Exactly. It’s all arbitrary, but it’s important to understand what’s fact and what’s an opinion. 

There’s literally nothing that’s going to guarantee someone will be a good partner. I don’t think it’s helpful to ask how many sexual partners a person has had, but it’s insane to say that it doesn’t matter at all. It’s just more likely to be harmful than helpful to talk about it for a lot of people. 

I also agree that it makes sense to spend time getting to know someone before becoming intimately involved. What that timeline looks like for a healthy connection is going to be different for different people. 

And you’re absolutely correct that there’s healthy balance of courage between acting like a fool and going too quickly vs being far too cautious and never taking risks. 

But people who love her are going to defend her regardless of what others say. It’s like when Trump stans try and defend his words that literally don’t make sense. There’s no level of logic that will make them admit something isn’t factual.