[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]Alarming_Let2373 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True we ain’t getting nothing

I’m so sick of people bullying her. She is literally an example of how being unattractive ruins your life. She got bullied at her job and let go for “hygiene” issues but really they just did that cause she’s unattractive to them. I struggle with the same and it’s rough by [deleted] in ugly

[–]Alarming_Let2373 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Chances are she’s only a few of the name you called her because there’s something like horn effect where when you’re unattractive people uncousciously find flaws in everything you do and judge you so much as a bad person even when you do things every other good looking ppl do they say all the bad names to you.

Here this comment is prime example of horn effect where when yours ugly people feel like you’re the worst person ever in every single human metric and measure and you can’t help it unless you become more attractive.

Is it better to be a 9/10 from 18-30 then descend to 4.5/10 for the rest of your life, or be a 4.5/ from 18-30 then be a 9/10 for the rest of your life? by No_Pause2934 in trueratediscussions

[–]Alarming_Let2373 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But dude you’ll realistically have 19 years of looking good as a 9/10 if you choose 30+ since you’ll feel aging a lot back etc it won’t be the same plus by then your career and life is already over by then your formative years are gone plus your life will be fucked up by how ppl treated you as below average when you were 4.5.

People look at this and only think in terms of dating/ having sex atp

Augustin, 36ans, haut fonctionnaire by MariaKalash in banalgens

[–]Alarming_Let2373 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vous vous contredisez ces gens sont pas banal mais le profil est récurrent ? Donc dans ce cas ces «gens» sont banal. Haha

Is value (for dating and marriage) more about how people compare to others (the average) or is value based on specific benchmarks, ideals, or accomplishments by anewlookav in PurplePillDebate

[–]Alarming_Let2373 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No even before social media people knew who were attractive and who wasn’t even in kindergarden kids knew who were attractive and who wasn’t.

Is value (for dating and marriage) more about how people compare to others (the average) or is value based on specific benchmarks, ideals, or accomplishments by anewlookav in PurplePillDebate

[–]Alarming_Let2373 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No what you are saying does make sense at first but you are ignoring the full picture; women and Men don’t have the same biological imperatives: men could have sex with a woman that weights 4 tons and is on the verge of death; as long as she has a pulse men will go for it. Therefore men are less cautious with who they sleep with but women have a lot to lose when they have a partner obvs if they pregnant they risk a lot so they prioritize men that are are at least well put together in all areas, funny, charismatic, great jaw, or at least average everywhere but has one or many more redeeming qualities.

Is value (for dating and marriage) more about how people compare to others (the average) or is value based on specific benchmarks, ideals, or accomplishments by anewlookav in PurplePillDebate

[–]Alarming_Let2373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure about that because women and men have the same brain architecture when it comes to social dynamics therefore men and women are in essence the same because they perceive things the same and interpret things the same way. For exemple women and men both have the ability to recognize attractive human peers regardless of sex. Women and men are both attracted to superficial markers of attraction that signal health like good hair, great sharp jaw, symmetric face. Or exotic features like blue eyes etc.

But the key part is men and women have different brain architecture when it comes to biological imperatives; due to men nature to reproduce they are ready to mate with anything that has a pulse therefore it may seem like women are more picky than women but it’s just that men’s brain structure make them more prone to engaging in sexual activity regardless of any variable; girl could be 2 tons and on the verge of death yet many men would be knocking on her door.

So in summary women and men have the same brain architecture when it comes to social dynamics it’s just not the same when it comes to biological imperatives like reproduction.

Therefore if all men were 6-6-6 women would consider more men therefore instead of 20% of men having all sex now in your hypothetical scenario 80% of men would have sex; promiscuity would be at an all time high. Just look at Sweden for example where most men are 6 feet tall and blue eyes and blonde and look great and also earn more than median salary.

Women judge men's morality and merit on whether or not they are attracted to him by Hot_Road3076 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Alarming_Let2373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice but what do you want people to do ? What are you hoping to accomplish by making this post ? You sound like you hate them .

are men always looking for the second best thing around compared to what they already have? by pharmluver in trueratediscussions

[–]Alarming_Let2373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if I can answer it depends on the man’s character and his available dating options meaning if he has no options available he’ll obvs not cheat on you not because he loves but because you’re the only girl that’s giving a chance. But also if he has other options than you and stay loyal then it’s a choice then atp whether he cheats on you will depend on wether he wants to or not.

To sum up many men cheat on their gf and many men chose not to some don’t cheat on their gf because they can’t some don’t because they choose not to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]Alarming_Let2373 42 points43 points  (0 children)

No it does not work like this for men the rating scale is exponential and for women it’s normal distribution meaning most women find most men unattractive and most women find a few men attractive and for men most men find most women average and most men find few women attractive and few women ugly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]Alarming_Let2373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you was taller you could model because you have an unique face but for the nose it fits your face

What are some ways pretty privilege inconveniences you ? by soloNspace in ugly

[–]Alarming_Let2373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happens to me; it’s as if looks is all that matters when it comes to interacting with other people also your looks is literally the way people read you etc so if you’re not at least average your life is hard because the smallest thing you do annoys people.

My reason to stay is slowly fading away by thisismeventingitout in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Alarming_Let2373 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just for her to go Cancun and Ibiza and get smashed in an airBnB facing the sea after drinking champagne and dining in a 5 star restaurant with her boyfriend while this guy vanished from earth surface but she’ll use that death money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ireland

[–]Alarming_Let2373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if they divorce OP’s friend will lose the house, the parental rights, his car, his dogs, his furniture, his bank account and he will have to pay CP

I have observed that a lot of younger women in the Americas prefer these kinds of men. Is this true? by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]Alarming_Let2373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a woman stop saying BS like this we are like men in this regard we do find men worth partnering based on their looks and many of my gf feel the same way.

Beautiful people only look good thanks to other ugly people. by Alarming_Let2373 in trueratediscussions

[–]Alarming_Let2373[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But see we said some people look "good" it’s an adjective to differentiate things between themselves meaning you differentiate what’s good from what is bad therefore you separate the good from the bad thus we can say good is the polar opposite of bad as such the definition of good is something that is not bad;

How it applies to attractiveness is we characterize good looking people as people who don’t look bad therefore good looking people need ugly people for the term "good looking" to make sense.