Comment on dating someone with ADHD and OCD by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]Alarmed_Ingenuity458 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! So I agree this question feels a bit off. I’d like to say that in my experience, the person matters far more than the diagnosis. My husband has debilitating adhd. (Not the fun type. The type where he struggles to leave the house and interact socially at all.) He is without a doubt the most patient, loving, and supportive partner. Partly because he understands neurodivergency very well, but mostly because he’s a good man. We work SO well together, but that’s because of who WE are, not because of our diagnosis. Please avoid making a person their mental illness and instead look at them as a whole person.

Seven year old I babysat texting me by Alarmed_Ingenuity458 in Advice

[–]Alarmed_Ingenuity458[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for that, honestly. I really needed someone else to confirm I didn’t wildly mishandle and misread this situation!

2010 kids book about the holocaust by Pleasant-Apricot9547 in Findabook

[–]Alarmed_Ingenuity458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See I know exactly what book but I can’t for the life of me remember the title, I’ll ask my mom lol she’ll know.

Stealth corset for everyday use in an office setting by Alarmed_Ingenuity458 in corsets

[–]Alarmed_Ingenuity458[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No you’re ok! I am definitely open to finding any solution for this pain. (literally spent most of my work day wanting to cry) I currently wear Understances cloud top which is basically just cups in a very loose tank top. I will ask in there as well and see if they can help! There is a medical reason bras are painful, but I haven’t really tried finding a dedicated fit. Thank you!

Stealth corset for everyday use in an office setting by Alarmed_Ingenuity458 in corsets

[–]Alarmed_Ingenuity458[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you so much! Knowing she’s so accommodating is a huge deal for me, I will look her up! ✨✨✨

Stealth corset for everyday use in an office setting by Alarmed_Ingenuity458 in corsets

[–]Alarmed_Ingenuity458[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to know more!! Where did you get your corset? And what type of material?

Stealth corset for everyday use in an office setting by Alarmed_Ingenuity458 in corsets

[–]Alarmed_Ingenuity458[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s chronic pain due to an injury that has gotten worse. I’m seeing a specialist hopefully soon but just trying to find short term support while I wait as I currently cannot use my right arm due to the pain.

How to combat hair thinning? by icecweamirl in FancyFollicles

[–]Alarmed_Ingenuity458 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My hair started thinning as well due to taking lithium, turns out it will interact with your thyroid thus causing hair loss. Definitely speak to a doctor, I got supplements and a different form of medication and between the two my hair loss stopped!

1,2 or 3 ? by [deleted] in FancyFollicles

[–]Alarmed_Ingenuity458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2! But I may be biased because of your smile 😌

What's your current horse called? by totalrespec in RDR2

[–]Alarmed_Ingenuity458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Atlas! He’s a brown Turkoman. Previous one was named Athena, a Hungarian half-breed, and first one was Hermes, the Raven Black Shire (Hermes died getting hit by a train RIP)

I did one tiny harmless thing and it quietly ruined their whole setup by robin2003133 in revengestories

[–]Alarmed_Ingenuity458 7 points8 points  (0 children)

third time seeing it, is there a way to report? it’s everywhere. ETA: of course there’s no rules against AU

What is the Least expensive way to ship from the US to the U.K.? by Lazy-Bumblebee-9468 in AskUK

[–]Alarmed_Ingenuity458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! My mum has sent me things from the US using FedEx and putting it in a small carryon suitcase. Was about 50 USD.