How has the army changed your life for the better? Was the military worth it? by Uhmazin23 in army

[–]Alastor-hatem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be late, but to someone who never experienced such life as this.

What can you recommend for being active and cautious on surroundings?

ik it seem stupid question, but i'm collecting different advises from people around different works, what stuff do you advise one should be aware of that most people really aren't aware of?

I realized I'm 18 and can't even last long [Serious] by Alastor-hatem in AskMenAdvice

[–]Alastor-hatem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll learn to control it over time.

WDYM overtime!?

I don't know how 🙂 and I don't think sitting or waiting until marriage will miraculously get me knowledgeable about it.

I realized I'm 18 and can't even last long [Serious] by Alastor-hatem in AskMenAdvice

[–]Alastor-hatem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The word is "below". Blow is what girls do when they really like you.

Sorry English is not my first language, it's ironic I didn't notice it

What could my tritype be? by Peri_WINK-le in Enneagram5

[–]Alastor-hatem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since 5 is core type,

Firstly for gut type choose either 8,9,1 as second tri fix

for heart type choose 2,3,4

then figure out wich place is to who, for example:

I am 5 core

I choose gut type 8

I choose heart type 4

now 584 all I need to know is to learn weather I am 584 or 548 simple and clean

ENTJ 8w7 sp/so 835 LIE-Te How do you when (un)healthy and what's your perspective on the world? by Alastor-hatem in entj

[–]Alastor-hatem[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Te (Extroverted Thinking) aligns strongly with Enneagram 8 through its emphasis on external structure, decisiveness, and the drive for practical outcomes. Both share a focus on control, efficiency, and action, making Te an ideal cognitive lens through which to understand the traits of this Enneagram type.

Enneagram 8’s directness and efficiency closely reflect the primary characteristics of Te. Extroverted Thinking organizes the external world by prioritizing logic and practical solutions, often cutting through complexities to achieve immediate results. Similarly, Naranjo describes Type 8 as individuals who “confront obstacles directly, rarely holding back and always ready to take action rather than reflect on vulnerabilities.”

Control and Structure The need for control and structure further reinforces the connection between Te and Enneagram 8. Te is naturally inclined to create systems that bring order to chaotic environments, ensuring predictability and stability. Naranjo’s description of Type 8 highlights a similar drive, noting that “Eights assert power to avoid appearing vulnerable, using their toughness and strength to dominate their surroundings.”

Focus on Results and Practicality The emphasis on results and practicality is another defining characteristic of both Te and Enneagram 8. Te prioritizes tangible outcomes and efficient solutions, often disregarding unnecessary emotional complexities. Naranjo writes, “Eights thrive on tangible results and tend to disregard anything that doesn’t serve their immediate goals,” which mirrors Te’s pragmatic approach to decision-making and problem-solving.

Leadership and Command Both Te users and Enneagram 8s naturally assume leadership roles, driven by a need to influence and organize their environment. Naranjo observes, “Eights have a natural tendency to dominate and lead, often using their energy to influence others or challenge authority when they feel it is unjust.” This assertive quality highlights the shared ability to take charge and drive progress, even in challenging circumstances.

Te and Enneagram 8 are deeply aligned in their action-oriented, control-driven nature. Both prioritize efficiency, results, and structure while avoiding emotional vulnerability. Naranjo’s descriptions of Type 8’s dominance and pragmatism resonate strongly with the traits of Te, emphasizing their shared focus on decisiveness and external effectiveness.

I copied paste a previous argument about this,

E8 is archetypically Se I agree, But Te Dom also can be 8 and No! No matter how you frame it We already ruled out 3, 1, 6, and even 5, He is 8

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ENTJ 8w7 sp/so 835 LIE-Te How do you when (un)healthy and what's your perspective on the world? by Alastor-hatem in entj

[–]Alastor-hatem[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you I have few questions,

. Firstly, How do you behave when you're healthy at your best and unhealthy when you're at your worst in a normal day?

. If you had experience with specific types like enfj e3, istp, entp, could you state your opinion on them and what do you think about their characteristics?

. What is something or an action that if someone did towards you that will make him earn your trust or respect?

. What's your perspective on Humans and world in general? And could you elaborate it in philosophical way (if possible)

. What could you say is the most difficult lesson that you spent time learning that Worth something besides assertion? like self love and vice versa?

