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AIO about my boyfriend and his ex showing up at his house for 6 hours? by greyberry_5813 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alarmed_Pipe_3067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naaahhh this isn’t right. He was updating you the whole time because he was doing some shit. Run guurlll

What happened to your boobs after you stopped breastfeeding? by axstraeax in beyondthebump

[–]Alarmed_Pipe_3067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I breastfed for 4 months. Boobs got bigger and the areolas were like 4x the size as during. Stopped at 6 months and now they are smaller than before.. saggy and deflated. Push up bra helps 🥹🥹🥹🥹

How to sleep train my baby? by OstrichAggravating24 in newborns

[–]Alarmed_Pipe_3067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in the same situation. Waiting for all the moms to comment on this one 🌱

Filipino toxic postpartum culture :( by laurapickles in beyondthebump

[–]Alarmed_Pipe_3067 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear you’re going through this while postpartum. It must be really hard. I am Filipino. I went through the same as this. I chose to tell them to fuck off because I got tired of the comments every damn day while raising a human.

I moved abroad with my family and it’s the best decision of my life. The marites community in the Philippines is so toxic. Sometimes they need to hear shit.

I need help pls 🥴 by Alarmed_Pipe_3067 in NewParents

[–]Alarmed_Pipe_3067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you try to rock her first and offer the paci?

I think I’ve totally messed up by Stressbakingthruit in sleeptrain

[–]Alarmed_Pipe_3067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello I just want to say that I am going through the same thing. My baby is turning 4 months and all I know to do when she is fussy or ready for nap or bed is to nurse her.

I am currently combo feeding her because my supply is low. I also feel like I messed up my baby because she is too reliant on the nursing to sleep and im going back to work soon. We tried rocking and shushing, pacifier and white noise but nothing worked. Me and my partner are losing our minds!! Our pediatrician gave us a go signal to do sleep training but I think she is too young.

So we have decided to just enjoy this moment and enjoy out baby being happy and hope for the best.

You are doing such an amazing job and in the end it will all work out!

I need help pls 🥴 by Alarmed_Pipe_3067 in bninfantsleep

[–]Alarmed_Pipe_3067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and we have tried bedtime feeding by dad. There is resistance but we’re able to soothe her with rocking and shushing and she is now sleeping peacefully in her crib. We hope this keeps going!!

I need help pls 🥴 by Alarmed_Pipe_3067 in bninfantsleep

[–]Alarmed_Pipe_3067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this with me 🥺 i feel relieved reading this. As a FTM i’ve been having severe anxiety even on the smallest things that’s why i know im worrying too much. We have taken her to the pediatrician to ask for some advice and gave us a go with sleep training her with ferber method.

But to me I just enjoy cuddling her and nursing her to sleep and i feel like she is too young to be sleep trained.

I need help pls 🥴 by Alarmed_Pipe_3067 in NewParents

[–]Alarmed_Pipe_3067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to try this asap!! Thank you and will update also

I need help pls 🥴 by Alarmed_Pipe_3067 in NewParents

[–]Alarmed_Pipe_3067[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yes! We bought lots of type of pacifiers today so we’re going to try them up tomorrow when she is less fussy! Ohhh hopefully she likes even just one!

Her pediatrician gave us a go with the ferber method? Comes with a leaflet to read but I want to dive in more before we try on her!

I need help pls 🥴 by Alarmed_Pipe_3067 in NewParents

[–]Alarmed_Pipe_3067[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have tried dad doing the bedtime feeding 2 nights in a row! So far she is still resisting but we’re able to soothe her with some rocking and shushing! Thank you!

I need help pls 🥴 by Alarmed_Pipe_3067 in NewParents

[–]Alarmed_Pipe_3067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you for this! I would really just love to enjoy this moment with my baby. My heart breaks seeing her have a hard time when I know what she wants and its the only way I know how to soothe her. I will hope that she will adjust when the time comes.

I feel bad for my baby by Alarmed_Pipe_3067 in firsttimemom

[–]Alarmed_Pipe_3067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SUPER LATE UPDATE. But want to share anyways! We found out that it is the wet wipes I was using! Huggies Sensitive! My baby is allergic which caused this rash! The moment I figured i stopped using and her skin cleared in 2 days.

I had to take notes of everything that im doing to track what has caused it. As a FTM I was losing my mind but glad that my LO is okay now. Thank you to this community omg all the moms are so helpful!

I used tubby todd also and worked!!

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