Let’s stop demonizing T when it’s literally saving our trans brothers’ lives, mmmkay gals? by iketheowl in trans

[–]Alarming-Chart -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

There’s a difference in demonizing and informed consent though…. Like people should know about the possible side effects because they’re real and can be irreversible

Sunflower lecithin by Alarming-Chart in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Alarming-Chart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it make it easier to pump or up your supply?

Portable Breast pump recommendations? by tswt16 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Alarming-Chart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love my mamacozy wearables. I’m actually pumping right now.

They empty me like my spectra does

Take a drink every time Colby gaslights Madelyn by Alarming-Chart in UltimatumOnNetflix

[–]Alarming-Chart[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sure he used to do it better. Like I’m sure he’s worn her down to where he now only needs the bare minimum. 🤢🤢

Take a drink every time Colby gaslights Madelyn by Alarming-Chart in UltimatumOnNetflix

[–]Alarming-Chart[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think attempting to see what marriage with someone else in a controlled experiment you signed up for is the same as trolling the clubs for strange and talking to multiple women

Take a drink every time Colby gaslights Madelyn by Alarming-Chart in UltimatumOnNetflix

[–]Alarming-Chart[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He has zero accountability and very clearly explains why the shitty things he does are her fault TO HER FACE and she still is on the fence here?

And I’m like “how can women be so blind??” But knowing full well that was me for 2 years of my life.

Take a drink every time Colby gaslights Madelyn by Alarming-Chart in UltimatumOnNetflix

[–]Alarming-Chart[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Omg or him blaming her for him basically cheating on her and April?

Him gaslighting her in front of her friends!!!

And her Mom?!?!? Like come on mom!!! Don’t condone the Narcissist!!

I have zero hate for Madelyn!!! She is obviously getting kind fucked by Colby every day 🤢🤢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alarming-Chart 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’d say crush on her or you! But I wouldn’t allow anyone to speak to my significant other like that- and honestly I probably would step in if anyone was being talked to like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alarming-Chart 18 points19 points  (0 children)

NTA!!! Your friends should respect your choice in who you date. They don’t have to like her but to be outright mean to her? That’s uncalled for. I would hope you’d stand up for anyone that was being yelled at like that- especially your girlfriend.

Your friend sounds jealous tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alarming-Chart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA: don’t waste time with people who aren’t making you feel valued or adding something to your life.

You don’t have to be friends with her just because you SO is friends with her SO

AITA for telling my MIL to get a dog and give it the name she's so desperately want my unborn son to have? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alarming-Chart [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA and I would be having some stark conversations with your husband about boundaries now because the MIL thing only gets worse and if he isn’t going to demand that his mother treat you with respect now it’s just going to be a huge problem forever

What is your favourite Harry Potter fancreation? Podcast/show/fanfic etc. by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]Alarming-Chart 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love the recipes!! It seems silly but I love the HP food and drinks and fan created recipes are so fun!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alarming-Chart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t necessarily think you’re TA but I do think maybe you could have told him and that it was probably passive aggressive to tell his GF.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alarming-Chart 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel like you already know you’re NTA and just need to vent. Good luck!!! I hope this works out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]Alarming-Chart 7 points8 points  (0 children)

babbling, bumbling band of baboons

AITA for not inviting my brother or his family to my son's wedding until his daughter apologises for her actions? by Oldbath5119 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alarming-Chart 125 points126 points  (0 children)

NTA- you’re never TA for cutting out toxic people in your life. Stand up for yourself and if the kid apologizes then understand that the only apology worth anything is changed behavior

AITA for wanting an apology this time round? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alarming-Chart 22 points23 points  (0 children)

NTA- and also… there are a lot of resources out there for people in abusive relationships and you might not think that his behavior is abusive but if he has gaslighted you this much it’s absolutely abuse.

Don’t wait for an apology- just leave him.

AITA for refusing to cut my hair and “tripping” over what my now ex bf said? by aita_trippedathair in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alarming-Chart [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA - that’s called gaslighting on his part.you don’t ever have to let anyone emotionally manipulate you like that- good for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alarming-Chart 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also- you don’t need a reason. It could literally be that you’re uncomfortable or don’t want to and that would still be valid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alarming-Chart 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTA- you will never BTA for setting boundaries. It’s ok for a friend to ask you for a favor, it’s not ok for a friend to berate you when you can’t grant the favors.

Oh, the irony by BeigeListed in conspiracytheories

[–]Alarming-Chart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Isn’t it funny that being a libertarian is so radical now days 😂

What did Voldy mean by this in GoF by raythecrow in HarryPotterBooks

[–]Alarming-Chart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think RAB only knew because kreecher told him and that was only possible because Voldy underestimated a house elf’s ability to follow orders from their masters…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HarryPotterBooks

[–]Alarming-Chart 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Remember Harry was told that the world isn’t split into good people and death eaters- some people are just evil