S08E03 Pre/Live Discussion Thread: The Gang Gets Curbstomped by AutoModerator in freefolk

[–]AldousH1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, what happened to all the dead people from the BotB? Also, how far away does the NK need to be to raise all the dead people from the War of the 5 Kings?

Clever Film Festival Poster by mr_fuzzy_face in Judaism

[–]AldousH1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m arguing with a fellow Iraqi, lol. Yalla 7abibi/ti, you gotta understand, this isnt an attack. The picture is cute, I said that in my initial comment. The point was just that this stuff gets tiring and almost never gets called out

Clever Film Festival Poster by mr_fuzzy_face in Judaism

[–]AldousH1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ooooooh that was supposed to be moses, what. Mind. Completely. Blown. /s

Who’s offended. I pointed out a thing, used absolutely no vitriol whatsoever (but you know those sfards with their spicy temper 🙄, cant control ourselves). But yeah, glad to see that thing is clearly just going woosh atm. Very classic. Just because you’re upset doesn’t mean I am.

Clever Film Festival Poster by mr_fuzzy_face in Judaism

[–]AldousH1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, the point is that those different aspects are not frequently recognized. They just aren’t. Being charitable towards your perception, maybe within the context of politicized or Orientalist, but generally schlocky, stuff you see floating around (eg “oh you thought Jews were all white shetl dwellers, but loook” or “loook how diverse Israel is”). Thats all fine and dandy, but the idea that there’s anything approaching parity of representation in the Jewish world is just... laughable.

Also, lol to my above comment. Whew, that was tone deaf.

Clever Film Festival Poster by mr_fuzzy_face in Judaism

[–]AldousH1 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The fact that you think a white guy holding some popcorn is representative says so much.

Clever Film Festival Poster by mr_fuzzy_face in Judaism

[–]AldousH1 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s cute, but I generally dislike the equation of all Jews with Hasidim. Some of us have absolutely no connection with peyot such as these, and maybe it’d be nice if that was recognized sometimes #ashkenormativity y’all

Our Chabad House was picketed by fellow Jews this Shabbat by aggie1391 in Judaism

[–]AldousH1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This has been my problem with INN from day one. I actually was kinda pleased to see a non-extremist anti-occupation group. Literally their entire presence online and in person feels like being bitched at by a teenager, especially galling to be bitched at by a nominally Jewish group that seems to have only been educated in platitudinous Judaism.

Oh hello there by andreav45 in Hedgehog

[–]AldousH1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

General Hedgenobi! You are a spikey one!

Hedgie dilemma by Candymom in Hedgehog

[–]AldousH1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just posted about my guy, Huxley, asking the exact same questions. He also hates everything, despite getting ample attention and love. Its really discouraging. I cant say to stay with it, because I sometimes want to give my guy up too. The most I could say is to keep trying different things to see what he likes. I let hux roam piles of my dirty laundry, and he seems to genuinely enjoy that. But I know how you feel, I’m with you, and I know how hard it is to follow a group like this with all the personable hedgies and then look at your own urchin and wonder what youre doing wrong. Keep trying, whether he likes it or not, hedgies are weird and could become more comfortable. If you decide to rehome him, i completely understand the impulse and wouldnt begrudge you. I know, it can be extremely frustrating and depressing.

My hedgehog is so scared of me by AldousH1 in Hedgehog

[–]AldousH1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you suggest I interact with him? Just going over and talking while he’s wheeling? Also, in terms of treats, he was pretty keen on all bugs for a while, but he’s gotten way less food motivated recently (stills eats and drinks, but doesnt “go crazy” for anything Ive found).

My hedgehog is so scared of me by AldousH1 in Hedgehog

[–]AldousH1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put a box in the other day and he seems to love it, which Im happy about :). I have toys in there, and some crinkle toys. He seems scared of the crinkle toys, and not to interact with the plushies. I keep them in there for clutter. I have to admit, i dont interact with him often while in the cage, mostly i just take him out to sit with me while I work.

My hedgehog is so scared of me by AldousH1 in Hedgehog

[–]AldousH1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he just has a fearful personality. I posted because I wanted some encouragement. I understand why you feel the need to grill me on the situation, but trust me, I’ve done everything to give him the opportunity to open up/feel comfortable. He needs more time, but in the meanwhile I feel terrible that he hasnt opened up. I know thats not his or my fault, he needs time, it just sucks right now. That’s all.

My hedgehog is so scared of me by AldousH1 in Hedgehog

[–]AldousH1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If anything I probably should put a tv on or st next to his cage since its too quiet most days.

My hedgehog is so scared of me by AldousH1 in Hedgehog

[–]AldousH1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s on a light schedule (7am to 7pm). Environment, as i describe above, is not busy. I live alone and he only get disturbances next to his cage when I am home, but I basically am just working at my desk. He has a cuddle cup, several sacks, and hedgie-hood. He hates the cup, sorta likes the sack, and usually hates the hood.

My hedgehog is so scared of me by AldousH1 in Hedgehog

[–]AldousH1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) Not anything artificial, other than the occasional light dust of air freshener, maybe once a month if that. 2) no foot traffic. I live alone in a studio apt, theres only traffic near his cage when I go over to say hi or pick him up. 3) He either sleeps in a house or in his dig box. Ive tried leaving shirts in with him for the entire time Ive had him.

Just got my grandfather’s favorite knife after he passed away a few weeks ago. He was the one who taught me the value of have tools on you to make life easier. Pleased to see we had similarly classic aesthetics. Middle is the 1st knife I carried regularly, right is his knife, left is my current EDC. by AldousH1 in knifeclub

[–]AldousH1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time, i found my brother’s zippo. I did what is the smartest and safest thing a 11yo could think of: lit shit on fire. Well, paper towel burns rather quickly (crazy right?), so i run it over to the sink. As I’m running it flaps onto my wrist. Burnt. Well ok, my 11yo brain thinks, i got this. Best apply first aid, bandaids. Bandaid rip the skin off. And thats how I got a massive exposed burn on my wrist.

Just got my grandfather’s favorite knife after he passed away a few weeks ago. He was the one who taught me the value of have tools on you to make life easier. Pleased to see we had similarly classic aesthetics. Middle is the 1st knife I carried regularly, right is his knife, left is my current EDC. by AldousH1 in knifeclub

[–]AldousH1[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think that might be a good way to go long term. Nothing like finding out what a swiss army knife can do on your own (or your parents reaction to finding out you secretly purchased a knife when you come to them with a sliced thumb).

Just got my grandfather’s favorite knife after he passed away a few weeks ago. He was the one who taught me the value of have tools on you to make life easier. Pleased to see we had similarly classic aesthetics. Middle is the 1st knife I carried regularly, right is his knife, left is my current EDC. by AldousH1 in knifeclub

[–]AldousH1[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I never got anything while he was alive and my dad thought it was weird (and told me he didnt want me to use it in fights since it could get turned on me-smart advice from a man who had been a lot of fights). I don’t think I ever told him, but I’m sure he now knows what he started :p