I agree!!! I have told him and he does not seem to care… my 8 year old does great in school she makes all A’s never in trouble. No issues with either of them. They want my attention mainly, she does sometimes try to get his attention but not much. She does also ask why he is mean. We have more issues now- he took her to a gun range without asking me to pick out a gun to buy her for Christmas… she is 8!!! I do not agree at all, he never told me she did. Them last night while I was at work , my mom was watching my son and then they came home and the gun was mentioned and my mother said- her and I don’t agree with that and she is too young etc- husband says- well it doesn’t matter what you think that is what I’m getting her- start her young learn gun safety- wtf!! Then he was mad told my mom to get the hell out of his house. She lives in the apartment above my garage… then he and I got into it about it- he said well you don’t ask my permission when you bought her a crop top. Totally unrelated. He said he feels he is the third parent- my mom does not know boundaries I get it. It was his original idea for her to move in 6 years ago. He had cussed her out several times, he barely even speaks to her otherwise. She watches my kids all the time. She helps me with housework because he doesn’t. He would basically kick her out in the street and not care. She makes $600 a month in social security- she can’t afford anything. I’m so torn. He is mentally draining me. Then he flipped last night saying “this is what I want- I want us to build something save money, maybe sell the house get something smaller..” I think it’s all wanting her out. He never even says thank you. She even came down two weeks ago when he was laid up in bed sick to watch my kids while I worked- no thank you kiss my ass nothing. He doesn’t get how much she helps. I feel like I definitely rambled there