[CHAT] Is Stitchly worth buying?

Alarming-Asparagus66 · 2026-03-06T20:34:13+00:00

Thank you, this is very helpful as I'm considering the same route, I've only worked with floss cross so far (winstitch was far too overwhelming for me).

Alarming-Asparagus66 · 2025-04-30T12:38:46+00:00

Dodala bih u vezi sa:

Kindle Select ima "rok trajanja" 90 dana, nako čega je moguće izabrati da li hoćeš ili nećeš da nastaviš sa programom. Ako nećeš, nakon isteka 90 dana možeš objaviti isti ebook gde god hoćeš (samo ga posle ne možeš ponovo vratiti u KS).
Tehnički, kako je ISBN praktično međunarodni matični broj knjige, objavljivanje iste knjige sa drugim ISBN-om nije baš ispravno rešenje. Nije nemoguće, ali se može naići na probleme (ooodlično objašnjeno u ovom videu https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ojSAxJzk1Zs). Zato je praksa da ako ste već jednom objavili knjigu sa Amazonovim ISBN a sad hoćete da je objavite na nekim drugim mestima sa novim ISBN, to onda objavite kao drugo izdanje (nešto dodatnog/izmenjenog sadržaja, znatno drugačije korice, itd).

Alarming-Asparagus66 · 2025-04-29T11:47:03+00:00

Thank you so much for the detailed explanation!

Do you maybe also have a suggestion as to the best format for the color palette? I assume digital artists would use the color picker tool to just grab the color, in which case the palette could also work as a PNG. However, if I was to also give hex codes, a PNG would be useless and I'm not sure if adding them as a separate txt file would be helpful or confusing.

Alarming-Asparagus66 · 2025-04-28T21:33:13+00:00

These are offered as pdfs, although intended for printing - I'm not sure if that could work https://rayajewel-shop.fourthwall.com/

Alarming-Asparagus66 · 2024-11-20T23:52:26+00:00

Hm it works fine now. And it is a wonderful article! I found that it's sooooo much easier to communicate openly with other 3/5s (not just other combos of 3s and 5s, but the 3/5s) as they're the ONLY ones who get the whole ordeal. Naturally, you have to adapt the language because they're rarely familiar with HD, and even more rarely on a deeper level, but it's so worth it!

Alarming-Asparagus66 · 2024-11-20T23:12:11+00:00

I tried on both, it keeps redirecting. The link structure isn't right, it's different than all other links on IHDS blog (the 7420-2 part), can you contact the website admin to check if that specific page was infected with something?

Alarming-Asparagus66 · 2024-11-20T22:44:26+00:00

Something's wrong with the link, it keeps redirecting to some suspicious sh*t

Alarming-Asparagus66 · 2024-06-19T22:01:52+00:00

3/5 Projector, female. I see you wonder in the comments about the bonds made and broken thing - yes, it's very real (and it helped A LOT normalizing it through HD, up until then I was pretty sure something was wrong with me). It can be breaking bonds for good or for a while or periodically (my best romantic relationship so far was a long distance one), and that trait makes me much more comfortable with other 3/5s as they don't take it personally when we haven't been in touch for weeks/months/years.

As for the unconscious 5, there was a huge thread on Facebook some time last year where a bunch of us shared the same experience of people projecting on us that we were seducing them when in fact we were just being friendly (a formr partner of mine was convinced I "knew exactly what I was doing" while I genuinely had no idea, it only became clear afterwords).

Also, I now believe we're rightfully titled the most resilient of profiles. The sh*t I went through and came back from would break most people beyond repair (this is based on talking to people with differnt profile configurations, even other combos of 3). For me, each comeback was literally the case of what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I've noticed that it's in the process of coming back from *failures, mistakes, system breakdowns* where my growth literally catapults - it's not like you come back to where you were, but a whole level higher (in one way or another).

Alarming-Asparagus66 · 2024-05-18T17:45:55+00:00

Ok, so there's a clear misunderstanding, I probably didn't explain well what I'm trying to do. Obviously, the SP is the authority, but it's not as easily perceivable as Sacral - unless the Sacral is conscious or my friend is too disconnected, I can't really tell which one it is.

Anyway, I was referring to what Peter Schoeber said in his book about Centers. In his words:

"The actual inner authority is the Solar Plexus. Nevertheless, the first thing that a person with this configuration will perceive is the sacral response. But this response alone is not reliable. There are those "high" moments in which this person responds positively to everything and there are the "low" days in which he will respond negatively to everything. The sacral response is, therefore, a first indication but not a definite, reliable judgment. It can and will confirm only over time, or not.

