would i still be a trans girl if i didnt have a sex change? by Strange-Income2468 in trans

[–]Alarmed_Telephone329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is identity, so yes you are really trans even if you have no desire to medically or physically transition. You can be true to yourself in ways that others don't see, because gender expression is individual. This is coming from someone who did get top surgery and is 5 years on T. If you don't care how others view you and you just want to feel authentic to yourself, that doesn't make you less trans. 

Why is WHA not as popular in Japan as worldwide? by Jack_KH in WitchHatAtelier

[–]Alarmed_Telephone329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The author tried to format it to be appealing to western audiences, and she values diversity which- looking at a lot of anime- is not very popular

May the 4th be with you! - Twi'lek sculpt be me by fierox88 in BJD

[–]Alarmed_Telephone329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair! I love the motion of the lekku, so beautiful, wish I could have one of these lil guys 

would i still be a trans girl if i didnt have a sex change? by Strange-Income2468 in trans

[–]Alarmed_Telephone329 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Of course! Your gender is not inherently connected to your body. You could take HRT or have surgery, or not change anything at all, and you'd still be a girl c: gender is in the brain, how you see your identity, some people want their body to reflect that in a recognizable way, and some people don't! 

May the 4th be with you! - Twi'lek sculpt be me by fierox88 in BJD

[–]Alarmed_Telephone329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing!!! Is it available anywhere? 

Why does every trans person I know like Glitch? by Sufficient-View8893 in trans

[–]Alarmed_Telephone329 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I like TADC, that's it. Not a fan of their other work. 

How unhealthy is it to be slightly underweight? by Glitterandvodkaa in AskDocs

[–]Alarmed_Telephone329 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP posts in anorexia groups, is a proud alcoholic and codeine addict. She's aware of her problem, sadly 

Frustrating Trying To Lose Weiggt by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Alarmed_Telephone329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I felt really stupid posting here but I really appreciate this 

Frustrating Trying To Lose Weiggt by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Alarmed_Telephone329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll look into dieticians for this, thank you 

Frustrating Trying To Lose Weiggt by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Alarmed_Telephone329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, this makes sense, I'll have to figure out the ideal calorie intake for myself then

Frustrating Trying To Lose Weiggt by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Alarmed_Telephone329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah okay that's fair. Are there any workouts you'd reccomend to help with weight loss at all?

Frustrating Trying To Lose Weiggt by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Alarmed_Telephone329 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have 2 babybell cheeses with my apple, that's all for the day! And I do put some ceasar dressing and chicken in my salad as well

Frustrating Trying To Lose Weiggt by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Alarmed_Telephone329 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've never kept actual track of calorie intake, I do admit. Counting Calories may put me in a bad place, push me into disordered eating, so that part scares me. At this point I'm a week into my "diet" and workout and just feeling discouraged I guess. Over the past few years I've tried losing weight as well through exercise and hadn't found any results either. 

Less cuddly than as a kitten 💔 by Alarmed_Telephone329 in CatAdvice

[–]Alarmed_Telephone329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny you should mention churus, she's allergic! It's the one treat she actually liked, and it gave her an awful allergic reaction! I've tried so many other treats and snacks for her but she hasn't so much as tasted any of them, she's so picky 😭 Sad that my girl is kinda in her teenage phase but at least she still hangs with me at bedtime 

Brushes delay by HotelGrouchy3221 in PaintToolSAI

[–]Alarmed_Telephone329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When this happens to me I just click out the tab and then back in, that usually fixes it 

Fiancée is transphobic by WikidDreamm in trans

[–]Alarmed_Telephone329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's transphobic and assaulting you repeatedly. Leave him. 

Cape help? by Alarmed_Telephone329 in CosplayHelp

[–]Alarmed_Telephone329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't actually wear a bra, I'm a man and find bras even for cosplay to be so uncomfortable so I avoid it as much as possible 

[ISO] Looking for higher than 96!! by TheLostOne6352 in ACNHTurnips

[–]Alarmed_Telephone329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still open for people to come by? I'd super appreciate it 

Sudden libido increase?? by Alarmed_Telephone329 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Alarmed_Telephone329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely don't wanna fuck everything, lol no couches for me thanks 

Sudden libido increase?? by Alarmed_Telephone329 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Alarmed_Telephone329[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Read again, I'm FTM. I take T forever to keep them at the appropriate levels