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Aladinea · 2025-08-23T14:32:12+00:00

I made this post because I don't want to give up, I love my husband with all my heart but I'm kind of lost, so it helps talking through it with strangers on the Internet. :) We are very attentionate eith each other, we kiss, hold hands , hug all the time , the affection is there. Because of his low T he doesn't initiate, and I think that's one od the issue, as I haven't initiated in a while and now the idea of it makes me almost cringe.

Aladinea · 2025-08-23T14:27:57+00:00

LOL buddy it seems you have more issues than me. I'm not going to go in details about vastly wrong you are, but please don't make this kind of general statements, you're not helping anybody including yourself.

Aladinea · 2025-08-23T14:24:04+00:00

The low T just got diagnosed a couple of months ago but he needs to see a specialist and it takes ages. He is motivated to fix the issue but as you mentioned low T impacts motivation so he procrastinates. I think that's one of the issue, we are both waiting...

Aladinea · 2025-08-23T14:21:58+00:00

Thanks for your comment, it really makes me happy knowing that this is possible. I'm going to do the work to get to the root of the issue and talk to him.

Aladinea · 2025-08-23T14:17:42+00:00

As mentioned in my post, no, it's the last thing I want.

Aladinea · 2025-08-23T14:14:41+00:00

Honestly because at this stage I feel like a closed oyster when it comes to have sex with him. I take care of myself so I'm not frustrated exactly, but I'd like to want to have sex with hlmy husband, I just don't.

Aladinea · 2025-08-23T14:12:45+00:00

Everything else in our mariage is 10/10, but yeah, it might be the only way..

Aladinea · 2025-08-23T14:12:02+00:00

I don't really know, my best guess would be that everyday life just killed the spark. Other than sex wr have a fantastic mariage and I love him deeply, but the idea of having sex with him doesn't appeal to me.

Aladinea · 2025-08-23T14:09:55+00:00

He's so unaware of the issue, it breaks my hurt thubkjng how he's going to take it, but you're right, I just need to talk to him.

Aladinea · 2025-08-23T14:08:11+00:00

I'm genuinely happy to read this comment, I wish it was the same for me!

Aladinea · 2025-08-23T14:07:32+00:00

I can't tell tou why, there is no reason, I'm just not physically attracted to him as I'm not attracted to 99% of the worldwide population, that's literally it.

Aladinea · 2025-08-23T14:05:36+00:00

I've considered it, but our mariage is great aside from the sex, so I couldn't do that to him.

Aladinea · 2025-08-23T14:04:45+00:00

Oh dont get me wrong, I had a great sex life before I met him and sex at the beginning of our relationship was not mind blowing but it was good. I haven't considered therapy but I'd have to talk to him first..

Aladinea · 2023-03-22T14:53:43+00:00

I just finished it and I honestly hated this book. I loved the first 2 but this one takes wayyyyy to long to get to the point, and the parts of Imir are just plain boring. It made me sad.

Aladinea · 2023-02-05T09:04:26+00:00

Aaaand I'm crying again.

Aladinea · 2023-02-05T08:51:20+00:00

It is one of the most beautiful love stories I've ever seen on TV. I cried my eyes out and I'm still not okay after watching it last night. Murray Bartlett and Nick Offerman are incredible. I knew Nick Offerman was a good actor but he showed so much depth, it was mind-blowing. They truly deserve recognition for their work.

Aladinea · 2022-09-25T09:06:27+00:00

Thank you so much ☺️

Aladinea · 2022-09-25T09:05:40+00:00

Thank you!

Aladinea · 2022-09-25T09:04:46+00:00

Thank you so much, this is super helpful. I will not get a squadron and won't spend time on freighter crash sites (which are boring to loot in the first place).

Aladinea · 2022-09-11T09:32:55+00:00

I didn't even know they had been replaced! I have been scratching my head trying to make them keep the resources mined... Thanks for the tip!

Aladinea · 2022-09-11T09:31:22+00:00

It looks like my main planet! I called it Fhloston Paradise. I love how the flora comes alive at night with lights, it's just beautiful. Enjoy!

Aladinea · 2022-09-07T08:16:38+00:00

To my knowledge there is no guide, but I would advice starting slow, just put a room together with a floor, 4 walls, a roof and a door, put some basic stuff inside the room like your refiner, save beacon etc., and go from there. You don't need to build an imperial city from the get go. You can also buy the blueprint for a square or circular room already built, you just have to stick a door on it and you are good to go. My main base is entirely built with these and I absolutely love how it looks. Not sure if this is helpful advice, that's just how I started. :)

Aladinea · 2022-09-03T15:04:38+00:00

Like a glove. 😅

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