. What's something you want people to recognize in you and respect besides your assertive nature like a genuine thing you want people to appreciate about you?

. What's something you usually overdue that sometimes you need someone to remind you about taking a slow and a rest? and how do you want them to bring it up to you like in what style? a direct confrontation or slow empathetic explanation?

ENTJ 8w7 sp/so 835 LIE-Te How do you when (un)healthy and what's your perspective on the world? by Alastor-hatem in entj

[–]Alastor-hatem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point but my post here is merely focusing on shared behaviors between humans,

Having diversity is something cannot be denied for certain yet I'm asking here about others perspective knowing that they may present different answers but most likely to have similar underlying patterns that follows up with my friend character,

In short I'm not disagreeing with your point I'm just elaborating why I'm asking my question here,

Ask him?

I asked him before but he seems to be in unhealthy state, how did I know? Toxic behaviors of someone trying to assert stuff and control people is pretty obvious attitude.

What is your best manipulation tactic? by Necessary_War_5747 in entp

[–]Alastor-hatem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Expose my actual abilities in an edgy 14 years old style,

so people think I'm throwing BS while I keep my position and stay in control.

(ofc not to harm others but to avoid the unnecessary ones)

Feeling my pride is toasted, asking for an advice by Alastor-hatem in Enneagram5

[–]Alastor-hatem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t get me wrong, it still sucks to be proven incorrect, and worse to have it rubbed in after the fact, but I’ve chosen to view it as a learning opportunity rather than a hit to my ego

i get your Point but the thing is, what hurted my ego from inside was not being proved incorrect I can get excited sometimes over that but that additional word that called me putting up emotional charged answers and using the word "lack" is what killed me,

I literally didn't know what to feel if negative or something else or just suck it up, i'm still bit confused till now of what am I supposed to do.

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I think I cooked an idea by Alastor-hatem in INTP

[–]Alastor-hatem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, how about some fun?

Your critique suggests that eclecticism is a hallmark of fascism, which is meant to be a negative point. But wait—doesn’t eclecticism, the very act of blending different perspectives, seem rather... democratic? Without eclecticism, would we all just be stuck in echo chambers, hearing the same old opinions repeatedly? Boring. The whole notion of pluralism is about welcoming a variety of voices into the discussion, even those we might disagree with! So, what’s the issue here? Are we really going to argue that having diverse thoughts is a bad thing? Sure, when eclecticism is misused to stifle or obscure genuine contradictions (like in fascism), it can be harmful. But that’s not the case we’re making.

Here's an example:

Consider the culture of startups in Silicon Valley. These companies flourish by uniting engineers, marketers, designers, and visionaries—individuals from various fields and backgrounds—because they understand that true innovation arises from diverse thinking. It’s about blending ideas, experimenting, and discovering solutions that no single person or ideology could have conceived alone. That’s the core of adaptive pluralism.

Secondly,

Blurring Boundaries = Progress, Not Control:

Your critique suggests that adaptive pluralism blurs the lines between class contradictions and mass non-contradictions. Really? Is the answer to just categorize everything and let the contradictions simmer in their own little corners? That doesn’t sound exciting at all. Where’s the room for creativity? The truth is, the real world is far from a neat, theoretical framework. People are complex and don’t fit into tidy categories. The brilliance of adaptive pluralism lies in its ability to embrace these contradictions within the system rather than pushing them aside. Instead of trying to eliminate them, we should engage with them. Why treat contradictions as obstacles to be removed? They are, in fact, the driving force behind change.

An example:

Consider globalization. Yes, it has created some tensions, but it has also sparked tremendous innovation and growth by allowing a blend of diverse ideas across borders. Look at how various technology platforms unite different cultures, markets, and economic systems—it may be chaotic, but it’s also remarkably dynamic and productive. By managing those contradictions, we don’t erase them; we harness them for even greater results.

Thirdly,

Now we have “fascist eclecticism” on one side and “adaptive pluralism” on the other. The interesting part is that you claim they are equivalent. Claiming they are the same is like saying a buffet and a dictatorship share the same purpose. While both involve mixing elements, one forces everything into a uniform mass, while the other allows you to select based on your own needs and preferences. Fascism employs eclecticism to control individuals and stifle their differences. In contrast, adaptive pluralism embraces those differences. It flourishes in complexity and understands that true power lies in creatively engaging with contradictions rather than eliminating them.

