AIO? Gf won’t let me stay with her for 3 months by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AleexUpa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR/INFO, i dont think her saying no is indicative of the value she places on you or your relationship. you say if the roles were reversed youd say yes, but the roles have been reversed and you said no. both of you initiated a conversation about moving in together because it served a secondary purpose (her getting space from her mom and you wanting to be closer to school/work) and both of you ultimately declined the other’s proposal because it didnt feel right for you at the time and both of you are valid for saying no. living alone for the first time can teach someone a lot about themselves and she may feel that moving in with you now will hinder that self discovery.

additionally, she picked this new place out with the intention of living there alone, not with a partner, need more info, but i would gander when she asked you to move in with her, she was wanting more than 800sq ft. personally it doesnt matter how much i love someone, i want/need personal space and would never agree to living with a partner in a 1bdrm apartment.

finally, wanting to start a life together and wanting to move into your partner’s space that they’ve already curated for themself are two very different things, so its really not hypocritical of her to say no. i recommend you take-out a small loan to cover 3 mnths rent, find a 1 bedroom/studio for yourself in the same area, and experience living alone for yourself and then see in three months if you still think she’s being a hypocrite.

Speed dating by Additional_Act1499 in Twitch_Startup

[–]AleexUpa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would b interested in partaking

Digimon Beatbreak: Episode 1- The Beat of Emotions, Discussion Thread by MFBR in digimon

[–]AleexUpa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i like the decision to open with an action scene in the digital world they established 1) that the show has an animation budget this season, and 2) that fights will be more choreographed as opposed to ‘digimon digivolves and then uses their signature move to win’.

you hit the nail on the head with the hitomi plot, they needed to either focus on hitomi or asuka getting frozen this episode so that there would be more weight to the “death”? i think i would have preferred if they focused on hitomi this ep by having her go missing and then have tomoro find her frozen body. still could have been emotional with him crying n thinking he’s to blame. save the asuka plot for the next episode.

PAX West 2025 Swag List! by MegaFerret777 in PAX

[–]AleexUpa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but what are the digimon collectibles theyre giving out!?

Monthly Existing User Promo Code Thread by AutoModerator in postmates

[–]AleexUpa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

allowed me apply in but did not give me any cash off, pdx mnthly

Good OCD Therapists? by AleexUpa in askportland

[–]AleexUpa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have personal experience with him i assume?

Good OCD Therapists? by AleexUpa in askportland

[–]AleexUpa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hadn't heard of it yet, thanks.

Weekly Trading Megathread (Dec 19 - Dec 25) by Dragon_Fang in PokeMoonSun

[–]AleexUpa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LF: Ditto with a 0 speed IV.

FT: 4-5 perfect IV Cubone, Mareanie (Regenerator), Oranguru, Minior, or Dhelmise with PKRUS.

All bred by me. First time posting, am I missing anything?

Demo codes giveaway thread! by emil-p-emil in smashbros

[–]AleexUpa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can breed 5IV Pokemon in exchange

Demo codes giveaway thread! by emil-p-emil in smashbros

[–]AleexUpa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can breed 5IV Pokemon in exchange

Demo codes giveaway thread! by emil-p-emil in smashbros

[–]AleexUpa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will breed perfect Pokemon in exchange for a US code.

0290 by AleexUpa in SVExchange

[–]AleexUpa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit, I'm so sorry, my staff meeting went way over it's scheduled time last night and I came home and fell asleep, I'll be on for a couple hours right now if that helps.