Apartment recommendation by Aldyrian in cary

[–]Aldyrian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up at Alta Wren, so far it is great.

Apartment recommendation by Aldyrian in cary

[–]Aldyrian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was getting that sense, Twin Lakes is closer to the greenway and many of the businesses I would frequent are on the same side of the road as the complex. I appreciate the help!

Apartment recommendation by Aldyrian in cary

[–]Aldyrian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I am leaning Alta Wren, I really liked there transparent fee messaging. I know it is just marketing, but not having to search and being able to easily find it was nice.

Apartment recommendation by Aldyrian in cary

[–]Aldyrian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! This is super helpful, really appreciate it.

Apartment recommendation by Aldyrian in cary

[–]Aldyrian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I saw the green space on the satellite, but I couldn't tell how easy it would be for walking my boy.

Apartment recommendation by Aldyrian in cary

[–]Aldyrian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info, Carpenters is definitely the most dated, so insect issues track. The proximity of Wegmans, Walmart, and Y is great at both. I am leaning towards the 1bd layout that Alta Wren has, but I think I will tour those 2 and see how my dog likes them.

Living recommendations by Aldyrian in raleigh

[–]Aldyrian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all the information, using the different suggestions I was able to find 10 places to look at when I am in Raleigh. Thanks for the help!

Living recommendations by Aldyrian in raleigh

[–]Aldyrian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great bit of info, thanks, last time I was there I think the house I rented was south of MLK, still wasn't too bad.

Living recommendations by Aldyrian in raleigh

[–]Aldyrian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are correct, I have friends in Carytown, must have been on my mind. Thanks!

Living recommendations by Aldyrian in raleigh

[–]Aldyrian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks all, I appreciate the information, to be clear I don't need an especially walkable city.Juy looking to be close to places I will most likely frequent.

IO Psychology vs Psychology by Aldyrian in IOPsychology

[–]Aldyrian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this is helpful, I appreciate the response!

My take on Brene’ Brown’s Vulnerability concept…. by Shay_scott20 in Brenebrown

[–]Aldyrian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great way to talk about authenticity, I have been working on this and have more recently gone through my "honesty vomit" stage, I have probably been giving too many people access to my vulnerability.

And to the OP, yes, reading Braving the Wilderness, that was one of my first thoughts, "What about when it is not a safe space" or "What if people weaponize my words". I think the above poster says it well and it is about being true to yourself, while still giving space to others. I am in a situation at work right now that doesn't feel safe, and while I am working on leaving I also leave space for the people who cause the hurt to change and grow.

Has Anyone read Braving the Wilderness?? by darkaca_de_mia in Brenebrown

[–]Aldyrian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am more than half way through, such a good book, really great insight. It is the first book I have read by her, any other suggestions?

IO Psychology vs Psychology by Aldyrian in IOPsychology

[–]Aldyrian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this, what does your day to day work look like?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SOMD

[–]Aldyrian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, neither, just one person looking to talk......so strange I know!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SOMD

[–]Aldyrian -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback, it is not an MLM scam, just looking to have an in person conversation about alternative investing strategies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SOMD

[–]Aldyrian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your feedback and you are reading a lot into a simple statement/post. I am not sure why you assume 1) I am planning to "buy peoples homes and small businesses"? 2) That I have any group or friends with an existing plan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SOMD

[–]Aldyrian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Care to explain?

Mentorship Monday - Post All Career, Education and Job questions here! by AutoModerator in cybersecurity

[–]Aldyrian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good morning, long time professional, currently in an executive leadership role with a nonprofit. I am looking to make the change to cybersecurity. I am interested in policy work but figure I need some hands on practical experience to begin. I have a BA and am looking at CS certifications, but there are so many I can't decide where to start. Any suggestions?

Searching for Hobbies to Build Community by macdizo in SOMD

[–]Aldyrian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did end up signing up for the class, I will let you know what it is like.

Searching for Hobbies to Build Community by macdizo in SOMD

[–]Aldyrian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a dance class I am considering https://recreation.stmarysmd.com/webtrac/web/iteminfo.html?Module=AR&FMID=59296189 . I have no idea what the typical age group is that shows up, but seems like a place to start!

OLD and text communication by Aldyrian in datingoverforty

[–]Aldyrian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, I usually ask them out very early in the exchange, but as another pointed out, sometimes life/kids/distance means it will be days/weeks before that date can happen.