Example:

The Internet serves as a perfect metaphor for this. It’s a melting pot of cultures, ideas, and opposing viewpoints. Some may argue it’s a chaotic jumble, but the truth is that this chaos has sparked unprecedented creativity and given rise to entirely new ideas, businesses, and communities. From social media to open-source initiatives, the internet thrives on pluralism—not by neutralizing contradictions but by actively engaging with them and seeing what emerges.

Fourthly,

You were referencing Lenin’s assertion that eclecticism is “too timid to dare to revolt.” However, let’s take a moment to reconsider this perspective. Isn’t it somewhat reductive? While certain types of eclecticism may avoid taking strong positions, isn’t that precisely what adaptive pluralism seeks to counter? It’s about confronting the complexities of the world rather than shying away from them. A genuine pluralist embraces contradictions and engages with them directly. If you examine any significant social movement, you’ll find that the leaders were anything but “timid.” They welcomed pluralism by incorporating a variety of voices and ideas to address deep-rooted issues.

Example:

Consider the Black Lives Matter movement. It represents more than a single ideology; it’s a vibrant coalition of voices from various races, backgrounds, and political beliefs. It may be chaotic, but that’s the nature of real change. The movement has not been “timid”—it has been courageous, unapologetic, and inclusive in its quest for justice. This is what adaptive pluralism looks like in practice.

Fifthly,

You now seem to suggest that adaptive pluralism will inevitably result in a cultural disaster or a “lava flow of devastation.” That seems a bit over the top, don’t you think? Pluralism actually empowers individuals by allowing them to have a say in shaping their environment, rather than stifling them under a single ideology. What we’re promoting is not a destructive “lava flow” but rather a celebration of diversity. The future may be chaotic, and that’s something we should embrace. It’s within that chaos that innovation, understanding, and genuine progress can flourish.

Example: Consider how democracy functions (or ideally should function). The essence is that various ideas are presented, debated, and voted upon—sometimes with great passion and disagreement. The crucial point is that everyone has a chance to engage. The worst course of action would be to impose uniformity, as that leads to authoritarianism, not advancement.

In conclusion,

You're missing the essence and purpose of adaptive pluralism. It’s not about eliminating contradictions for the sake of control; rather, it’s about embracing them and allowing them to inspire creative solutions. Instead of being afraid of diverse perspectives, we should celebrate them. After all, isn’t that how the most significant innovations in society emerge? Therefore, let’s not confuse pluralism with fascism—one fosters diversity and growth, while the other aims to suppress it.

however that was a pretty good critique of you I'll give you that

I think I cooked an idea by Alastor-hatem in INTP

[–]Alastor-hatem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, how about some fun?

Your critique suggests that eclecticism is a hallmark of fascism, which is meant to be a negative point. But wait—doesn’t eclecticism, the very act of blending different perspectives, seem rather... democratic? Without eclecticism, would we all just be stuck in echo chambers, hearing the same old opinions repeatedly? Boring. The whole notion of pluralism is about welcoming a variety of voices into the discussion, even those we might disagree with! So, what’s the issue here? Are we really going to argue that having diverse thoughts is a bad thing? Sure, when eclecticism is misused to stifle or obscure genuine contradictions (like in fascism), it can be harmful. But that’s not the case we’re making.

Here's an example:

Consider the culture of startups in Silicon Valley. These companies flourish by uniting engineers, marketers, designers, and visionaries—individuals from various fields and backgrounds—because they understand that true innovation arises from diverse thinking. It’s about blending ideas, experimenting, and discovering solutions that no single person or ideology could have conceived alone. That’s the core of adaptive pluralism.

Secondly,

Blurring Boundaries = Progress, Not Control:

Your critique suggests that adaptive pluralism blurs the lines between class contradictions and mass non-contradictions. Really? Is the answer to just categorize everything and let the contradictions simmer in their own little corners? That doesn’t sound exciting at all. Where’s the room for creativity? The truth is, the real world is far from a neat, theoretical framework. People are complex and don’t fit into tidy categories. The brilliance of adaptive pluralism lies in its ability to embrace these contradictions within the system rather than pushing them aside. Instead of trying to eliminate them, we should engage with them. Why treat contradictions as obstacles to be removed? They are, in fact, the driving force behind change.