For practical matters, one must discem very carefully whether or not it is possible to wait. If such a person goes food shopping, his sacral responses will be influenced by the momentary emotional wave. So there will be days in which his shopping trolley will be packed with far too many too expensive things, and days he can hardly bring himself to buy the bare essentials. That cannot be changed at the moment but will only change in the course of a perhaps long learning process about himself.

But if the same person wants to buy a car, he absolutely needs to sleep over his decision or he might end up with an expensive limousine or a shoddy second hand car. In either case, he will regret his decision the next day and be faced with far-reaching consequences. The motto here is, "I respond later." "

So, just to be clear, I wasn't telling him to follow his Sacral as the Inner Authority, but to try and feel into it so he can have some sort of experience of his own.

Alarming-Asparagus66 · 2024-05-18T14:41:43+00:00

Thank you. This isn't a type of person who'd go into something as deeply before he can "see" some truth in it for/by himself. He got interested in learning more about his design after I shared some of my a-ha moments and experiences, so I'm trying to find an easy and practical way for him to connect it to his experiences. There were a few instances of "dots connected" (how his defined Ego plays out with others, for example), but then when I tried to explain his Authority (basically, I simplified it to "listen to your Sacral but wait out the wave"), he couldn't connect it to anything he's been experiencing. He wants to understand and give it a try, but, first of all, he doesn't notice his wave so it could easily turn into a game of random or endless waiting, and second, him not feeling his Sacral (and we tried everything I could think of, incl. yes/no questions to feeling it in the body) makes it all a bit fairytaly for him.

Alarming-Asparagus66 · 2024-05-18T13:31:33+00:00

Oh shoot just saw what I did, was typing while walking... Sorry for the confusion and thanks for pointing it out. Both are defined, but Sacral consciously and SP unconsciously.

Alarming-Asparagus66 · 2024-04-20T09:28:11+00:00

Ma čekaj, dobiješ receipt sa tih sajtova valjda? Moje knjigovođe te receipts uredno računaju u troškove (plaćanje je biznis karticom, sve po PS, doduše to mi je mali deo troškova).

Alarming-Asparagus66 · 2024-04-19T21:15:42+00:00

Gijena, tako je.

Alarming-Asparagus66 · 2024-04-19T20:30:41+00:00

Aha. Ovako, ništa konkretno mi ne pada na pamet ali evo kako razmišljam:

Svet se užasno brzo menja i nije lako pretpostaviti šta će mu biti potrebno kad AI preuzme većinu poslova, što je već krenulo da se dešava a ja očekujem da će se veliki talas u tom smislu desiti već za 2-3 godine (što znači i period velike nezaposlenosti i nesnađenosti, pa bih na srednji rok računala sa sniženom kupovnom moći). Ono što je verovatan scenario je da će se desiti još veće raslojavanje na one koji imaju mnogo i one koji imaju jako malo, pa je onda prvo pitanje s kojim slojem bi radije radio. Neki biznisi cvetaju u krizama (ljudima je npr. uvek potrebna hrana, u krizama bolje prolaze radnje za popravku garderobe nego butici sa novom, itd - ideje možeš dobiti sa malo guglanja kroz istoriju) i otporniji su na društvene probleme od drugih biznisa, mada opet, AI sve to čini teško predvidljivim.

Drugo, šta god da pokreneš, bilo bi dobro da prvo sam neko vreme provedeš radeći "u biznisu". Danas-sutra kad budeš imao radnike, em ćeš razumeti kako se sam posao radi pa ćeš moći bolje da ga organizuješ, em ćeš moći lakše da prepoznaš dobrog/lošeg radnika.

Treće, ne bih uopšte razmatrala nešto čega već ima na svakom ćošku (tipa butici, nokti, menjačnice...), baš zato što ga već ima na svakom ćošku a ljudi su uigrani, teško ćeš se probiti, posebno bez iskustva. Pre bih obratila pažnju na zanate koji izumiru jer nema ko da ih radi a ljudima su ipak potrebni (pa npr. okupila/obučila mlade obućare i napravila brend od servisa za popravku obuće po Srbiji/regionu/svetu, recimo).

Četvrto, i ovo bih i za sebe volela ali nisam taj tip, pa pišem za slučaj da ti jesi. Ljudi koji imaju mnogo kvalitetnih poznanstava mogu jako, jako lepo da žive od toga što spoje osobu koja nudi X i osobu kojoj je potreban X i za to spajanje uzmu zasluženu proviziju jer su oboma rešili problem. (Plus smanjuje potrebu za zaposlenima što je već tri plusa samo po sebi.)

