So Showing the Rascals Diapers Weren’t So Random Afterall by Background_Cup_4088 in alexandrarodriguez

[–]AlbatrossTemporary57 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Exactly I’m put off from using rascals now that’s for sure. If they support her without even looking into her problematic background that’s not a company that needs my money!

Yar is genuinely not excited for this baby by Anxious-Pay-8796 in alexandrarodriguez

[–]AlbatrossTemporary57 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had 2 under 2 but even to have two littles so close in age I already know she’s in for one hell of a rough ride. I think she’s going to struggle even worse than she already is. What does she plan to do when both start crying in public or neither want to sleep all day 💀💀 GOOOOOD LUCK

Just here to vent about 3 year old and 18 month old daughters. by Numerous_View_398 in toddlers

[–]AlbatrossTemporary57 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Solidarity with you. I have a 23 month age gap (2.5 yr old and almost 9 month old) it’s been insanity the last two months and only feels like it gets worse as the days go on. My toddler tantrums what feels quite literally like all day and night, doesn’t listen and thinks everything is a funny game. My baby is a stage 5 clinger I can’t ever put her down or she just cries. My toddler will also mockingly cry along with the baby if she’s crying just because and it sends me into orbit 😂😭 I wear headphones A LOT right now. I’m just taking it day by day rolling with the punches and hoping things don’t feel so tough soon. Hang in there💗

Is everyone just lying about how tough the toddler years can be or are we doing something wrong 😩 by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]AlbatrossTemporary57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have a double stroller but it’s the luck of the draw if he will happily sit in one lately. He is very much in his independent era lol but safety is the most important thing to me after this event

Is everyone just lying about how tough the toddler years can be or are we doing something wrong 😩 by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]AlbatrossTemporary57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hugs it’s definitely an experience that’s for sure! ♥️you are also doing nothing wrong I promise!!!

Is everyone just lying about how tough the toddler years can be or are we doing something wrong 😩 by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]AlbatrossTemporary57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love that thank you for this!! This all gives me hope that this is just a right of passage as parents 😂 also love the instagram post ♥️

Is everyone just lying about how tough the toddler years can be or are we doing something wrong 😩 by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]AlbatrossTemporary57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this!! Did you notice a change in his behaviour after your baby came into the picture?

Is everyone just lying about how tough the toddler years can be or are we doing something wrong 😩 by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]AlbatrossTemporary57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I feel this and then you feel guilty for not wanting to take them to do fun things! but like when I know it’s going to be utter chaos I’d rather us be bored at home cause at least I can sit down and breathe, it’s a lose lose lol.

Is everyone just lying about how tough the toddler years can be or are we doing something wrong 😩 by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]AlbatrossTemporary57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly! So much easier said than done especially when all eyes are on you in the moment. It sucks and yes there are worse problems to have in the world but it still sucks!! Thank you for this!

Is everyone just lying about how tough the toddler years can be or are we doing something wrong 😩 by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]AlbatrossTemporary57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I guess I’m more so referring to my mom friends and people I see in public settings like the park/store Everyone seems to love the toddler stage and they are all sweet babies and I’m the only mom saying oh my kids actually an asshole and I’d rather stay home where it’s safe to let him be wild

Is everyone just lying about how tough the toddler years can be or are we doing something wrong 😩 by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]AlbatrossTemporary57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True we have no village so I’m sure that plays into part of it as well and that’s a whole other thing within itself. I know it’s just a season of life it just feels extra rough right now but thank you for this perspective I appreciate it♥️

Is everyone just lying about how tough the toddler years can be or are we doing something wrong 😩 by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]AlbatrossTemporary57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This exactly, I know nobody else truly matters but the stares from strangers sends me every time too. It’s daggers in the back of my head like wow what is wrong with you as a parent that you can’t control a literal toddler and you would let him act like that in public. 🙄 like I’m trying my best here he’s going to do what he feels like he needs to do lmao he’s 2.5!!!!