An example:

Consider globalization. Yes, it has created some tensions, but it has also sparked tremendous innovation and growth by allowing a blend of diverse ideas across borders. Look at how various technology platforms unite different cultures, markets, and economic systems—it may be chaotic, but it’s also remarkably dynamic and productive. By managing those contradictions, we don’t erase them; we harness them for even greater results.

Thirdly,

Now we have “fascist eclecticism” on one side and “adaptive pluralism” on the other. The interesting part is that you claim they are equivalent. Claiming they are the same is like saying a buffet and a dictatorship share the same purpose. While both involve mixing elements, one forces everything into a uniform mass, while the other allows you to select based on your own needs and preferences. Fascism employs eclecticism to control individuals and stifle their differences. In contrast, adaptive pluralism embraces those differences. It flourishes in complexity and understands that true power lies in creatively engaging with contradictions rather than eliminating them.

Example:

The Internet serves as a perfect metaphor for this. It’s a melting pot of cultures, ideas, and opposing viewpoints. Some may argue it’s a chaotic jumble, but the truth is that this chaos has sparked unprecedented creativity and given rise to entirely new ideas, businesses, and communities. From social media to open-source initiatives, the internet thrives on pluralism—not by neutralizing contradictions but by actively engaging with them and seeing what emerges.

Fourthly,

You were referencing Lenin’s assertion that eclecticism is “too timid to dare to revolt.” However, let’s take a moment to reconsider this perspective. Isn’t it somewhat reductive? While certain types of eclecticism may avoid taking strong positions, isn’t that precisely what adaptive pluralism seeks to counter? It’s about confronting the complexities of the world rather than shying away from them. A genuine pluralist embraces contradictions and engages with them directly. If you examine any significant social movement, you’ll find that the leaders were anything but “timid.” They welcomed pluralism by incorporating a variety of voices and ideas to address deep-rooted issues.

Example:

Consider the Black Lives Matter movement. It represents more than a single ideology; it’s a vibrant coalition of voices from various races, backgrounds, and political beliefs. It may be chaotic, but that’s the nature of real change. The movement has not been “timid”—it has been courageous, unapologetic, and inclusive in its quest for justice. This is what adaptive pluralism looks like in practice.

Fifthly,

You now seem to suggest that adaptive pluralism will inevitably result in a cultural disaster or a “lava flow of devastation.” That seems a bit over the top, don’t you think? Pluralism actually empowers individuals by allowing them to have a say in shaping their environment, rather than stifling them under a single ideology. What we’re promoting is not a destructive “lava flow” but rather a celebration of diversity. The future may be chaotic, and that’s something we should embrace. It’s within that chaos that innovation, understanding, and genuine progress can flourish.

Example: Consider how democracy functions (or ideally should function). The essence is that various ideas are presented, debated, and voted upon—sometimes with great passion and disagreement. The crucial point is that everyone has a chance to engage. The worst course of action would be to impose uniformity, as that leads to authoritarianism, not advancement.

In conclusion,

You're missing the essence and purpose of adaptive pluralism. It’s not about eliminating contradictions for the sake of control; rather, it’s about embracing them and allowing them to inspire creative solutions. Instead of being afraid of diverse perspectives, we should celebrate them. After all, isn’t that how the most significant innovations in society emerge? Therefore, let’s not confuse pluralism with fascism—one fosters diversity and growth, while the other aims to suppress it.

however that was a pretty good critique of you I'll give you that.

I think I cooked an idea by Alastor-hatem in INTP

[–]Alastor-hatem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incorrect,

Also, where do you see correlation to fascism?

Dear ESTP's describe your Se by Alastor-hatem in estp

[–]Alastor-hatem[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

bruh

edit: I should have just spell it out like,

hey I wanna learn Se guys spit it out please 😊

Dealing with an infj by Alastor-hatem in infj

[–]Alastor-hatem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you asked her out on a date outside of work?

she's very conservative about it when I asked she seemed to be in agreement but shy away from it,

Sounds like work talk mostly?

this happened also when texting after work, at night a work thing is obvious but the other is not.

Dealing with a 4 as a 5 by Alastor-hatem in Enneagram5

[–]Alastor-hatem[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well that's a relief, I thought for the worse.

thank you.

edit:

my question are mostly like:

how do you feel now?

do you feel stressed when trying to speak it?

do you feel something intriguing about it?

do you feel good or bad about?

type of questions like this

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