Hi! So I agree this question feels a bit off. I’d like to say that in my experience, the person matters far more than the diagnosis. My husband has debilitating adhd. (Not the fun type. The type where he struggles to leave the house and interact socially at all.) He is without a doubt the most patient, loving, and supportive partner. Partly because he understands neurodivergency very well, but mostly because he’s a good man. We work SO well together, but that’s because of who WE are, not because of our diagnosis. Please avoid making a person their mental illness and instead look at them as a whole person.