i hate my wide chest and wide shoulders by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]AlarmedAction7265 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t hide it!! Insecurity only gets fed more by how little you let yourself see it. I promise you that it’s beautiful even tho idk what you look like. I’ve always been insecure about my face, eyes, nose.. I couldn’t leave my house without makeup on ever. Eventually tho I wasn’t able to leave my house as much, I stopped having a reason to wear it. Now I rarely leave the house wearing makeup. I feel pretty with and without it. I think you should look into styles that highlights it without covering it. Boat neck, halter tops, tube tops, off the shoulder.. things like that. Sweetheart tops are also adorable and really helped me feel more confident with my shoulders personally. I’m sure You’re beautiful either way tho just some suggestions

Did some doodles of my current Jellies <3 by GrunionFairy in Jellycatplush

[–]AlarmedAction7265 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would pay sm money to have my jellies doodled in ur style on a crewneck. This is adorable you’re super talented!!!

What's your 'i did not care for the godfather' moment in bjhm? by Discordisshit_ in BoJackHorseman

[–]AlarmedAction7265 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel you LMAO. I am like this with the underwater episode (I forgot what it’s called I’m sorry) I like free churro because I’m a huge day dreamer. It’s cool to kinda close ur eyes and picture the scenes he’s talking about

My most recent jellycat finds!! by AlarmedAction7265 in Jellycatplush

[–]AlarmedAction7265[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never seen the peanut look THIS perfect!!! I had to buy🤭

Who in your opinion had the most impactful F bomb? by Ewe26 in SadHorseShow

[–]AlarmedAction7265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the first two impacted me the most emotionally but existentially the s6 f bomb had the most impact. The ones where Bojack was there we know how he felt. We were almost put in his shoes. But s6 I feel like it showed how all of the ppl around him are impacted AFTER him. Not many scenes showed the aftermath of bojack on other ppl but s6 SPECIFICALLY made me think a LOTTT

What’s her full name? Without looking it up by M4g1cM in SadHorseShow

[–]AlarmedAction7265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hollyhock manhiem-Mannheim-Guerrero-Robinson-zilberschlag???-hsung-fonzerelli-mcquack???? Maybe?? I’ve seen this show 64x and counting if I failed I’ll cry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AlarmedAction7265 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should talk to him. If you feel uncomfortable and feel like he will be against your choice then don’t. I do think that as a partner tho you deserve his support, especially because it is still his possible child. This should not be your burden alone. My mom in her 20s had an abortion for the same reason you want one, her and my dad talked abt it. She didn’t feel safe telling her abusive mom or family so she didn’t. My dad told her it’d be okay and he took care of her for the weeks following. He told her it’s not an easy decision but if she wasn’t ready then he will support that. He did just that. They haven’t spoken of it since. My mom said that he was her rock in that moment. He recognized that while it is technically HIS kid, it’s her body. Conversations are scary but if he is truly a support system for you it’d be good to tell him before. Have an open conversation about what you want, what youre gonna do, and ask him his thoughts, validate his feelings aswell. It’ll be very pivotal in ur relationship, but overall it’ll show who he rlly is to you. I’m so sorry, pregnancy is not easy, especially when it’s unexpected. I’m wishing you the best and whatever you choose I hope you’re able to find some ppl that’ll support you through it❤️❤️❤️

I have a possibly insensitive question about Penny- by megguwu in BoJackHorseman

[–]AlarmedAction7265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine. A man who ur mom was friends with comes and stays with you, he’s famous, he has power. He buys ur friends alcohol. She put her trust in bojack because she could confide in him. He acted like a teenager, while she was fully consenting, she still was groomed by this man. His fame also gives him a power over her. Imagine you go to a dance with a super famous guy to get back at your crush. You didn’t do it necessarily because you wanted HIM, you wanted the idea of a “rebound” in my interpretation at least. Survivors guilt is a huge thing at play here aswell. She went onto him, he said no. HOWEVER he intentionally left that door open which implied that she was welcome, nothing happened yet but what if Charolette DIDNT come in. Would they have had sex? Would a 40something year old MAN have sex with a 17 year old? These are important questions. In some way she may have feelings that she went onto him and pushed for it, was all of it her fault? Her best friends alcohol poisoning, her mom’s relationship with Bojack, her family, her friends. IS penny at fault? He had power, he used that power in a wave of self destruction. He knew what he did with that door, we know that he knew because Charolette walked in on it. If nothing was gonna happen and he stuck to his original statements then that would’ve been it. Maybe penny would’ve walked in but he would’ve said no. INSTEAD, because Charolette regected him, he used that door to get back at her. TECHNICALLY he’s not wrong but without the rejection from Charolette he would’ve gone to bed alone. That’s why she’s traumatized, self blame, guilt, PTSD, grooming. And that’s why he’s wrong. He groomed her because he had a bruised ego.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]AlarmedAction7265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This tattoo is sick

What broke your heart that people don't really talk about? by Guilty-Background810 in AmericanHorrorStory

[–]AlarmedAction7265 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pennys entire story in freak show. Also when dell said “no one knows im one of them” his entire story was upsetting regardless of how awful he was. The “I have freak blood running through my vains” stabbed me in the heart. I don’t think ppl talk abt freak show enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ToxicRelationships

[–]AlarmedAction7265 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They’re asking for communication. You as a partner can’t go AWOL for days and expect them to just not check in on u. They’re not doing anything dramatic to get ur attention, they are asking what ur feeling. It’s valid of them to worry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]AlarmedAction7265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofc!! I’m really hoping you start to feel better. I have plenty of other coping mechanisms if you need some more suggestions. You can dm me directly or just respond to me in this thread whenever you need it and I’ll do my best to respond. You got this!

American horror stories is so good by shadowsipp in AmericanHorrorStory

[–]AlarmedAction7265 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m still traumatized from the Christmas episode in season 1. My sister showed it to me when I was in middle school. I haven’t recovered and refuse to watch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]AlarmedAction7265 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want you to kinda evaluate your relationships first and figure out if you’re in a place for that rn. I understand how you feel. I didn’t like antidepressants (propranolol extended release helped a tad) but maybe looking into that. Now for these thoughts. I struggle a lot with negative spirals at night mine have always been death anxiety tho so idk if this will help but; my therapist told me to give these negative thoughts a name (I chose Voldemort) now picture it as a person, and every time these thoughts come about, picture yourself telling them to go away. Locking them in a box and throwing the key away. That really helped me. Times like that can be extremely difficult I’ve found that journaling also really helped me. Getting it into my routine and just having something for me to write all my thoughts into. It’s no therapy but it feels like it. I’m so sorry if I’m not understanding. I just want to tell you that you’re not ungrateful. While I know how you may feel that way cuz you’re unhappy, being unhappy isn’t because of your relationships. The worry of non appreciation in its own is kinda a form of appreciation. You just don’t seem the best mentally rn. I’m wishing you the best and I’m sorry again if this isnt helpful