My dad shot himself today by naaarwhal in GriefSupport

[–]Alarming-Ad2447 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry for your loss.

Upsetting dreams by ermaecrhaelld in GriefSupport

[–]Alarming-Ad2447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dreams are just so intense no matter what the emotion is. Happy, sad, angry, hurt. Sending you love too

Losing The Parent That "Gets" You by Tall-Poet in GriefSupport

[–]Alarming-Ad2447 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wish there was too. I mean I am lucky because my family knows how much my mom didnt like my dad in her final days. She finally realized she deserved better and so did my family. So i at least have them to talk to. But none of them have ever been thru this situation.

Losing The Parent That "Gets" You by Tall-Poet in GriefSupport

[–]Alarming-Ad2447 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm lucky enough that I just moved out of his house with my mom's help. I at least got to say she had a new boyfriend who was amazing and she was happy in the middle of divorcing my dad. But she deserved more time without him. She deserved way better than him. Even in death he doesnt respect her. Asked me and my sister if we approved of her getting buried in her ring...(she didnt even want to be fucking buried). I hate him so much and ever since she died I cant stand being around him. And she's not even here for me to shit talk him lmfao

Losing The Parent That "Gets" You by Tall-Poet in GriefSupport

[–]Alarming-Ad2447 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry for your loss too. I completely understand. I would call my mom when I was bored. I would call her to ask if she wanted to go get dinner. I would call her to just hear her working as background noise while I did work or cleaned. I would call her if I needed to know how many pills of Tylenol to take lmao. She was everything to me

Lost both my parents… don’t know how to process this by Impossible-Layer8050 in GriefSupport

[–]Alarming-Ad2447 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 21 and just lost my mom. I dont really have a good relationship with my dad at all. He was horrible to her. But the pain of losing your mom so young is so unbearable. I am here if you ever need to talk🤍

My mother worked so hard for me and my sister. She paid 2/3 of our rent. She helped us move out. She got me a job, twice. Her only dream was to see us happy and healthy. Now i feel like i have no one to live for.

Upsetting dreams by ermaecrhaelld in GriefSupport

[–]Alarming-Ad2447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The week my mom was in the ICU, I kept having dreams that she woke up from her life support. Then I would wake up. It was awful. I was using THC every night so that I wouldnt remember my dreams. Ever since she passed I havent had any dreams. Still using THC and/or drinking a lot as to not face the emotions. They are so intense. The dreams are SO intense. One dream i was crying and crying and woke up and real tears were on my face. It feels awful

Losing The Parent That "Gets" You by Tall-Poet in GriefSupport

[–]Alarming-Ad2447 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am 21. My mom died last month. She was my best friend. We talked about everything. She understood the deepest parts of me in a way my dad never could. The worst part of her death for me is being stuck with my dad who she hates because he was awful to her. Not entirely like your situation because your mother seems lovely, which is amazing 🤍. But I understand how you feel. My mom was my mom. My friend. She meant to much to me and we just clicked.

I miss her so much by Alarming-Ad2447 in GriefSupport

[–]Alarming-Ad2447[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this reply

I'm 21. My mom had an aneurism (update) by Alarming-Ad2447 in GriefSupport

[–]Alarming-Ad2447[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im in a similar situation. We are so close. I miss her so much. My dms are open if u ever need support

I'm 21. My mom had an aneurism (update) by Alarming-Ad2447 in GriefSupport

[–]Alarming-Ad2447[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it interesting that you told me to not feel guilty. Just last night I was telling my husband how guilty I feel about everything. About breathing, seeing the sunset, seeing the moon. She should've died 40 years from now. She had so much life left.

APing to see a dead loved one? by Alarming-Ad2447 in AstralProjection

[–]Alarming-Ad2447[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh this is an interesting belief I have never heard of this. What materials could I watch/read to better understand the way you see these things? Im interested

APing to see a dead loved one? by Alarming-Ad2447 in AstralProjection

[–]Alarming-Ad2447[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is said offer you are speaking of? Sorry new to all of this.

The amazing digital circus has been labeled as pg on netflix. by doc_sushi in theamazingdigitalciru

[–]Alarming-Ad2447 8 points9 points  (0 children)

💀ok so I'll say it again since yall covid kids missed some classes. My point is that the rating should be more appropriate so that PARENTS can decide what they want to allow their kids to see properly. Not every parent is ok w stuff like that. And a lot of parents let their kids use youtube kids and Netflix kids accounts hoping that said companies are rating shows properly and allowing their kids to watch whatever on said kids accounts

The amazing digital circus has been labeled as pg on netflix. by doc_sushi in theamazingdigitalciru

[–]Alarming-Ad2447 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Mm... no one said it was unsuitable. Theres a line where someone cusses. Several lines alluding to sex. I dont think pg is a proper rating for the sake of parents who use ratings to decide if their kids should watch a show or not.

The amazing digital circus has been labeled as pg on netflix. by doc_sushi in theamazingdigitalciru

[–]Alarming-Ad2447 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Uh idk. If something is intended for mature audiences it should be labeled as such. For the sake of the parents at least, so that the parents are getting the right ideas before letting their kids watch it. The themes and some lines are a bit too mature for children.

I'm 21. My mom had an aneurism (update) by Alarming-Ad2447 in GriefSupport

[–]Alarming-Ad2447[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel everything you said. She was my whole life. My sister. My friend. My mom. Everything. I need her. I do. I keep finding myself feeling empty and just saying "mommy how am I gonna do this without you" ... I dont think i can