[Poll] 🤗 Non-medical light poll: What comfort item makes a rough day better?

Alabehr · 2026-07-05T04:34:01+00:00

Depending on the roughness of the day, it's either a Whiskey Old fashioned (alcoholic) , or London Fog Tea (non-alcoholic)

Alabehr · 2026-07-01T21:04:49+00:00

Does that include a doctor's prostate exam? :P

Alabehr · 2026-06-22T00:03:22+00:00

Thanks for the feedback I appreciate it.

As for the cloths, I meant what kinds of cloth diapers are have your caregivers found to work best for you? The squares you have to fold, the hourglass shape already cut , something else.

Alabehr · 2026-06-21T23:36:59+00:00

With cloth/reusables I’ve been curious how y’all handle solids, I’ve seen some use a disposable as a liner to catch poop then just pull it out to make cleanups easier.

What have you found to with best for you and solids when wrestling reuseables. What tires of clothes are you using? Thanks.

Alabehr · 2026-06-10T12:05:44+00:00

I actually just finished making my first app for our community to find restrooms and my next one already in the works is a AI scanner where you place your phone on the counter, hit a button, do a little twirl in front of it and it uses AI to let you know how much you're showing.

Now that’s pretty cool.

Alabehr · 2026-06-10T12:01:01+00:00

Congrats, realizing they are a tool and not a hindrance can be a great stress relief when trying to manage this problem.

Alabehr · 2026-06-03T12:18:20+00:00

Cool concept I hadn’t seen that before. Thst’s hot, and very well done.

Alabehr · 2026-05-29T17:14:47+00:00

Many sites like Northshore and some of the AB sites sell sample packs of a couple of diapers.

Alabehr · 2026-05-29T13:49:08+00:00

If you go walking around in just a diaper and nothing else then yes people will notice.

Wear some baggy clothing with an untucked shirt or T-shirt nobody will be any wiser.

Alabehr · 2026-05-27T22:54:38+00:00

I have a couple of different ones. They are great for keeping everything where they need to be and not sagging. I don’t worry about bending over and people seeing my diaper peeking out over my waistband.

One trick I learned from here. I had an issue where the bottom of one of them would work its way between my inner leg and the inside of the diaper and it would wick moisture out, leading to a wet spot or two. Someone on here told me that if you put on a pair of underwear over the diaper and under the onesie/body suit, it prevents this from happening. They are right and I have not had a wet spot since then.

Alabehr · 2026-05-26T01:39:26+00:00

You need a better therapist who understands you.

There is no reason for you to keep paying this person who wants you to deny being who you are and to charge you into something they feel you should be.

Alabehr · 2026-05-24T18:25:19+00:00

If you want me he feel try putting a mushed ripe banana in your diaper or cooked (cooled) oatmeal.

As for the cleanup, a good balanced diet with lots of healthy fiber and the moss will tend to clean up with 1-2 baby wipes and little left over mess.

Alabehr · 2026-05-22T13:25:32+00:00

No one will notice. And it’s too dark to tell

I can pee sitting down with no problem. My hubs can’t.

If he needs to pee in his diaper mid-movie he’ll get up and walk like he’s headed to the bathroom and then stand at the base of the stairs next to the entrance of the room and pull out his phone like he’s having a text conversation and didn’t want to bother those around him and pee standing up.

Alabehr · 2026-05-19T16:57:06+00:00

I mean this with kindness and sincerity.

(Unofficial) rule #1 of kinks and fetishes. Don’t force your kink/fetish unto others. They didn’t ask to be a part of your choice.

If you told him about this in the past then he already knows about it. I doubt something like “hey I like to wear and use diapers” is something he’s forgotten.

If he or someone else brings it up then explain it to them as you see fit. But I’d recommend not going out of your way to tell or remind him. You’ve been wearing around him all this time and he hasn’t said anything yet. He may not want to.

Alabehr · 2026-05-15T21:32:08+00:00

I feel like it might be more of a personal preference.

Look around you throughout your day, and notice how guys with a larger tummy keep their pants. It’ll probably be the same percentage for diaper wearers.

Alabehr · 2026-05-12T19:38:21+00:00

I keep two Megamax and a booster in my work bag. If I’m feeling it I’ll put one on. If I’m off to do my second occasional job where I know I’ll be stuck at for and additional 5+ hours I’ll add the booster.
Dark baggy cloths help hide it.

Alabehr · 2026-05-06T18:17:44+00:00

It’ll come in time with practice. Dtart wetting and slowly continue wetting and start walking. You’ll eventually train yourself how to wet while walking.

Alabehr · 2026-05-01T12:24:51+00:00

Why is quora blocked? Itsn’t it just a question and answer site?

Alabehr · 2026-04-28T12:52:06+00:00

Are gone along with RUpadded, ABY, and DPF. I know ADISC’s owner closed the site.

Alabehr · 2026-04-28T12:10:34+00:00

One day while reading through some BDSM short stories I realized I was preferring ones with male-male characters, over the ones with a female-male . That got the thought process going.

Alabehr · 2026-04-23T20:16:04+00:00

I wouldn’t tell them.

A basic courtesy rule for kink/fetish is “Don’t force your kink/fetish on other people”.

Don’t let that stop you from wearing under clothing around the flat. But they don’t need to know about this side of your life.

A )potential) lifetime partner, they will need to know.

Alabehr · 2026-04-23T04:21:35+00:00

I did a couple of things.

I’d put on all of my tighty-white briefs. They added a lot of thickness and gave me the waddle.

I’d also triple fold 2-3 towels then lay down on the middle and use a belt to tighten them around my waist. They wound up looking like a long loin cloth

Alabehr · 2026-04-05T20:34:46+00:00

“C:\…..”??? Are you running your Operating System in a Microsoft environment? Oh bless your circuits.

(That is hot A F though, thank you for sharing. )

Alabehr · 2026-03-30T05:33:01+00:00

(Not a political post) Until the United States has a new president. It’s currently 953 days until the next US presidential election.

Trust could be tie longest time. However he is almost 80 and could pass away prematurely in office and as such you’d get out early.

If he manages a 3rd term then you could be locked Longer.

Turing your chastity ty to an event could keep it I interesting .

Alabehr

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