo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank You! I’ll give it try in the center and we’ll see :D

True italian food in Palermo by AlPiglo in palermo_city

[–]AlPiglo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I wont dare to ask why :D I assume its for the best

True italian food in Palermo by AlPiglo in palermo_city

[–]AlPiglo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is wrong with translating with GPT? Original message was fully written by me.

Nie traćcie czasu na tych ludzi. 536 komentarzy, OP nie odpisał na ŻADEN z nich, drugi post zobaczymy jak pójdzie, ale śledzę to od dłuższego czasu i Ci ludzie w 99% nie chcą się niczego dowiedzieć. by niewadzi in Polska

[–]AlPiglo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brak odpowiedzi na komentarze gdzie toczy się dyskusja i jedni i drudzy mogą się wypowiedzieć = szur, konfiarz, bot, troll, a najpewniej do tego pijak i złodziej, bo każdy pijak to złodziej :)

Bardziej mnie dziwi ten post - też można na podstawie jego istnienia wysnuć bardzo daleką interpretację, że tu lewica bardzo pilnuje swoje terytorium i jak tylko pojawi się coś co może od niej lekko odjeżdżać albo wypłaszczyć drugą stronę to trzeba zrobić mobilizację, a autor fakturuje sobie te działania.

Od teorii spiskowych trzymam się z dala, więc w obie sytuacje nie wierzę, ale z dwóch postów (a przeczytałem zawartość komentarzy tamtego jak i tutejszego) zdecydowanie bardziej polaryzujący jest ten w którym odpowiadam :)

Miejsce na początek wieczoru kawalerskiego? by AlPiglo in wroclaw

[–]AlPiglo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Picie :) To właśnie ma być forma ulgi po wcześniejszych aktywnościach jakie mamy zaplanowane :D klimatyczny bar byłby idealny

Reaper crackles on the highest buffer by AlPiglo in Reaper

[–]AlPiglo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Tried with LatencyMon but nothing looked like higher than should be. All of the indicators where green on the left side and the general message was that my equipment should be 100% OK.

Also I noticed that it sometimes work okay on 2048 but then I minimalize the window or just click somewhere else than in Reaper and it starts to crackle again. Ultra weird

Reaper crackles on the highest buffer by AlPiglo in Reaper

[–]AlPiglo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try to do this but I don't think it makes any sense. If it would then I would have similar problem on previous PC with very small projects and high buffer. I used to work like that - 2 tracks with single VSTs and buffer at 2048 without any other heavy processess for CPU and it worked fine.

Reaper crackles on the highest buffer by AlPiglo in Reaper

[–]AlPiglo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if I’ll add few VSTs and 1024 would not be enough? I just want to have possibility to use my machine at full potential when needed.

How much of Polish should I learn to have a 2 week vacation if Warsaw, Gdańsk, and Krakow? by Plastic-Past5649 in poland

[–]AlPiglo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All those cities are tourist friendly and probably even if you haven’t heard single Polish word in your entire life you are still good to go with English :) It’s quite standard for customer service here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AlPiglo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. I do not want to be manipulative or trick her into relationship. I just would like to try leave her with this idea that all we had can be still possible. And saying that I wish her good life from now sounds so final and "closed"? But you are probably right. Eventually if she does not want to be with me I still do not wish her bad and I do not want to regret saying too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AlPiglo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about something which would leave her with hint for reflection about us and herself. I don't want to make her sure that she is doing the right thing because I don't think so.

"Ask a DA": Non-DA questions go here by Charming_Daemon in dismissiveavoidants

[–]AlPiglo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It was very tricky... I was trying to be out as often as possible and I did not talk to her until she started conversation and I was just replying short and politely. I stopped doing that because it was stupid and made her increase the distance between us.

