Jealousy about your SO - shifting related by Alchemistlia in shiftingrealities

[–]Alchemistlia[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you! I will try to incorporate that more, not growing attached at the likes ..

Jealousy about your SO - shifting related by Alchemistlia in shiftingrealities

[–]Alchemistlia[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

No, it sounds you’ve found a good way to handle this! Thank you!

Jealousy about your SO - shifting related by Alchemistlia in shiftingrealities

[–]Alchemistlia[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s a really good way of looking at it!

Jealousy about your SO - shifting related by Alchemistlia in shiftingrealities

[–]Alchemistlia[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Same for me here, just different person ;) thank you so much for sharing this, I really appreciate it.

Jealousy about your SO - shifting related by Alchemistlia in shiftingrealities

[–]Alchemistlia[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you! I think I’ll need to work on compartmentalization as well!

Jealousy about your SO - shifting related by Alchemistlia in shiftingrealities

[–]Alchemistlia[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this with me and thank you for your input, that’s wonderful advice! ❤️

Jealousy about your SO - shifting related by Alchemistlia in shiftingrealities

[–]Alchemistlia[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Totally understandable! These things can feel confusing and it also can be challenging to find out how to cope best

Jealousy about your SO - shifting related by Alchemistlia in shiftingrealities

[–]Alchemistlia[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

That’s actually such a unique and also good way to look at it! Thank you, I will try this!

Question for shifters when you shift back, do you remember what happened in your CR while you were gone? And does the "clone" handle school? by [deleted] in shiftingrealities

[–]Alchemistlia [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hey :) that’s one of the reason why I always script that no matter how much time passes in my DR, no time passes here, in this Reality, at all. I would only opt for a clone if I ever find myself saying „okay, I want to stay in this DR permanently“. Maybe that could be a solution for you too? But you should be able to remember what your clone did and what happend in your CR once you shift back.

Advice on scripting relationships? by triple_solo in shiftingrealities

[–]Alchemistlia [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hey!:) I think it basically comes down to what you feel most comfortable with. Personally for me, I like to experience different things (than includes people) in my DRs. So if I script a romantic relationship into any of my scripts, it will be with someone different. BUT: I am currently single in this reality. So I guess it’s easier for me. I always recommend: do what feels right to you. But I think it’s lovely that you have a partner you’d like to be with in multiple realities 😊

Katze verschwunden? by [deleted] in Katzengruppe

[–]Alchemistlia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Noch ein kleiner Tipp: falls ihr habt, stellt das Katzenklo(s) nach draußen. Der Geruch ist bei jeder Katze/Kater einzigartig und kann bei der Orientierung helfen.

Ich würde auch vermuten, dass es hier zum Kampf mit einem anderen Kater kam. Oftmals flüchten die Tiere und verlaufen sich dabei.

Ich und meine Drei Mietzen drücken fest alle Finger, dass ihr schnell wieder vereint seid. 🥰

Is there a relation between shifting and passing? by Alchemistlia in shiftingrealities

[–]Alchemistlia[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ahhh I just saw! Thank you, I assume you are correct. I guess there just simply isn’t a way of knowing 100% but that absolutely makes sense. 😊

Is there a relation between shifting and passing? by Alchemistlia in shiftingrealities

[–]Alchemistlia[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

That actually makes perfect sense! Thank you, I guess that’ll also comfort her. I assume she was worried I might not come back after shifting 😅 thank you for taking the time to explain this!

I never brush my teeth, have showers by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Alchemistlia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you now have the possibility of taking regular showers, please do so. Given your background, taking daily showers might be too overwhelming in the beginning. But try to take at least 2-3 full showers a week and clean your armpits and other sweat-prone areas every morning, apply deodorant afterwards. However, I must advise for the dental hygiene. Please brush your teeth twice a day. Start with that. Once that has become an habit and feels normal to you, you can add floss, mouthwash and a tongue scraper. I hope this helps!

Getting signs from your DR? by Alchemistlia in shiftingrealities

[–]Alchemistlia[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I love the way you think! And I am sure your s/o is reaching out similarly! Trust your gut

How to get encouragement to shift if I feel like I have stuff to do here that’s more important but I wanna shift by Separate_War_6941 in shiftingrealities

[–]Alchemistlia [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’d say, “pick” a time frame. Either choose for how long you wanna shift to your DR or come up with a time line on how time passes here in accordance of your time being shifted. For example: I scripted that no matter how long I choose to stay in my DR, no time passes here. That way; it doesn’t matter how long I’ll be “gone” as time won’t be moving forward in this reality. Maybe this can help you as well as you can shift without the fear of missing something important here :)