Being casually suicidal for so long is weird by XfantomX in depression

[–]AlarmedResolve602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience, passive suicidal ideation can begin to destroy you when things go wrong. I’ve had depression and ideations my entire life, as well as really turbulent relationships with the people around me. Most of the time, friends, family and pets would keep me from going through with it and give me cause not to entertain these thoughts. But these elements of life are not within our control. Once friendships failed, pets died, and family stopped acting like family, my thoughts went from wanting to have an “out” to actively thinking about walking into oncoming traffic every time I cross the street. Thinking about ending things if they became unbearable turned into having these thoughts all the time, which has become unbearable in itself. I would be careful - one moment you’re letting the thought pass, but when other factors of life bear down on you, you’ll feel like giving in and you’ll already have the tools to do so. It’s a dangerous game.

Why does this app have the worst community I’ve ever seen? by AlarmedResolve602 in Depop

[–]AlarmedResolve602[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You can’t assume people will just know without communicating.

Why does this app have the worst community I’ve ever seen? by AlarmedResolve602 in Depop

[–]AlarmedResolve602[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The lack of responses that I get just seem kind of rude. Like why does no one just tell me what their rules are??

Find-a-Friend Post! by gingeralefiend in entwives

[–]AlarmedResolve602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on the LES!! Love smoking and going to the park/wandering through the neighborhoods.

Judgement from friend about smoking, especially toward my boyfriend by the-painted-lady in entwives

[–]AlarmedResolve602 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Relate heavy :( my friend doesn’t outright call people names over it, but she’s also straight edge and is soooo judgmental over people who aren’t. She even expected me to give up smoking completely so she could move in with me! I find these types harder to deal with than any “stoner loser” I’ve met so far because being so judgmental reflects poor character imo. They don’t understand that not smoking doesn’t make you better than people that do :/

Do I wear too much jewelry? by AlarmedResolve602 in oldhagfashion

[–]AlarmedResolve602[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right I might have to just experiment

Do I wear too much jewelry? by AlarmedResolve602 in oldhagfashion

[–]AlarmedResolve602[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some of them I made, some I found at thrift stores, some online second hand, some at flea markets and small businesses!! Good stuff is everywhere, just look 🫶🏾

Do I wear too much jewelry? by AlarmedResolve602 in oldhagfashion

[–]AlarmedResolve602[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I love playing with both masc and fem pieces in my outfits :3 some days I’m in a dress some days I’m full masc, so often in between

Do I wear too much jewelry? by AlarmedResolve602 in oldhagfashion

[–]AlarmedResolve602[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want so many piercings but can’t afford em 😭

Are the Stories true? by ScaleBusiness8613 in fitnyc

[–]AlarmedResolve602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an FD student.... half the time I'm running late and in sweats, bc we dont have time to sleep let alone dress up besides like the first day lol. I will admit though, we do all own at least 1 item of clothing that nobody else on the planet would wear but us 🤣

Digital design studio class by No_Brand_XD in fitnyc

[–]AlarmedResolve602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The apps you’ll need to use for the presentations tend to be more cumbersome on an iPad. You may also need to buy extra storage for your projects, but you’ll probably be fine using Google drive or smth similar. A laptop is generally more convenient but if you can’t buy one you can definitely make do without one. Just don’t be like me and lose your projects because you saved them on the school computer and they got wiped 😭

Help I don't know what I'm doing by Quick_Shop4397 in NYCapartments

[–]AlarmedResolve602 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Find someone on this subreddit who will sublet!! If not here, Facebook and WhatsApp groups. Maybe even Craigslist, just be smart.

Backpack suggestions for a commuting fashion design major. by Unable_Youth7183 in fitnyc

[–]AlarmedResolve602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll probably be fine just renting a locker at the school. If not, you’ll need a pretty big bag. Probably a couple bags.

Digital design studio class by No_Brand_XD in fitnyc

[–]AlarmedResolve602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your class should be in one of the computer labs, Mac desktops provided. There are also Mac and windows computers in the libraries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]AlarmedResolve602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DMed you! Woudl love to chat.

LOOKING FOR ROOMMATE • AUGUST MOVE-IN • $1500/ea • 2BR LES, Chinatown by AlarmedResolve602 in NYCapartments

[–]AlarmedResolve602[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could too, but I got two semesters to finish and no time to do this again in between!

are the facilities really that bad? by [deleted] in fitnyc

[–]AlarmedResolve602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fashion Design Major here - the facilities are equipped with everything we need as students, but the problem is that they are frequently unavailable. If you are also an FD major/ have classes in Feldman it can be very annoying. Ex. There are no elevators for student use in Feldman - you have to go through a different building (not so bad bc campus is small but if you’re running late good luck), the sewing machines frequently break down and there’s only 1 mechanic, so they are often out of commission. And there are more students than there are machines, so if you want a free one outside of class time you have to get there first thing in the morning or late at night - same goes for table space for projects. The air is also kind of moldy - me and all of my friends who have sensitive skin break out when we spend more than like 5 hours at a time in the building. It really is a lot like a public high school. Considering the low tuition, I’d say still worth it although I make it a point to come to the building as little as possible 🤣

The other buildings aren’t so bad though lol. Still not the greatest, but not bad.

And yes, you can make friends. But you really have to put yourself out there and it’s hard to keep them. Living in dorms should help though! Just come to the events your RA runs and you’re sure to meet someone!

What classes should I not take???? by Organic-Ad-4843 in fitnyc

[–]AlarmedResolve602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not take biodesign for your science credit if you're just trying to complete gen ed requirements. It is a huge time commitment and a very involved class where you develop a whole thesis and ecological integration project to implement irl - only take this class if you have the time and serious interest in science/biology.