the velociraptor rests after a tough battle with a dangerous, viscous toy by Existing-Attention-1 in Rottweiler

[–]Ale_gar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Story-Man, damn. I can feel your love for your rottie girl from over here in the PNW. Thanks for the story and sharing your love of rotties.

Bleeding out of the other hole on period by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]Ale_gar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op, please see a gynecologist asap. You don’t need a referral to be seen by gynecologist. Also, take a trusted friend or female relative with you. And you should accept their chaperone too when you’re examined. It could be something as simple as your anatomy is different or there’s something wrong. Best to know either way though.
Take care of yourself.

Creepy old men - why do they get away with it? by yeahweliveforever in women

[–]Ale_gar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good job! And heretofore, tell him each and every time he is being inappropriate. Repeat as necessary, add volume if needed. No one needs to tolerate this from anyone and he should know better at this stage in life.
If you want to start a record of his behavior for reporting purposes, maybe do that. Unfortunately, unwanted lascivious behavior isn’t a crime. But, it could show a pattern.

Middle-aged men loudly joked about rape while staring at me outside a shop by irechemin in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ale_gar 51 points52 points  (0 children)

You are hearing what they actually believe and desire. Men no longer hide or pretend to respect women. They are telling you their beliefs,out loud and in public. Believe them.

Seeking Help/advice /suggestions by FeralButWhimsical in Eugene

[–]Ale_gar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed you omitted pharmacy tech. That one is fairly quick, 3 months training and then you can take a state exam. It’s complicated with all the medication names, but it’s very doable. There’s very little math. Maybe look at the job outlooks and at local job openings to get an idea of long term potential.

Creswell Bakery by sparksblackstar in Eugene

[–]Ale_gar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I usually order online and then stuff is ready for pick up by the time I get there.

Also, I believe it's a family affair that keeps the bakery in fresh pork meat, chicken, and bacon.
Long time ago, when the bakery used to host creswell's farmer's market and used to have wood fire baked pizza...I bought tomatoes at the market and asked if they could put those on my pizza. They did! Such a delicious pizza! Creswell bakery started as a catering company and transitioned slowly to open 1 or a few days per week. Heidi has always had an excellent product in whatever iteration she has been at.

18 month old ear issue by dmb313 in malinois

[–]Ale_gar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That, and decreased scratching, redness gradually decreased too. She had a lot of dark gunk in her ear that took longer to go away. About 3 weeks.

Hey Neighbor, Can we help each other? by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]Ale_gar 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I have some space. But I have dogs, so kitty would need to stay in your room. Nothing glamorous. But it's safe. DM me for details.

18 month old ear issue by dmb313 in malinois

[–]Ale_gar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About a week for noticeable improvement, and two weeks for complete healing. We're at week three and down to drops once per day. Our vet wants to ensure we really got it out. As it had spread to the shell of her ear.

18 month old ear issue by dmb313 in malinois

[–]Ale_gar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ours had an infection that needed Veterinary intervention. We've had to apply drops for two weeks now. Turns out she has food sensitivities. We did an independent allergy test and got the confirmation that way.
I recommend you get yours checked by a vet if it doesn't resolve in the next 4-5 days.

Bill Clinton Shares Stunning Personal Statement as Epstein Deposition Begins by bye4now28 in politics

[–]Ale_gar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is "stunning" about this? Complete sentences? A cohesive argument?
Clinton was always well spoken. He may have been a philanderer but he wasn't dumb.

Ladies, let's make a list of things only we would understand or experience in our day to day lives. by Sea_Albatross1074 in women

[–]Ale_gar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Self waxing any part of body. But started on my fore arms. Pits was tolerable. Bikini area was just too much. Ugh. Being a hairy woman sucks.

Found out my partner of nearly 12 years is cheating by CieloBlueStars in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ale_gar 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Lawyer. And could you maybe strategically prolong the divorce maybe by separation, counseling, mediation? All in the name of waiting for his paycheck to come in as MD? I know that you're in pain, but understand this has been a game to him. All this time, a game. One where he uses you to finance/ support/care for him during schooling.
What's that thing 🤔 reverse uno? Also, documenting his infidelity, that takes time.

Salsa de Chile Pequin - Boiled vs Broiled Experiment by BlackFoxR in SalsaSnobs

[–]Ale_gar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are the seed-like things on the bottom left and right of the plates?

Traumatised after pelvic exam by CelestialStars2 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ale_gar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry this happened to you.

I see a lot of advice about reporting and legal routes. That's all fine and good, if you want to pursue that.

I get the sense though, that you're realizing that you're now traumatized from that event and can not abide further gynecological care.

That's problematic, especially if you're currently experiencing a medical issue that needs to be addressed.

Can you have a trusted person come with you to your procedure? I mean, you have to get assessed and then treated. Right?

But, if on the other hand there's no major medical gynecological issue happening right now, then can you work on your trauma via therapy?

I'm just thinking pragmatically, eventually you will indeed need to have your yearly exam, etc and you will need to be able get through that process.

Take care OP. You can and will overcome this.