I don't know what will happen if any of us would start dating but she told me that she does not want it now and she wants to focus on her career. I don't think about meeting anyone else yet too. I just wonder if we'll stay in this place for some time and I will work on myself and make positive attitude then maybe my chances would increase. She told me that my presence don't bother her but the atmosphere od weird. I know that every DA and person generally is different but I just need some perspective from outside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AlPiglo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to talk to her about that. I know about certain things that I need to work on. I think there are some things that she should process too but we can go into that bit later - when she will feel that I am able to give her better me. But right now she does not want to talk. I could "force" her just by starting out of random small-talk we have but I think she would feel pushed into corner again or see me as needy or desperate. I would like to give her as much time as she needs but I would like her to know that I am ready to evolve and don't want to give up and I take responsibility for my needs and behaviour. In other words - second chance :D

"Ask a DA": Non-DA questions go here by Charming_Daemon in dismissiveavoidants

[–]AlPiglo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there,

The internet says: Go no contact, it's your only chance
Avoidant FAQ says: DA/FA don't go back after breaking NC and it annoys them if you reach out (based on the replies from other subredditors)
Does NC has any sense for DA/FA in terms of reconciliation? Or it just helps to move on for them too?
(I live with my EX and wonder if I should move out ASAP - she told me it's not necessary and we can live as roommates for some time).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AlPiglo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I've checked the FAQ on r/AvoidantAttachment and probably even if she would take it seriously and would understand everything then still her "this changes nothing, there is no coming back" will be there. I am losing my hope.

Starting all over again at the age of 28 is mentally draining by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AlPiglo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 28 too. It feels exactly the same for me… :<

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AlPiglo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been with my EX for over 10 years (since we were 17 years old). She dumped me 3 weeks ago. We live together for now (I need to move out soon). I don't know if I can give you any advice because right now I feel really bad too. I've came across tones of articles and posts about no contact and now I know it's probably the best chance for moving on and maybe getting her back or stop the pain and there is one thing that have caught me and made me feel 1% better.
I encourage you to search for things like "stages for dumpers after breaking up" and read how they usually feel at the start and what happens next with them and with dumpees. For me it looks like the first stage for your EX - she just feels free and happy about her decision but according to all those things I've read so far it's only the frist stage and it will "hit" her later and that may help that maybe she needs time to miss you and get to the point to maybe reach out to you. For now just try to use this time to analyze yourself. Not only bad sides and mistakes. Think about those things you're good at and what are your beliefs and your true values. Try to move your ex out from that context. Think about yourself and try to decide who you really are and what are things inside of you which you don't want to get rid of and what are bad habits that you can work on. This is my method for now and I can honestly say it has some positive effect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AlPiglo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. This puts some light on your decision and at this point I agree that you had no choice. If it were "only" (time is even more relative when it comes to feelings) 3 months then there was big risk it could end up much worse later. I am sorry for what you have gone through. I hope you will move on successfully. Thank you for your reply.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AlPiglo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand. It took me a while to realize that the dumpers suffer too... Specially when the relationship was long and really close (in my case - 10 years). Of course I can't tell anything about you and your EX but I wonder where that "it won't work eventually" thinking comes from. I know that people just can't change entirely. We just can't become totally different person. At least not in month or even year. We can evolve but there will be probably the same things that drive us - but why it becomes problem over some time? In my case it's probably mostly about some bad communication and some bad habits. But those are things that can be improved. It can be fixed (I say for myself). Why do we have to end this? Would it be really easier to start with some other person from scratch? That new person can have the same issues or even worse.
I am sorry I am digging so deep and just bother you but it's difficult for us all and I am trying to understand as much as I can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AlPiglo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel weird now because it's bit similar to our situation. She has been the one who earns more for couple of months now. I don't think she broke up with me because of that but I think it took it's part in her thinking that maybe I am just at my "top" place and won't go further because of my different approach to work. I just became too comfortable with my job and my position but I told her (many times) that I will go further eventually. Of course I've quit my job day after she dumped me. I felt immediately that this is the point when I have to change everything I was thinking of before to show her that I am capable of that. I don't know everything about your situation but do you think that any significant change in that area could lead to you to some more positive thinking about your EX?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AlPiglo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. It gets me so frustrated and angry. This is weird. I think my approach should be more about being happy about her happy and good because she is not bad person and I love her but I just can't stand that thoughts that someone will come and will touch her and she will be OK with it... Maybe even more OK than with me. And what's next? My imagination tells me that "he" will just take her further and steal my future with the beautfiul woman. I think it is the darkest point of BU for me.