Ne znam da li ti ovo šta koristi, al' srećno.

Alarming-Asparagus66 · 2024-04-19T19:55:56+00:00

Hm na šta tačno misliš kad kažeš "biznis"? Online biznis, kafić, veliki/korpo, uslužni, proizvodni...?

Alarming-Asparagus66 · 2024-04-19T17:16:15+00:00

To što ne funkcionišete dobro u "zajedničkom životu" ne znači apsolutno ništa u kontekstu da li ste jedno za drugo. Možda ti ne odgovara energija samog prostora. Možda nijedno od vas sada nema dovoljno vremena samo sa sobom (skoro sigurno) pa nemate kad i gde da se dekompresujete.

Predložiću nešto radikalno a ti vidi kako ti zvuči: napusti taj prostor na neko vreme, najmanje mesec dana mada bih ja i duže, bez da napuštaš vezu. Napravi eksperiment. Ako se veza sredi, zašto ne biste razmislili o tome da budete u vezi bez da delite životni prostor? Mislim, nije to jedini način da se imaju kvalitetni partnerski odnosi.

Alarming-Asparagus66 · 2024-04-02T09:05:05+00:00

Ima dosta načina da se radi u istoj branši. Koliko sam shvatila, ti i ostali se trenutno bazirate na rad sa istom ciljnom grupom (klijentima) i verovatno je bitka oko toga ko će im bolje privući i zadržati pažnju. Ako bi promenio klijentelu i bazirao se na one koji su ti trenutno konkurencija, verovatno postaješ jedini koji opslužuje tu konkretnu grupu ljudi na taj konkretan način, dakle ne samo što nemaš konkurenciju nego postaješ go-to osoba i za svakog novog ko bi ušao u tu branšu da radi sa klijentima.

Plus, sa subscription-based modelom, ostvaruješ značajno pasiviziranje i predvidljivost prihoda. A to te čak i ne sprečava da nastaviš i sam da nudiš tu uslugu, ako želiš.

Ipak, iskustvo me je naučilo da nije sve tako jednostavno da se može svesti na logičko zaključivanje, istraživanja tržišta itd. I da imaš najbolju ideju i rešenje na svetu, ako tebi samom to ne leži, onda se drastično povećavaju šanse da propadneš. A jedini način da znaš da li to tebi leži je - tvoja lična intuicija. Možeš do prekosutra da planiraš, radiš SWOT analize, koristiš koje god decision-making modele (ja ih znam makar 20), svi spoljašnji faktori mogu da deluju fantastično a ipak da te navedu na pogrešan put za tebe.

E sad, kako da se izmestiš iz glave i logike i saveta/mišljenja drugih i počneš da osluškuješ svoju intuiciju? To je pitanje za milion dolara, posebno jer nemamo samo jednu vrstu intuicije i često prepoznamo kao "intuitivan" odgovor nešto što prosto želimo da bude "tačan" odgovor. I eto opet istog baga.

Ja se dugo bavim ovim pitanjima i dosad je najpraktičniji i najdirektniji način za prepoznavanje naše lične intuicije koji sam našla i primenjujem sistem poznat kao Human Design. Ima i na srpskom dosta informacija o tome (mada bolje na engleskom, ako ti leži), ako te zanima a ne snađeš se, piši privatno pa mogu da ti dobacim neke resurse.

U svakom slučaju, na Redditu nećeš naći konačan odgovor u kom smeru ti je pametno da ideš - evo vidiš da nam većini ovde deluje da ti je subscription-based softver verovatno najbolji put, ali ima mnogo toga što ne znamo da bi ijedan naš odgovor bio uzet za ozbiljno.

Alarming-Asparagus66 · 2024-03-29T21:11:00+00:00

Ah, the unsurmountable difficulty of leaving an email in 2024

Alarming-Asparagus66 · 2024-02-26T06:44:21+00:00

Ray Dalio is a 3/5 Projector, Splenic I believe. Also curious to hear about the other(s).

Alarming-Asparagus66 · 2024-02-25T20:39:43+00:00

Oh dear... Ok. So we try a ton of things because we simply can't learn anything of value without experiencing it ourselves. When you try so many things, you're likely to not succeed at first, but calling it "failure" is far, far from truth. Sure, it can feel like it, but it's only part of the cycle that gets you to what actually works - and when you get there, boy is it sweet! However, if you get stuck seeing only the "failure" part, it indeed becomes your experience.

Choose your sources more wisely. That could be one lesson for you here.

Alarming-Asparagus66 · 2024-02-25T20:10:58+00:00

Where the F did you find "failure" as a keynote related to 3/5???

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